In "Settle Down", conflicts broke out between the Kan family. What was the reason for the breakdown of their marriage?

The division of labor in the family between the male and the female, has brought the conflict between husband and wife to the verge of intensification. Kan Wentao's cheating was the trigger that completely broke the relationship between the two.

The male dominates the outside and the female dominates the household? A cold and hard-like division of labor in the workplace.

The original intention of two people setting up a family is to have a shelter from the wind and rain, and to have someone who can rely on their pillow at any time. If it is just to improve life efficiency and save personal living costs, marriage is not a good choice. Kan Wentao and his wife have been working hard together since they were young. As their careers grew bigger and bigger, his wife had no choice but to choose to stay at home to take care of things and give up her career. The division of labor system in which men work outside and women work inside naturally makes Kan Wentao's career better and better. However, this cold division of labor has forcibly reduced Mrs. Kan's own value to almost nothing. It is the cruelest thing to a woman with ideals and ambitions. harm.

For a cheating man, Mrs. Kan gave up her career where she could shine freely, squatted in this small house of 100 square meters and became a resentful wife, burying all her youth and friends. Under this division of labor, Kan Wentao did not understand his wife's sacrifice, and Mrs. Kan blindly tolerated and gave in, making the rift between the couple comparable to the Mariana Trench.

Kan Wentao’s cheating? Men’s instinctive pursuit of new things.

It is a well-known fact that men will become bad when they have money. When the family and career are both successful, the most instinctive curiosity in men begins to take effect. Kan Wentao began to get lost in getting along with the beautiful girl. He felt the passion of youth that had not been seen for a long time. This kind of neglect of the family and extremely irresponsible behavior eventually exploded the rift between the couple. Because Zhifou pressed harder and harder, the little self-esteem that had been left was once again crushed into the dust by this little girl. Mrs. Kan’s independent consciousness Finally returned. A "home" that a husband doesn't cherish is like a joke. Isn't it enough for him to devote all his youth to it? Do you have to deal with the sadness for the rest of your life?

In the end, Mrs. Kan’s choice of divorce was a tragedy for the family, but it was her greatest kindness to herself.