Husband and wife are birds of the same forest. How can we tell whether their relationship is good or not?

What is even more deadly is that the disaster, which originally targeted China as the "hardest hit area", has now broken out all over the world. It is different from ordinary people in China being infected. According to recent reports, foreign dignitaries and even many Famous actors, such as Tom Hanks, as well as football club CEOs, head coaches, and players have all been infected. The severity of this virus infection has exceeded people's estimates and is likely to become more serious.

Compared to other people, what has the epidemic brought to ordinary families? The couple shrouded in disaster reflects the depth of the relationship between the couple.

01. During the long epidemic period, were there frequent quarrels or were they happy and peaceful?

According to incomplete statistics, from January to mid-March, road and city closures lasted for about two months. Many shops stopped operating, and the real economy almost suffered a devastating blow that was cut in half.

This situation of having no financial resources and being unable to make ends meet has brought many families and couples back to the "pre-liberation" situation. According to the common situation in private survey reports, many families cannot operate their shops and companies cannot open their businesses. There is no salary or business income, and they face huge economic difficulties and life difficulties.

Many families with installment payments such as mortgages, car loans, and credit cards have fallen into a desperate financial situation, and a vicious cycle has followed, with no money and insufficient money, one after another.

Under such circumstances, couples who are used to spending money lavishly and without long-term considerations can imagine what it is like to have no financial income. The easiest thing to show at this time is that you are exhausted, your family is in a mess, your heart is restless, you are anxious and angry, and you are in a desperate situation.

At this time, some couples complained and blamed each other because of the urgent need, while others were not afraid of the crisis and worked together to find ways to overcome the difficulties together.

Those who blame each other and quarrel frequently because of current difficulties are naturally not deep enough in love and love deeply enough; couples who love deeply are working together to understand each other and find solutions together. question.

02. During the long period of the epidemic, have you overcome the difficulties, or are you seemingly inseparable?

Ordinary families, a couple, especially middle-aged people with an elder and a younger child. If you were born in a rural area, you may have rice and vegetables at home. Even if the city is closed for a while, there will be no food. You are not afraid of income, but if you are in a city and once the city is closed and there is no source of income, you will have nothing to do. Even if supermarkets and logistics can help with delivery, how much balance do you have in your account and how long can it support a family?

At this time, the wife who is not smart enough will blame her husband for not stocking up on daily necessities earlier. He has no future and cannot make money. Now he is facing a desperate situation. The whole family is hanging on by a thread and the epidemic has not been infected. On the contrary, they are faced with the danger of having nothing to offer and cutting off their source of livelihood.

What is amazing is that not long ago, it was reported that a woman in a certain city had no source of income due to city and road closures, and her family was facing serious life dangers. This woman actually took the risk She ran to find her former lover, hoping to get help. What is even more ridiculous is that when the two of them were reliving their old relationship in a hotel, they were investigated by the staff and quarantined. This became a local joke. People are isolated and places are isolated, but information is flowing smoothly. This news was made The whole city knew about it.

In difficult times, whether we are able to overcome the difficulties, or whether we are in harmony with each other, facts will prove it.

03. During the long epidemic period, is it a longing for the future or an intermittent cold war?

There is a saying: No matter how high the mountain is, it will eventually be at your feet; no matter how far the road is, it will eventually be at your feet. behind. ?

Our parents have experienced difficult times, and our grandparents have even experienced times when they had no food to eat and were hungry, including those of us born in the 70s, 80s, and 90s. SARS is still fresh in my memory, but didn’t it come back the same way? The wind and rain will eventually pass, and sunny days will eventually come. The epidemic is just a transition, and the future is still long.

During the epidemic, whether they are looking forward to the future or having intermittent cold wars, we can see the true feelings of couples.

Conclusion:

True love is seen in times of adversity, a relationship that can withstand the test and is not broken down by wind and rain is true love. Those who hold each other in their arms are like birds in the same forest. When a disaster strikes, couples with the mentality of flying separately will find it difficult to find a partner even if they fly alone. Only by working together to overcome difficulties can true love be found and couples can protect them until they grow old.