Timid and self-abased and very concerned about other people's opinions, what should I do?

Keep a calm mind and always tell yourself that you live for yourself and don't be influenced by other people's comments. If you live in the evaluation of others, others' spittle can drown you.

Understand that they don't really know you. Sometimes what they say has no factual basis, and they may deliberately want you to stop making progress or laugh at you. So, just listen to what they say, it doesn't matter.

We all need a little courage to seek change and live in this world. We should understand that we are living for ourselves, and groveling will only make our dignity trampled by others. Respect comes from inner strength. I suggest learning Zen, which can not only exercise wisdom, but also let us understand the true meaning of life.

Here is the concern for your good people, and the way to help you sincerely is in your hands. If you still miss the wonderful things behind you because of the lack of so-called "courage", how much regret will your heart have on the day when we are about to close our eyes? Don't say that damn sentence-"I could have!" " .

If we want to realize inferiority correctly, we must establish our own correct three views. I suggest watching Qipa say that it will give you a long-lost answer.

To stay away from those who deliberately make you feel inferior, you should brush your sense of existence in front of you, brush your sense of superiority in front of you, and stay away from those who deliberately belittle you. Many people, when expressing their opinions on others, either out of gossip, out of concern, or out of their own experience in this field, want others to be less into the pit.

Anyway, there are both good intentions and bad intentions. You can weigh them yourself. If they are good intentions, you can use them. If it's malicious, go straight back. If it's not good or evil, it's just gossip. There are too many gossips, and you can't talk to them one by one with your mouth open, so forget it.