My girlfriend went to my house for the first time, and I had a good chat with my dad at the dinner table. Later, my father asked me to break up. What should I do?

First, you need to know why your father doesn't like his girlfriend. There is no unreasonable antipathy. Only by asking the reasons behind it can we have a targeted consideration. After asking clearly, you should also make your own judgment. If all his father cares about is trivial matters, and it won't affect your future life if you don't touch three views, then you can find an excuse to prevaricate. However, if my father learns some answers or news that touches the three views through chatting, then he has to carefully consider whether he should be together. After all, the older generation has traveled more than the younger generation has eaten salt, and sometimes the elders are still very accurate in judging people.

1. Meeting parents is a necessary process. Sometimes a marriage is not only a matter for men and women, but also a combination of families. Under the influence of China's traditional thought, it is necessary for men and women in China to investigate each other's families when they decide to develop relations. Out of responsibility for their children's future marriage, parents will also know what kind of people will spend their lives with their children through contact with their younger generation.

If the elders are satisfied with each other's personality and family background after meeting, then there is basically no objection to the interaction between the two children. But if they are not satisfied in the communication process, then some parents will put pressure on them to "play mandarin ducks". At this time, it is very painful for both children and parents. Encounter a little rebellion, and stage a family ethics drama in minutes.

Second, listen to the opinions of elders properly. Parents are able to put on airs because they have life experiences that children don't have, and these life experiences are often obtained by detours. Because of this, the older generation usually don't want their children to go their own way. Out of this mentality, they will make some suggestions on the choice of children.

Frankly speaking, when a person grows up, he will have more or less rebellious psychology, and when his parents deny the person you decided to spend the rest of your life with, it is actually equivalent to denying your independent choice. In this case, some children will completely ignore their parents' advice and insist on being with each other. If there is a good result in the future, everyone will be happy, but some people will remember their parents' advice after being defeated by reality.

Third, the most important thing is to make a decision. For the situation mentioned in the title, it is still recommended not to completely deny the parents' suggestions as soon as they express their objections, and calmly communicate with parents to obtain key information before judging these suggestions. Parents can be said to be the most considerate people in the world. What they do is always for the good. You know, most parents don't hurt their children. Because of this, it is the right choice to make your own independent judgment while referring to your parents' suggestions.