Jia Baoyu has never tried to marry Lin Daiyu. Does he really love Lin Daiyu?

Jia Baoyu loves Lin Daiyu, but his love is not so pure, far from loving himself.

First, Jia Baoyu's love for Lin Daiyu is more about relaxing himself. When Jia Baoyu is with xiren, Baochai and Shi Xiangyun, they will persuade themselves to do scientific research and learn the way of officialdom. Jia Baoyu is bored to death. He doesn't like such girls, and he doesn't like girls putting pressure on himself.

And with Lin Daiyu, there is no study, no scientific research, no officialdom, only hello and I am good, you laugh and I laugh, only miscellaneous books, anecdotes and so on. This is a relaxed and happy feeling. Jia Baoyu likes this feeling and is attached to it.

Second, Jia Baoyu is a typical "central air conditioner". If Jia Baoyu really loves Lin Daiyu, it is impossible to have a relationship with someone who is gratifying, let alone be so close to Qingwen, and let Xue Baochai's "golden marriage" pass around in the Grand View Garden.

Jia Baoyu was very good to Sister Lin in front of her, but when she was not in front of Sister Lin, she was very bad to Qingwen, Fangguan and Pinger, and kept a distance from other women, showing a warm man's responsibility.

In modern terms, Jia Baoyu is "central air conditioning". He made it clear that he wanted to marry Lin Daiyu, but he never asked his grandmother, let alone his mother.

Jia Baoyu did it for himself from beginning to end. If Mrs. Wang is conservative, it is because the Jia family doesn't like to marry her for life, and he doesn't tell them that he wants to marry Daiyu. In fact, he can think of other ways to talk to Jia Lian, to Wang Xifeng, to his eldest sister-in-law, You Shi, and to Aunt Xue.

Many things don't need to be said by yourself, just talk to one of them and let them do something. They must be enthusiastic, they must be aboveboard for Jia Zheng, let Mrs. Wang, Mrs. Jia and others think about it.

Unfortunately, Jia Baoyu never thought about it, never considered it. He just wants to immerse himself in the present and his comfort zone. He has no plans for the future. He always muddles along, every second is a second.