Why is Ding Jiali's love affair with Sun said to be incompatible?

Ding Jiali, 20 years old, has won major awards and nominations, as well as two plum blossom awards, and enjoys the highest honor in China's drama circle. This is a top actress who Ge You is willing to play a supporting role, but she is more miserable emotionally than anyone else. Ding Jiali didn't look at love well. He had two marriages, two divorces and four miscarriages. Ding Jiali, 40, fell in love with her grandson 1 1 year-old. This is a beautiful brother-sister relationship, but it was abandoned after Sun became famous. After falling in love with Sun for four years, Ding Jiali is still single and has never had any marriage. Maybe he has let bygones be bygones in his heart, but he just doesn't want to get into trouble again.

Ding Jiali, who was abandoned by her parents and suffered from stuttering skin disease, was praised as the "civilian film queen" by many people, but she had an unfortunate childhood experience, and suffering always shrouded her whole childhood. From 65438 to 0959, Ding Jiali was born in an ordinary family in Jiamusi City, Heilongjiang Province, but his parents preferred sons to daughters. Ding Jiali suffered from skin disease when he was born, and his whole body festered, but this was only the first misfortune in his life.

The biological parents felt that their family was poor and didn't like their daughter very much, so they abandoned Ding Jiali and sent him to their adoptive parents' house. Ding Jiali's foster mother is a drama actress, and so are her grandparents. Ding Jiali was influenced by culture since she was a child, and she also likes opera very much. However, Ding Jiali has a stuttering problem, so it can be said that the house leaks every night.

No matter how unfortunate a person is, he can still feel the warmth of the world. With the protection of her foster mother and the love of her grandparents, Ding Jiali, a teenager, is straightforward, lively and cheerful, and doesn't look like an abandoned child at all. Dante Jiali still can't figure out why her biological parents abandoned herself. Seeing it so clearly on the surface is just to cover up the shadows and obstacles that cannot be dissipated in his heart.

When Ding Jiali was growing up, she always had questions in her heart, but no one could answer them. He also thinks that he needs to pay more to get the love he deserves. Such psychology may not lead to bad results for the time being, but it will lead to a series of chain reactions in the future.

With the support of her foster mother, Ding Jiali not only achieved excellent academic performance, but also was admitted to Shanghai Theatre Academy with great enthusiasm. Being admitted to a university does not mean that you can sit back and relax, nor does it mean that you are favored by the world and attracted worldwide attention. For Ding Jiali, no matter how beautiful the surface is, the inner pain is incurable, which is more obvious after falling in love.

In college, unmarried pregnancy, two failed marriages and four miscarriages can cure a happy childhood for a lifetime, and an unfortunate childhood can cure it for a lifetime. However, Ding Jiali's tragic childhood has not been cured, but has been hit more. At that time, Ding Jiali wanted to find someone she could rely on. She could be desperate or come clean. Ding Jiali was too anxious, without any precautions and no eye for people.

In college, Ding Jiali's first love was her later husband Hu Guangchuan. When the two people are deeply in love, Ding Jiali volunteered to give her life, but Hu Guangchuan said in turn: "Women don't love themselves, others will look down on you." What a ridiculous joke. You kiss me and I love each other. Dante Jiali unconsciously fell into a passive position and became the defendant, while Hu Guangchuan just cheated.

Due to the lack of care since childhood, Ding Jiali always felt that it was her own fault. When Ding Jiali fell in love, it just happened to catch up with the 80 s, an era of backward thinking. Premarital pregnancy is still a taboo topic in public. When she was pregnant for the first time, Ding Jiali silently had an abortion and had no complaints about Hu Guangchuan.

1986 is a major turning point in Ding Jiali's life. She won the Golden Rooster Award for Best Supporting Actress for the first time for her film The First Woman in the Woods, which is her debut and peak work. After the fame and fortune, Ding Jiali also chose to marry Hu Guangchuan. Dante Jiali and Hu Guangchuan are a wrong start and can't get married too far.

Zhang Ailing once said that it is too early to become famous, but she did not say how to face the love that fell from the sky after becoming famous. 1987, Ding Jiali gave birth to many daughters. But when her daughter was just full moon, Ding Jiali divorced her husband. No one knows why their relationship broke down, but there are rumors that Ding Jia cheated, and some people say that Hu Guangchuan cheated. Maybe they are not suitable. But when recalling this past, Ding Jiali said: "I don't blame Hu Guangchuan, but I am humble and don't respect myself." .

Ding Jiali's first marriage was very short, and the child announced the end just after the full moon. The second marriage took a very similar path. 1990, Ding Jiali got married for the second time, and her husband was a university lecturer. In the second year after marriage, Ding Jiali gave birth to her son Guoguo. After her son's full moon, Ding Jiali chose to divorce again. The second marriage is not a bad relationship between the two, but the man's derailment during Ding Jiali's pregnancy, and the object of derailment is his own student. For Ding Jiali, who is tough and loveless, such a thing is simply unacceptable. Why not just end it neatly?

At that time, Ding Jiali was 32 years old, but she had already experienced two failed marriages and had two children. The date of divorce is after the child's full moon, which is somewhat surprising. When a woman divorces, remarries and divorces again, there will definitely be a big shadow in her heart, which will be criticized and even not understood.

Ding Jiali didn't get rid of her emotional troubles for the rest of her life, and she has been rethinking whether she is really immoral. Even many years later, Ding Jiali mentioned the past of marriage, instead of blaming any husband, she blamed herself for not doing her duty as a wife. This makes many people feel that Ding Jiali has lost her rebellious spirit, but has become resigned.

In 2009, at a charity event held in Hefei, Ding Jiali burst into tears on the stage as a guest. She took the initiative to disclose her marriage and future, and said that "she had four miscarriages" and even advised others not to treat marriage as a joke. On the surface, Ding Jiali won the prize, and even Ge You is willing to be a supporting role. In fact, she is very fragile.

It is said that it is inappropriate to fall in love with Sun's brother and sister. After decades of struggle, Sun has tasted the ups and downs, but the road to performing arts is getting wider and wider. With the help of Extreme Challenge, there are countless fans. However, some people say that Sun's status today is inseparable from Ding Jiali's promotion. This story is not groundless. Venus was also mentioned on Venus Show before, but no one guessed that it was Sun.

From 65438 to 0990, 40-year-old Ding Jiali and 29-year-old Sun met because of their co-performance in The Curies, and their love began. That year, Ding Jiali was a shining star, and Sun was just a small role who just debuted. Because during the rehearsal, Ding Jiali's accidental injury made them have inextricably linked stories.

After Ding Jiali was injured and admitted to the hospital, Sun was particularly worried. In winter, he stayed up all night and fed Ding Jiali soup in a thermos bucket. This seemingly inconspicuous detail makes Ding Jiali, who lacked care since childhood, warm in her heart. Sun's caring attitude makes Ding Jiali feel that the other person is a person worthy of relying on.

After two failed marriages, Ding Jiali has some contradictions. He also said: "We are 1 1 years old. I have been divorced twice, and it is not a good match at all. Sorry. " Sun still said firmly, "I don't care." Ding Jiali was moved to tears when she heard Sun's affirmation, and she also agreed to this hard-won sibling love.

After leaving the hospital, Ding Jiali and Sun began a sweet cohabitation for four years. In order to make Sun play better and have more scenes, Ding Jiali asked the director to give him a chance, even to kneel down. Later, Sun did take over the director's film "Like Fog, Like Rain, Like Wind", and it gradually became popular.

In 2002, Sun Honglei starred in Zhou Yu's Train, met Gong Li, who was more dazzling than Ding Jiali, and had a heart-warming feeling. In pursuit of Gong Li, Sun Honglei and Ding Jiali broke up completely, and the love between brother and sister was extinguished. When Ding Jiali asked why, Sun Honglei said, "Do you think we are a good match?" There was no love in the past.

When some media questioned that Sun Honglei was superior to Ding Jiali, Sun Honglei said, "I earned it by strength, and Ding Jiali really helped me a lot." . Sun also believes that he broke up with Ding Jiali before accepting Gong Li, and there is no such thing as abandonment. He also asked others not to be kidnapped by morality.

A 40-year-old and a 29-year-old, how can this relationship have a good ending? Ding Jiali is naturally the one who suffers the most and is very disappointed. After breaking up with Sun, Ding Jiali had already got rid of the title tied to Sun, and Sun also had a happy marriage.

Ding Jiali's life may really be without the care of a man, but it is the love of adoptive parents, grandparents and even children. After a series of changes, Ding Jiali gradually faded out of public view, and his role did not leave too many deep memories. However, as Pan Guiyu in "Settle Down", Ding Jiali seems to be integrated into her personal experience, and her acting skills are well received by the audience. Those hard thorns always turn into gentle cocoons. For Ding Jiali, he once hated himself, blamed himself, was abandoned and betrayed, but now he has chosen a road of happiness with his children, and those troubles have long since vanished.