How to comfort people in a bad mood, how to convince people in a bad mood

1. Let the other party finish the venting. When a person is depressed, he is either talkative or silent. In fact, the gushing one is more comforting. He is willing to spit out all the unhappiness in his heart. You just need to be a quiet listener, listen to his nagging and comfort him according to his meaning, and his mood will be much better. But silent people hide their troubles and pains in their hearts, and it is the most uncomfortable to comfort them. You can only keep silent with him, or tell some jokes to let him slowly put down his burden and tell his troubles, so that you can continue to comfort him.

2. Know the cause of the incident. When people in a bad mood talk about their troubles, you can know the cause of the matter. It is often the authorities who are stubborn and obsessed with a dead end. As a bystander, it is easier for you to see things clearly. However, it should be noted that the whole thing is just what you heard from him. When you are in a bad mood, when you look at one thing, you will inevitably have a subjective sense of self and exaggerate your troubles and pains. People who always feel the most hurt, otherwise how can they be in a bad mood and need comfort? You should objectively analyze the true colors of things and make correct judgments.

3. Say what the other person means. Is it as the other party said, is he wronged? As a comforter, you can't go against each other's words, which will only make him more angry. In this kind of anger, even if the person who did the wrong thing is really him, you should follow the other person's meaning. As long as you do it, his anger will gradually decrease, at least not increase. Wait until the other person's mood is stable, and then come to him to communicate effectively and reason with him. People can only listen to advice when they are calm.