Warm-hearted brother became popular and used watermelon as a fake ice cream "routine" sister. Why do netizens say that they lied to me to have a second child?

The arrival of the second child era has given many families an extra baby. Dabao and Bauer get along well, some families are harmonious and friendly, and their two children are very happy. In some families, two children are incompatible with each other. As long as they don't make noise, their skin itches.

Worried about my sister's diarrhea, my brother made a fake ice cream "routine" for my sister with watermelon.

There is such a "warm-hearted brother" who is popular on the Internet. This is a video shared by parents. It's very hot in summer. My brother is going to eat an ice cream to cool off the heat, but my sister is clamoring for it. But my sister is young, and eating ice cream is easy to have diarrhea. I learned my lesson last time.

The younger brother looked at his sister's eager expression and couldn't help but refuse, but he was worried about his sister's diarrhea. After thinking, he saw the watermelon on the table and suddenly thought of a good idea. I saw my brother cut a watermelon right in the middle with a knife, inserted a stick to make a fake ice cream and put it in the bag.

Then take it to my sister, pretend to open it and take it out to "routine" my sister. My sister believed when she saw that the ice cream was taken out of the bag and the color was similar to that in my brother's hand. In this way, the two brothers and sisters, one left and one right, sat on the sofa enjoying the delicious food and looked at each other while eating. That scene is so cute!

After the video became popular, netizens could not sit still.

Netizen 1: Yes, trying to trick me into having a second child.

Netizen 2: Hahaha, this girl is silly and cute, and she is flattered by her brother's routine.

Netizen 3: My brother is very sweet. He specially picked the sweetest piece in the watermelon center to make "ice cream" for his sister.

I believe that such a warm and loving scene is the ideal of many parents with a second child. In fact, the relationship between Dabao and Bauer depends on how parents handle it:

(1) Early rules.

There are two children at home, so parents should make rules as soon as possible. For example, it is stipulated that Dabao cannot bully his brother and sister because of his age; In addition, it is also necessary to stipulate that Erbao should not be unscrupulous because he is young, or use this as an excuse after making mistakes. Only in this way can the two children get along more harmoniously.

(2) Children have contradictions.

In the second-child family, when the children are in conflict, some parents criticize Dabao without asking indiscriminately, saying why they don't let their younger brothers and sisters. You know, Dabao is a child himself. If he is wronged by his parents, he will certainly be wronged, and he may have a hatred for Bauer. Therefore, when children have contradictions, parents should be practical, unbiased and not conniving.

③ Give Dabao some responsibilities.

If the two children want to live in harmony, parents might as well try to give Dabao some responsibilities, such as asking them to help take care of Bauer. This can stimulate Dabao's sense of responsibility and pride as a brother (sister), which is beneficial to the relationship between Yu Dabao and Bauer.

The family has a second child, and these issues also need parents' attention:

① There is no contrast.

Some parents just like to compare two children and then belittle the less outstanding one. In doing so, it is easy to hit children's self-esteem, make them lose self-confidence and have deviations from self-cognition.

② No preference for boys over girls.

Some parents have a second child, which is purely patriarchal. The first child gave birth to a daughter, and the second child wanted to pursue a son. If the second child is still a daughter, she will pursue the third child. Under normal circumstances, after giving birth to a son, the son is spoiled in all aspects and is very strict with his daughter. This is not conducive to the growth of daughters and sons.