After three months of divorce, I finally lived out of myself. The woman made a circle of friends, and her ex-husband blushed. What do you think?

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In some women's cognition, marriage is her ultimate harbor, so after marriage, when both husband and wife need one person to contribute to the family, a woman will not hesitate to shoulder this heavy responsibility.

Although there are many independent women who can take care of their families after work, that's because every family is different. Not every woman can take care of her family while working.

Therefore, in real life, many women have to quit their jobs after marriage and take care of their families wholeheartedly.

However, when a woman is sacrificing her career and maintaining her marriage, her husband doesn't understand, which is undoubtedly hurting her heart.

However, what makes women more helpless is the moment when they have to reach out to their husbands for money and look at men's faces.

Maybe, a man will feel that he is the financial security of the whole family, but he doesn't realize that his wife gave up her career because of the family and in order to let him work with peace of mind.

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If a man doesn't change his mind and takes his wife as his burden, then the marriage will be unfortunate.

Xiaoxi is a full-time wife. Before she got married, she was also an elite in the workplace, and she was constantly promoted in her career, providing herself with superior living conditions.

However, after she married her husband, there were too many trivial matters at home. Her mother-in-law was in poor health, and she was hospitalized every three days. Her father-in-law was old and it was difficult to take care of her mother-in-law, and her husband was an only child. So, the task of taking care of her mother-in-law naturally fell on her husband's shoulder.

Her husband's job pays a little more than Xiaoxi's. If her husband often asks for leave, it will have an impact on her work. After comprehensive consideration, the husband and wife decided to let Xiaoxi resign and take care of her mother-in-law while taking care of their small family.

At that time, she was young, and Xiaoxi didn't think too far. She thought that she wouldn't let her husband lose her job, so she chose to sacrifice herself for the family instead of her husband.

In the first few years, their life was still very good. The woman was in charge and the man was outside. The perfect husband and wife partner managed their marriage very harmoniously.

However, day after day, year after year, when Xiaoxi ran out of savings, she had to reach out to her husband in the face of the expenses of the whole family and the expenses of providing for her in-laws.

Of course, the husband has no objection. After all, they agreed to give up a person's job at the beginning.

However, after a narrow-minded man has made great financial contributions, he will make demands on those who depend on him. For example, after her husband came home from work, he began to command Xiaoxi who was busy in the kitchen, making tea for him for a while and handing him something for a while.

Since then, Xiaoxi has delayed the cooking time, failed to start dinner on time, and her husband began to complain again. In short, what Xiaoxi did was wrong.

Being a housewife for such a long time, she has lost herself, running between the elderly and children every day, and bearing the complaints of her husband.

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Gradually, she also felt very wronged. Obviously, she paid so much for her family and the elderly. Her husband doesn't care about anything at home except work. Now, he has to turn around and complain about her.

she doesn't want to do anything that she can't earn money, but everything is for her family, and she has no money to earn. A person's patience also has a certain limit. When she is oppressed for a long time, resentment will arise in her heart.

Xiaoxi's husband is getting more and more extravagant. Over time, Xiaoxi doesn't tolerate him any more. When he complains that he is too hard and Xiaoxi still wants money from him, Xiaoxi also complains that he doesn't care about his family, and the whole family depends on himself.

husbands often say that, "How hard can you be if you just cook a meal and look after the children and the elderly?" Xiaoxi will also say, "Why don't we change, you take care of the family and I go out to work."

There is no effective communication between husband and wife. Every time you argue with me, gradually, their marriage has problems.

The biggest problem is that her husband complains too much, and Xiaoxi doesn't want to bear the injustice of being thankless, so they have to choose to end their marriage.

After the divorce, Xiaoxi found a job, and her ability has always been very strong. After working for three months, she was promoted and raised. At the same time, she also felt that she had regained her self-worth, so she sent a circle of friends and wrote: "After three months of divorce, she finally lived out of herself."

Immediately, she received a message from her ex-husband, saying "I'm sorry" with a blushing expression. Perhaps, the ex-husband has realized that what he did at the beginning was too irresponsible and manly. Therefore, when he sees Xiao Xi feeling in his circle of friends, he will feel blushing.

A woman really loses a lot of self-space after getting married. If she works outside, she has to work and take care of the children. She must be as busy as a bee every day, and sometimes she doesn't have time to eat by herself.

If a woman is a full-time wife after marriage, she will also have many difficulties of her own, such as taking care of the elderly and children, looking after her husband's face, and so on, and many household chores need her to worry about.

It's not easy for a woman, just like it's not easy for a man to earn money outside. Therefore, both husband and wife are not easy for each other, and they should understand each other. They should not complain about each other when they feel that their contribution is greater than the other half.

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Husband and wife are the closest people in the world. Women give up their careers for their families simply because they love their husbands and are willing to pay for their marriage.

Since ancient times, every family has been based on the idea that men earn money to support their families. Although there are also examples of women going out to work and men cooking at home, in most families, men's careers are still the mainstay.

When a woman sacrifices herself for her family and quits her job, a man should not feel that he earns more money than a woman. In fact, when a woman loses her self-worth and can't show her talents in the workplace, it is the biggest loss for her. In her family, the loss of her career is the biggest pay.

men work very hard, but while women do housework at home and take care of their parents and children, she is not relaxed, and her work is no less than that of men. In this case, both husband and wife are paying for this family.

Therefore, we must tolerate each other and understand the other half's difficulties. It is precisely because it is not easy that husband and wife should work together in Qi Xin to manage your family and your marriage well, and everything will be fine, and both husband and wife will feel very happy.

Happy marriages are run by husband and wife, not by complaining. The more complaints, the wider the cracks in marriage. Men are generous, women are virtuous, and marriage will be happy.