Is it better to cultivate a child carefully or to raise a child?

The problem of raising children is not only a technology, but also an art. Free-range children have advantages and disadvantages of free-range, and children with strict discipline also have advantages and disadvantages of strict discipline. Let's discuss the advantages and disadvantages of these two parenting methods.

First of all, talk about stocking education. Its advantages outweigh its disadvantages. We say that free-range children are strong at first and do things in an informal way. When they do things, they seldom drag their feet and follow Nuo Nuo's leadership. At the same time, however, free-range children are generally aggressive and extroverted.

Most scattered children do things first, and they are basically straightforward. This is the advantage of stocking education, but it is also a disadvantage. Free-range children often show informal, careless and independent personality characteristics. Besides, I'm the only one. When such children grow up, occasionally a few children will do harm to society and have a great influence. These few children are rash and basically reckless. This is the advantages and disadvantages of the children educated by stocking.

Then the children who are strictly disciplined by their families basically follow the rules and do things step by step, but it does not rule out that there are very few children who are irresponsible and afraid of risks when things happen.

So we say that the two ways of raising children have their own advantages and disadvantages. We don't agree with the stocking mode of education and the strict management mode of education, because neither of them can cultivate a perfect personality and a perfect person. What we are good at is to integrate the two ways of parenting. There are not only strict family management, but also standardized parenting methods and rude stocking parenting methods. Most of the children educated under the integration of the two parenting styles can become people who are beneficial to their families and contribute to society.

Therefore, both the free-range education mode and the strict family education mode are not conducive to the healthy growth of children. As parents and parents, we must properly grasp this degree in the process of educating our children. It is beneficial to family and society to exercise one's child-rearing rights and obligations within this scope.