If a very ordinary girl feels that she is not worthy of a boy, or feels unconfident in front of a boy, is this what her girlfriend would look like?

Do you love her? If you love her, stay together. If you don't love her, don't ask for your feelings. In the end, you won't be able to deal with it. Do you feel that you are with your original girlfriend because you are lonely and alone? If so, let it go~! Do you like what your classmates introduced? If you like it, go for it~! Find out if you are the one you like after catching up with her. When a boy chases a girl, it feels like one thing, and when you catch up with a girl, it feels like another thing. It is only when you feel that you are suitable. Love and liking are different: light. Love is like, deep like is love! What you like turns out to be love, and what you love turns out to be family affection! There is one emotion in the world called "like" and another called "love". Love means that when he is there, he is the only one in the eyes; when he is not there, everything has his shadow. I like it when I suddenly think of him while reading late at night, and imagine what he is doing now, and feel a light warmth in my heart, but I never take the initiative to hit him. After a few minutes, my attention was attracted by the plot in the book again! Love is in the lonely night, longing comes like a tide, I hold the book in my hand but I can't read it, and I wonder in my heart whether he is still there at this time. Do you work overtime, have you eaten dinner, do you think about him as much as you like, discuss issues with him and argue with him, blushing and refusing to give in, acting like a hedgehog in front of him and never admitting defeat, but in your heart you have already secretly admired him? His insights and talents. Love means hoping that he will be in step with you and be connected to your heart. A joke he may say unintentionally can make you feel depressed or even bring tears to your eyes. In front of him, I was never defensive. I like to send him a message when I’m out, tell him the weather here is nice, turn it off, play wildly alone in a different place for a week, and then suddenly appear in front of him with a tan and startle him. Love is wanting to be with you wherever you go. You can call him while standing on the beach and let him listen to the sound of the waves; you can also freeze in place for a long time because you see a figure that looks exactly like him on the street in a foreign land. Love is when he simply said "Have a safe journey" before going on a business trip. Looking at his leaving figure, I felt a little bit reluctant in my heart, but didn't say anything. I just waited silently for the news of his return. Love was when he gave a thousand warnings before going on a business trip. Wan told him to stuff his backpack with clothes and food, and would not leave until the train left at the station. And in the days after he left, I was uneasy every day, praying over and over again for his safe return. What I like is that when I'm hurt, I don't want him to see my fragile side, so I quietly wipe away my tears in front of him, and turn around, still looking happy and strong. Love is when you are wronged, crawling on his chest and crying bitterly, without pretense or worry, telling him all your troubles, and longing for a smile from his arms. Like, only when we are together, do we miss each other. Love means that even if we are together, we miss him every second. If you like someone, you will also feel happy if you have many friends. Loving someone is a world where two people will feel uncomfortable if there is one more person. Loving someone is sweet. Loving someone is a blessing in disguise.

Your excessive self-esteem may hurt a girl's sensitive heart. She will think that you don't really like him, otherwise why would you just give up on her? Some people say that it is so difficult for boys to chase girls. But my feeling is that this phenomenon is inseparable from the social role positioning of men and women. From a physiological and social perspective, women are always passive. If it were the other way around, if men were made shy and women became courageous, the world would be in chaos! A woman's shyness is always beautiful and touching~ I have always heard that a brave man overcame many difficulties and finally won the heart of a beautiful woman. There are very few examples to the contrary. Some boys are afraid that others will say that they are stalkers and get a bad reputation. But I think that when a boy pursues a girl he likes and continues to be nice to the girl after some setbacks, it means that he really likes her and is sincere. If he doesn't succeed, he doesn't regret it. It's nothing, right? Who made people like it? I hate other people messing around the most, and I also hate boys who have no idea of ??their own and care too much about what others think of them. Such boys deserve to be unable to find a girlfriend. If you are a man, be brave. Girls are inherently emotional and easily immersed in love. Although you have worked hard, once your sincerity touches her, what you will get is more and longer love. Such examples abound around us. Girls are very gentle and considerate to their boyfriends. In exchange for this sweetness, what is the hard work in the beginning? And most good girls are very devoted and dedicated in love. Therefore, I suggest that some boys be brave and pursue the girl they like without being so timid. Firstly, it will make others think you are unmanly. Secondly, it will make you feel uncomfortable. However, the most important thing is : In the end you get nothing. Happiness is always earned by yourself, don't expect others to give it to you! One more thing, I think it's good to be proactive, because your goal is something you really like. Girls are often passive, and the passive ones can only choose to accept or reject, so I would rather take the initiative and love what I love, no matter what. No regrets! 1. Appear confident and responsible. Don’t act like a child. Girls are lazy and hope they can find someone to rely on. You have to show your confidence and sense of responsibility. It is better to have a wrong choice than no choice at all. 2. Don’t be too serious, but don’t be too casual either. Be serious where you should be serious, and laugh when you should be funny. Girls all like men who are a little cynical, so don't appear to care about everything, as that would be too dull. 3. Look more mature. Men who are calm and unhurried in situations are fatally attractive to girls. 2. How to have further contact with mm (time: the beginning of chasing) 1. The most important thing at this stage is not to be anxious and not to make things so clear that people can tell at a glance that you are chasing them. Think about it, most people will not fall in love with you at first glance, but they will also not hate you at first glance. They are all ordinary people's children (unless you look like Chow Yun-fat, Andy Lau or Kevin Costner). Favorability needs to be easy. It is achieved through the continuous increase of understanding, so the key to the problem is the opportunity for further development you want. Think about it from a girl's perspective: If you rush over to find someone so directly, the girl must be under psychological pressure. If I find out that I don't like you after being in contact for a while, wouldn't it be like playing tricks on you? So if you come out with a determined attitude from the beginning, you will basically be put back immediately. 2. Start with a low profile. First of all, you must position the relationship as a "friend". It is originally an "ordinary friend". You want to become a "good friend". If you have good taste, you can also ask the other party to become a "confidante" or something like that. In short, don't Say "chasing you". Think about it, if you don't mention "chasing" at all, then the girl will have less chance to "reject" you - how can she reject you if you don't pursue her? ! This can reduce the psychological pressure on girls and enable you to have a smooth relationship. Don't imagine that you will agree to marry you after only three days of knowing each other. You need to fully communicate and understand each other. Feelings do not arise out of thin air. 3. Don’t be too impatient in the process of dating. Be relaxed and don’t pester others all day long. You will get tired of anyone who treats you like this.

"That's great. It would be great if I could often eat your cooking!" "As long as you don't think my cooking is lame, I promise you!" The young man used the prize as a topic and cooking as a topic. The main line, after going in a big circle, finally cleverly guided each other's conversation into a "normal track" with expressive expressions, as if a marriage was finalized inadvertently. Express their feelings directly: Some people express love very concisely, straightforwardly, and without any pretense. They boldly and unreservedly pour out their feelings to each other, just like the gurgling stream. Generally speaking, this method is suitable for people who are straightforward and like to get straight to the point when expressing their thoughts and feelings. Obviously, for the two parties who have a deep relationship and have a certain emotional foundation, or the two people already secretly admire each other and only need to "pierce the layer of paper", expressing love directly from the heart is very labor-saving and has a lot of fun. When she proposed to Krupskaya, she said bluntly: "Please be my wife!" And Krupskaya, who has always been in love with her, also answered simply: "If there is any way, then I will be yours." Wife!" The words of true love are concise and sincere, giving people an irresistible power. At the same time, it also allows Krupsya to clearly see a loyal spiritual world, which can easily cause ripples of love between both parties. . Humor: Put sacred love in playful jokes, let the other person understand your thoughts unconsciously, and you complete a "test" in a "quiet" and "silent" mood, without appearing shy and There will be no embarrassing scenes. Li Fu accompanies Xiao Hui to a shopping mall to buy things. In order to be cool and show off in front of Xiao Hui and please her, he pointed at the salesperson and ended up with nothing. This angered the salesperson and the two sides started to quarrel with each other. . When Li Fu was obviously at an unreasonable disadvantage, Xiao Hui stepped in and saved his face. Li Fu was very moved and said to her: "People often say 'Heroes save beauties', but today it is a good thing, it has become 'Beauties save bears'. I should really thank you!" Xiaohui stopped laughing and asked playfully: "Okay, let's see how you thank me?" "I'm giving you the most precious and rare gift. I wonder if you like it?" Li Fu teased him with enthusiasm, obviously already well prepared. "Tell me and see!" "I'm giving myself to you, do you accept it or not?" Wow! How funny! Li Fu cleverly humored himself, which made Xiao Hui fully feel his wit and wisdom. Finally, he gave himself as a reward gift to his sweetheart through the method of imitation, and even asked Xiaohui if she liked it in a serious manner. In fact, he was testing whether she would accept his love for him. No matter how Xiaohui answers, there will be no displeasure between the two in this kind of atmosphere that makes Youjun unable to help but feel happy. The finishing touch: There are expectations for each other, but they are often erratic and hesitant. The loving party uses a certain atmosphere and material to push the love to "white heat". Jian Ming is only one step away from winning Ajia's heart. But Ajia has been showing an unfriendly look towards him recently. Jian Ming was really confused and puzzled. On Valentine's Day, I wanted to give Ajia flowers, but I ran out of flowers. So he went straight to Kaasuke in the countryside. At night, when he was holding a large bouquet of bright red roses and was about to offer them to Ajia who was waiting for him at the gate of the park, he was stopped by a handsome man and woman who had money in a bag but no flowers in their hands and offered two bouquets worth twenty yuan. Jian Ming had an idea and said loudly and proudly: "Normally, I have these "flowers", and you two can also bouquet them. However, I specially picked them from the flower garden to offer them to my angel. The flowers represent my Heart, this flower only belongs to Ajia tonight!" Ajia was immediately intoxicated with envy. Jianming expressed his feelings for his sweetheart in public by giving flowers, which not only showed his love for Ajia. His bravery and loyalty made Ajia famous in front of everyone, and his self-esteem was greatly satisfied. No wonder Ajia would give him a hot KISS in front of everyone! Borrowing emotions from a topic: Cleverly containing emotions in words that are not explicit, borrowing a certain thing or person, etc., making a fuss out of a molehill, conveying the lingering feelings to the other party, and developing the relationship with each other, using the same hobbies of both parties, Exchange frequently and recommend good books to read. In this borrowing and repaying, borrowing and repaying, the seeds of love sprouted.

One day, Ling asked Fei for a new book he had not read yet. Fei said to Ling affectionately: "When I borrow other people's books, I always finish them quickly, but this is the only one that you lent me." I can’t finish reading this book, and it may take me a lifetime to read it. Are you willing to accompany me to finish reading it? Or do you want me to give up reading it?” The result can be imagined. In short, expressing love to your sweetheart is the sweetest, most nerve-wracking, and most subtle emotional activity. In the process of expressing love, if you grasp the gender role, emotional concentration, and develop a bold and proactive spirit, you will definitely have a sweet forever. love.