Why are the eyes the windows to the soul?

The eyes are the windows to the human soul. Using the eyes to observe human psychology is a major discovery in the process of human civilization! Li Qingzhao, a famous female poet in the Song Dynasty, once said, "It is only when the eyes move that people will guess." This poem has vividly demonstrated the beauty of the eyes. This poem not only depicts a woman's inner joy and tension of being discovered by others, but also vividly It shows that eyes are windows that reveal secrets, always reflecting people's hearts, especially those typical and common eye movements, which are often afraid of being guessed, but are guessed at the same time, which is the most thought-provoking.

In fact, it is very common in life to understand the other person's psychology through the other person's eyes. For example, at the negotiation table, the other party is a very important transaction negotiation partner. When the other party listens to us but focuses his eyes elsewhere, it means that he is planning how to make more profits for himself. Therefore, when the focus of the other person's eyes is not on us, we can directly ask the other person: "What worries you?" If the other person panics and says: "No! There is nothing wrong..."

At this time, we should categorically terminate the negotiation with him, or we can tactfully say to him: "Let's talk about it later!"

If at a certain meeting, we find that an attendee is sitting across from him The person in front of him doesn't even look at him. Then, after the person opposite him has spoken, we might as well ask him: "What do you think of his opinion." If he immediately and violently refutes it, it proves that there is a relationship between them. There have been arguments or prejudices. These are the inner monologues conveyed by the eyes. It can be seen that the eyes are a bridge connecting our hearts!

The eyes are among the human facial features and are located at the top of the face. As people’s important visual organs, they can transmit the people or things they see to the brain, and then the brain decides whether to view the people or things. A series of emotions such as interest or disgust. Finally, such information is fed back to the eyes to respond accordingly. This seemingly complicated process can be completed in just a few seconds.

In fact, when people meet for the first time, their eyes are the beginning of their understanding of each other. Whether it is out of politeness or a genuine desire to understand each other, the intersection of eyes cannot be avoided by both parties. If you want to express your inner emotions more clearly, a single micro-movement of the eyes will appear relatively weak. If you combine other body movements with the eyes, the expression can better reflect your inner thoughts.