Son: Mom, where do I come from? Huo Siyan’s “textbook” answer is a benchmark for parents

"Mom, where do I come from?"

This innocent question from a child is tantamount to a "soul torture" for parents, and the parents' answer is also Just varied.

Faced with such a simple question of biological origin, most parents hesitate to answer it. Even if they can answer it, it is ridiculous. Do parents really not know? Of course not, but I'm embarrassed to say it.

The cat at home was pregnant. In order to make Uhem feel the preciousness of life, Huo Siyan took her son to the pet hospital for a pregnancy test. During the pregnancy test, I saw the moving movements of the kitten in the B-ultrasound, and curiously asked, "Is that a baby?"

Huo Siyan pointed to the B-ultrasound photo and replied: "Yes. , Uh-huh, you also jumped like this when you were in your mother's belly." Maybe she also felt the magic of life. Uh-huh, she asked Huo Siyan very warmly: "If I jump in your belly, will you feel uncomfortable? "

Huo Siyan then told her son that she did not feel uncomfortable but felt very happy. When she was pregnant with him, she was most looking forward to having a B-ultrasound so that she could see him.

Uh-huh, he then asked: "Mom, where do I come from?"

Faced with such a question, Huo Siyan did not avoid the topic in a secretive manner; He told his son generously that he was born from his mother's belly, just like a kitten giving birth to a baby.

This answer is very bold, and it is a model teaching material that all parents should learn from. You should know that not everyone will seriously answer this question from their children.

1. The parents’ avoidant attitude hinders the growth of their children

Most parents in China are “talking about sex”. Once their children ask questions, the parents will choose Avoid answering, always thinking that he is too young and it is too early for him to be exposed to sexual knowledge. On the contrary, this will hinder the child's growth.

Parents who don’t answer once don’t have to expect to patiently explain to their children in the future. Children who are full of curiosity have no choice but to seek knowledge on their own. It is unknown whether the results are correct and whether the method is "healthy".

2. Parents’ confusing and prevaricating attitude makes children fall into self-denial and doubt

Faced with children’s curiosity, parents avoid answering, which will only cause him to ask endless questions. , at this time, the impatient parents will throw a few excuses at random to their children, such as picking it up, giving it as a gift, or jumping out of a stone.

Some words may seem like a joke to parents, and they can be used to fool their children. However, children are very naive and can easily take these words seriously. They will fall into self-denial and doubt, thinking that they I really picked it up.

1. Sex education is a "compulsory course", and the attitude of parents is very important

Children are born with a blank slate and are very curious about everything in the outside world. It's always full of big questions. Among them, curiosity about the body and doubts about sex will occasionally be raised. This is normal, and it is also a "compulsory course" in children's growth and family education.

Parents should not ignore their children's questions or even deal with them casually. As long as the child asks, the parents must answer; even if the child is embarrassed to ask questions, parents must educate their children in a timely manner on what kind of sexual awareness they should have at a certain age.

2. Don’t be afraid if sex education is difficult to talk about. “Picture book education” is very useful

For children’s sex education, watching documentaries, listening to lectures, reading materials, etc. are too formal and are not effective. Let the children accept it naturally and appropriately, but most parents find it difficult to communicate with their children face to face due to face reasons.

Under such circumstances, it is the best choice to enlighten and educate children about sex through picture books.

The knowledge in the picture book is relatively easy to understand, and the pictures are vivid and interesting. The popularization of sexual science is very direct and vivid.

Here, I recommend the picture book "Mom, Where Do I Come From" to everyone, which explains in detail how life was born? Why are you a boy and I am a girl? Wait for a series of questions to let your children receive healthy sex education.

There are 4 volumes in a set of books, and these 4 series all start from children's body cognition.

Proper sex education can not only make children aware of their own bodies, but also enhance their awareness and ability of self-protection. At the same time, children will gradually understand how to treat other people's bodies, which is respectful behavior, let them know to be responsible for their own actions, and help build good interpersonal relationships.

In addition, this set of books also has three other series, which provide popular science about children’s bodies and cultivate children’s self-awareness.

"My Teeth Are Shaking": Bringing children into the dental family can help babies who don't like brushing their teeth become more proactive.

"My Mind is the Strongest": Help children correctly understand their physical abilities, expand their thinking and enhance their confidence.

"I Travel with Rice Grains": Let children understand their own body's digestive system and develop healthy eating habits.