Why do women choose to compromise after domestic violence?

Domestic violence is a very shameful thing and an unacceptable thing, but there are still many people who choose to forgive and continue their original lives even if they are domestic violence. There are also many people who say that they have been abused. What else did they do? You should get a divorce quickly. I just want to say that such people don't understand the situation, because many people have children and choose to endure them for the sake of children. There are still many people who have no financial ability to support their families and can only bury their pain in their hearts.

My junior high school classmate's family life is not very good. His family is a poor household, and his parents put all their hopes on him, but he is very competitive. He did very well in every exam, but the cost of going to school was unbearable for his family, so I seldom saw his father. Every time I went to his house to play, his mother was at home alone, but then something even more unfortunate happened, and his father's work leg was injured. His family's financial resources were directly cut off, and his father couldn't make any money, so he began to put all the responsibility on his mother, and then beat her in a quarrel. His mother is very sad, this is the first time to hit her. When we went to his home to study together the next day, his father was still angry when he saw his mother's face was still black and blue.

Until his parents divorced four years later, my classmate was much more silent than before in recent years, but he was admitted to the university and the school was not bad. His parents had a bad relationship since the domestic violence, but his mother put up with him until he went to college. Because the child is so old, his future cannot be affected by his parents' relationship, so he can only endure the pain for so many years.

In addition, when I was a child, domestic violence often happened in my neighbor's house. Especially after drinking alcohol, men could always hear the sound of throwing things and hitting people, but when they saw it the next day, they were innocent. They are still living a normal life. I didn't know the reason at that time, but later I learned that because the woman is in the countryside, she doesn't know what to do and how to make money, and she can only make a living by the money earned by the man, so there is no way, even if she is abused.

Many times, domestic violence compromises not because this person does not want to resist or divorce, but because he has many concerns and can only choose to compromise. I understand this way, but I don't agree. Everyone should actually be understood and loved, not used as an outlet. It is also necessary for all people who have been abused by domestic violence to be brave and dare to resist for themselves, because only by standing up for themselves will the perpetrators be afraid, otherwise they will have to bear all this alone, even if you are doing it for the children.