Female parents break up their daughter’s long-distance relationship and ask her to go home for a blind date. What do you think of such parents?

I personally feel that there are many such parents in society as a whole. Under the guise of considering their daughters, they force their daughters to marry, have children, and live according to their wishes. The starting point is good, but the children may not You will understand their good intentions, and you will definitely blame them or even hate them. And there are many variables in the future, and they cannot guarantee the correctness of their decisions. If the children have any dissatisfaction in the future, they will blame the parents. Therefore, in the end, such parents are completely thankless in front of their children. Young people pursue love, and parents pay attention to suitability

In the minds of young people, marriage without love is meaningless. When faced with marriage problems, young people who are deeply in love are basically rational. Zero, all the standards for marriage are not standards. As long as there is love, the bread can be a little dry. What's more, it can be done without bread. There is a saying from ancient times: Love is full of water!

But no matter what age or where, when Chinese parents face their children’s marriage problems, talking about relationships is a joke. In the eyes of parents, the only criterion for marriage is one word: suitable, suitable family background, age Appropriateness, appropriate distance, appropriate academic qualifications... In short, everything can be put on the table for open discussion. All rules must be consistent. Some rules can be compromised appropriately, but some conditions cannot be compromised. Once there is a disagreement, Parents may beat the couple at any time. Young people live in the present, while parents look to the future

Many young people are confused and do not understand the rules and regulations of their parents. They feel that parents should not want their children to live happily, right? I am very happy and happy in this relationship at the moment, but my parents' beating of mandarin ducks is obviously destroying this happiness. Some young people even hate their parents in the process.

However, Chinese parents are accustomed to using their own life experience and life's "truth" to judge their children's future happiness, to assess the risks of marrying far away, the distance back home, the dietary differences between the two places, etc. Such pyrotechnic parents are short-term and would rather play the role of bad guys once the risk factor is too high. Therefore, looking at the trivial noises of life, I do not deny that the parents who break up their daughters’ long-distance relationship and ask their daughters to go home for a blind date may be unreasonable. It is a wrong behavior for them to interfere in their children’s lives, but I prefer to believe that they are doing it for their children. Person in charge, after all, there is a saying: "Parents love their children for the long term." I hope that all children can understand the good intentions of their parents, and I also hope that all parents will not interfere or control their children's lives at will.