Observe a joke

1, whether it is work, life or marriage, don't be jealous, there is no harm without comparison.

2, too sensible, easy to rub with people; If you obey emotions too much, you will be influenced by emotions; If you stick to your point of view too much, you will eventually die. In a word, this world is not suitable for people.

3, life is very long, fatigue, irritability, disappointment will be there, after seeing the truth, please still love life.

4, sensible, just polished by life into a look suitable for survival.

5, do not climb, the heart is indifferent; No anger, no power, easy-going heart.

6, don't think too complicated, think too much headache, think too much. Don't hold your hand too tightly, things will break and your hand will hurt.

7. Smart people don't waste time interacting with others. Socialists often show off their connections because they are not confident and have nothing to show off. If you have no talent, what's the use of knowing more bosses! People who can spend time on themselves are the best!

8. I can only take you here You have to go the rest of the way by yourself, and don't look back.

9. The mediocrity in the world, ancient and modern, Chinese and foreign, is defeated by a lazy word; All the talents in the world, ancient and modern, were defeated by a proud word.

10. A truly powerful person will not spend too much time pleasing and attaching to others. The so-called circles and resources are only derivatives. The most important thing is to improve his internal strength.

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12, the process of people's maturity is actually the process of learning to get along with themselves. This process is bound to be accompanied by from lively to quiet, from panic to calm, from confusion to self-knowledge, from being accompanied to loneliness.

13. Forgiveness means letting go of others, and forgetting means letting go of yourself.

15, the most mistakes we have made are probably getting angry with the most innocent people around us when we are in a bad mood.

16, approach a person slowly, and make sure you can see him clearly; Leave someone quickly, or you will really be reluctant to part.

17, some people will remember it forever. Even if they forget his voice, his smile and his face, the feeling when they think of him will never change.

18, regardless of the usual relationship, when it comes to money, we must distinguish clearly.

19, all the places in this world are tireless, because of the heart.

If you want to be a big tree, don't argue with the grass. Some things, you win and lose.

Bian Xiao: It seems that you are never afraid of difficulties and hardships. Reaching out is just like Bian Xiao: One of the most special weaknesses of human nature is caring about what others think of you. Bian Xiao: Miss, you can miss it, but you can do it if you miss it, and you can win if you fight.

1. As long as you walk in the direction of the rising sun, you can still see the dawn even if you wake up from a nightmare.

2. Complaining is God's greatest offering from human beings and the most sincere part of human prayer.

The happiest thing in life is struggle, not success, and the most painful thing in life is laziness, not failure.

4, don't feel inferior, you are not stupid than others. Don't be complacent, others are no more stupid than you.

When a heart learns to walk in love, it actually plants the seeds of faith in it. The fruit planted by such a heart has transcended the boundary between life and death and must be beautiful.

6. A person's greatness lies not in how much you have contributed to society and how much you have achieved, but in knowing how to give up in the face of temptation and confusion.

7. Regret is an emotion that consumes the spirit. Regret is a bigger loss than loss and a bigger mistake than mistake. So don't regret.

8. The road of life is bumpy. As long as you persist and work hard, there is no hurdle to get through.

9. People are not afraid of pain, but they are afraid of losing strength, pain and hope.

10, the enemy of learning is your own satisfaction. Study hard and don't be complacent!

1 1. Life is only a few decades. Don't leave any regrets for yourself. Laugh happily and cry if you want. Love when it is time to love. There is no point in suppressing yourself.

12, if a person is determined to accomplish something, then he will rely on the drive of consciousness and the power of subconscious to cross the obstacles on the road, and success will be guaranteed.

13, the power of confidence is amazing, it can change the bad situation and produce an incredible happy ending. People who have confidence will never be defeated. They are winners in life.

14, we really had a hard time. First, we have to bear all kinds of external pressures, but also face our own inner confusion. In the struggle, if someone gives you an understanding look, you will feel the warmth of life. Maybe just a brief glance is enough to make me feel excited.

15, self-confidence is the prerequisite for success. If you are confident, you have a half chance of success. If you believe that you are the best, you will certainly achieve something.

16, people who walk with their hearts should still have firm beliefs, which defiled a heart and that persistent belief.

17, confident people succeed because they all have great potential to be developed; The reason why the mentality of negative failure makes people timid and unable to fail is because it makes people give up the development of potential and let potential sleep there and waste it in vain.

What a person believes he is, he will become. What a person thinks in his heart will become what he thinks.

19, I don't know what I am doing now is right or wrong, but I didn't know this until I finally died of old age. So what I can do now is to try my best to do everything well and then wait to die of old age.

20. As long as you work hard, you will win.

2 1, people sometimes have to push themselves. We need a powerful energy from ourselves to push ourselves to a new level.

22. I have taken a road that few people have taken, so I must let myself have a down-to-earth heart. I often want to stop when I am very tired, but I dare not slack off because of my not gorgeous but still strong heart.

23. The ability to do things often gives you only one chance, while the ability to be a man will give you a hundred opportunities.

24. Don't call a heart dirty just because it has taken a path that few people have taken. Live for faith, and a heart will always be white and flawless.

25. Go beyond yourself, challenge yourself, challenge weaknesses, challenge laziness and challenge bad habits.

26. Spring has its own customs, winter has its elegance, and life has its own beauty and chic. When you laugh, the whole world laughs with you. You cried. You are the only one crying in the world. When you can't have it, the only thing you can do is not to forget it.

27, life should be self-reliant, people's life, there will always be setbacks and hardships, but there is no hurdle in life, it is a harvest, it will make you grow.

28. People learn to be strong between falling and getting up, and they all walk the road of growth between wind and rain and sunshine. Failure can only bring you some lessons, some calm thinking, and don't be overwhelmed by despair and decadence.

29. Suffering is just an emotional experience and physical torture. Not afraid of suffering, you can release the inner pressure and forget the mental and physical pain. Suffering is a failure on the canvas of life, and you don't want to paint any more. Suffering is also a filter of life. If you are not afraid, you can relax yourself, and you can filter out calmness and mind from the burdened body and mind.

30. Suffering is both a curse and a blessing. It can exercise our will. Life is full of ups and downs, and people's value can be fully reflected. Life is more interesting when there are difficulties and dangers in the journey. Only after suffering can we understand the meaning of life and love and cherish life more.

3 1, don't hesitate to face the opportunity; Don't hesitate to choose; Don't be afraid in the face of decisive battle!

Only when you realize that you decide your future can you experience life more fully. When you don't blame others for your shortcomings, failures or timidity, you lay the foundation for a successful life in the future.

Without the usual failure, there will be no final success. It is important to analyze the reasons for the failure and learn from it.

34. No pains, no gains, not necessarily; Undoubtedly, no pains, no gains!

What if I lose you and win the world?

He used silence to make you feel parting, and you blinded the story with memories.

I am eccentric, I am lonely, I am lonely.

In order to control persistence, we must look at the door of good feeling.

Everyone likes to find a daughter-in-law who is not good at math, because she doesn't have too much thought.

When fate requires you to fly against the wind, don't choose to let nature take its course.

Love signature: I am stupid, stupid for you; I hurt you; Late at night, you are my inertial memory.

My friend asked me to find another one. It's not that I don't want to find one. It just takes me energy and money to fall in love!

No one can bind all my emotions except the person I love.

The taste of forgetting is like appreciating a cruel beauty and then telling yourself to face it in a small voice.

He is a love letter that I will never finish writing in my life.

Maybe time will take away your enviable face, but it can't take away my firm belief in loving you, because I have an infinite gentle power, that is, wholeheartedly!

Maybe someone didn't tell me my life at the funeral after my death and begged you to kiss my epitaph, which read: She loved the wrong person all her life.

Love signature: You never seem to leave a trace in my world, so I forgot that you are also sensible.

Whether others respect you or not is someone else's business; Whether you deserve respect or not is your business.

It is easy to feel lonely when no one is around, but it is empty when no one is in my heart.

Those vows of eternal love, you just talk casually, but I didn't listen casually.

When we are a beautiful memory, when the memory is buried in the past that we can't come back, we always feel sorry after losing it, and sometimes we even burst into tears. However, with the rapid development of time, memories are getting weaker and weaker in the years, even though those memories once made us cry. One day after many years, I accidentally remembered, quietly remembered, and burst into a smile. When the laughter ended, my cheeks were wet, but my heart was warm.

How do you feel when someone you care about tells you to go out?

What if I lose you and win the world?

Love is nothing to you, but it is my achilles heel.

More pain, the heart will become a leaky hole, surrounded by thorns.

Sweet Love Signature: Seeing things and thinking about the old, I frowned and asked you if you knew my love for ocean deep.

I am most afraid of you looking for me when the phone is dead, but I forget that you never take the initiative when there is power.

You say people are afraid of loneliness when walking, but I say it's not your job to be crowded.

On that day, I lost you, just like a child lost his beloved toy.

I'd rather not meet you, at least I won't sigh who you will be with in the future.

If anyone asks about him, say he forgot.

Things that you can't go back often are remembered deeply, and there is no regret medicine, which makes you crazy and makes you collapse, but you can't forget them.

There is a joke called love, which makes you laugh and cry, but still refuses to let go.

I began to try to change myself a little every day, even if it was only a little, I had seen enough.

Don't dwell on the past, don't dream about the future, and concentrate on living in the present. Time will make you understand that some things, once lost, can never be found again. Many people like running, but not many people run every day; There are many people who have dreams, but not many people stick to a dream. In real life, everyone's thoughts are rich, but not many people can persist in doing one thing.

Self-cultivation of the elderly: Zheng Mo's "control right"

Self-cultivation of the elderly: Zheng Mo's "controlling interest" and Zheng Mo's controlling interest.

In traditional families in China, the elderly dominate everything: children's marriage, building houses and the main expenses of the family are decided by the elderly. The economic base at that time was the small-scale peasant economy. Now it is a commodity society, and the economic foundation of the past has long since ceased to exist. Great changes have taken place in family structure and economic dominance, and people's ideas are not the same as before. Therefore, the status and discourse power of the elderly in the family are naturally very different from before.

Not to mention the situation in rural areas, as far as cities are concerned, elderly people with pensions or certain property may no longer be the masters of their families, even if they have money. Your children can have your money, but they can't accept the object you introduce; It seems appropriate for you to pay for their house and decoration. As for how they live and what they do, it is none of your business. You can buy them a car, but where to drive, you'd better not ask your parents that they are no longer the natural masters of the family. They pay a lot, accounting for a large proportion of family expenses, and they don't want to hold shares. If we don't strive for it, the result will be unpleasant and disharmonious. If we don't do it, even more trouble will happen.

A wise old man said it well: Open your wallet and shut your mouth.

This move is very clever. If you have an old man who believes in this principle, you might as well give it a try.

being happy is all

Some people were inspired by the children's cartoon "No Brain, Unhappy", and divided people into two categories according to whether they have brains or not and whether they are happy or not. Then they are combined into four kinds of people: one is unhappy with brains, the other is unhappy without brains, the third is happy with brains and the fourth is happy without brains. If we want to distinguish between good and bad, we can see at a glance that the best people are smart and happy, so that no matter what difficulties, misfortunes and blows they encounter, they can actively deal with them and maintain a calm mind and an optimistic mood. Even people who have no brains, it is good to live a relaxed and happy life. Worst of all, people who have neither brains nor happiness are confused.

What I want to say is, is there a brain that is not decided by itself? If you don't have a brain in the first half of your life, it's hard to have a brain in the second half. In my opinion, whether you have a brain or not, people are old, so don't work hard on it. The key is to use all kinds of conditions and adopt all kinds of ways, no matter what kind of happiness, as long as it makes you happy.

Digitalization and humanization

Some people say that society has entered the era of big data, while others say that it is the digital age in the quantitative age. I don't know anything about it, and I'm deeply confused. I know, because I am old, I am drifting away from modern things. What puzzles me is that even with modernization, can everything be digitized and quantified? Does digitalization mean progress and improvement? If I call to ask about something, I think it is very complicated and difficult. When the phone is dialed, what you hear is not the real voice, but the recording. It can only mechanically prompt you to press l, 2, 3. When you press the required number, the answer is still mechanical and pre-recorded. The whole call process always seems cold, lacking the affection and interest between people.

For example, going to the hospital for a physical examination, from room A to room B, and then to room C, took a long time, and most of the contacts were instruments, and few doctors were interested. As for taking a look and asking, it is even more rare. When I finally get my report card, it will be a series of numbers. For an old man who doesn't understand, it's really like falling into a cloud.

Digitalization may be the inevitable trend and need of social development and scientific and technological progress. As an old man who is backward and marginalized, he can only blame himself for not keeping up with the situation, and he can't make irresponsible remarks about new things, let alone make irresponsible remarks. Even so, because of my limited acceptance, I always feel unaccustomed to digitalization. No other meaning. I only have one small request. Can some departments and institutions related to the elderly do more for the elderly and provide them with more convenience? Some things related to the elderly, some old methods of the elderly, add a little humanity while digitizing.

It is valuable to do what you can.

Ge Hong, a medical scientist in the Eastern Jin Dynasty, said in his book Bao Puzi: If you can't grasp it, you won't expect it, and you will be hurt. I know my talents can't be reached, and I'm still thinking hard; In the face of unbearable physical load, it is very serious to do it reluctantly.

For the elderly, it is valuable to do what you can. No matter who you are or what you do, you should seriously consider and treat it carefully, weigh your physical strength and energy and do what you can. Don't be too old to accept being old, do things reluctantly and embarrass yourself.

Qian Zhongshu, a great scholar in the university, insisted on writing until his death, but declined all the manuscripts from newspapers and publishing houses. His answer is: people are not trustworthy when they are old, and they are afraid that accepting tasks will delay others. In fact, he never stopped writing, and his works kept coming out. Obviously, he wants to write in a free environment without any pressure. His practice of leaving room and acting according to one's abilities is really worth emulating by the elderly.

When you are old, don't blame yourself if you confess.

Old people often blame themselves: or blame themselves for their incompetence, neither promotion nor wealth, nor any achievements, and they have been doing nothing all their lives; Or consciously feel guilty, sorry for the child, neither providing the child with opportunities for talent and promotion, nor saving money for the child, which eventually increased the burden on the child; Or regret that you missed an opportunity; Or regret some defects in your personality, there is no need to discuss whether it is right or not, but its function and consequences are worth studying.

Self-blame is a manifestation of inferiority, that is, a person looks down on himself, belittles himself, denies himself, and feels guilty and even ashamed. Obviously, this is a very negative mental state and mood, which is very harmful to the mood of the elderly.

If we don't overcome it and let it develop, we will move from self-blame to self-harm until we lose confidence in life and commit suicide. Therefore, all elderly people who have self-reproach psychology and behavior must cheer up, live calmly, look forward and see the overall situation, and stop churning over those meaningless old sesame seeds and rotten millet, and the sunshine and spring breeze will come face to face.

For an old man, no matter what occupation you used to engage in, it is not easy. You have to be busy, work hard for decades, and even experience many obstacles and make great contributions. Needless to say, you can live to be so old, see today's peace and prosperity, and live a good life today. This in itself is a great victory. You are the winner, and your life is worthy of pride. Why do you want to go back and blame yourself and toss yourself? At the same time, we should know that regret is not only useless, but also extremely harmful. In the words of ordinary people, it is to look in the mirror and ask for it. Why do you jump into the trap when others don't blame you?

People cherish the red weather, which is used to describe the respect of the respected old-timers in society.

Old age is an important stage in life. If you want to walk the road of life smoothly and happily and spend your old age happily, you must have strong self-control ability and wisdom.

It is worth noting that some people who have just entered old age will feel uncomfortable with life. Its performance is: some people are restless from time to time, like to lose their way, do nothing and be at a loss; Some people don't like many things, and they are easily excited and angry when they have something, so they are called angry old people; Some people are unhappy all day, either smoking or drinking, or sleeping, unwilling to talk or meet people, and the old people become bored; There are people who come to the end of their lives and watch the sky is gray and the ground is black. Even if they look at flowers, mountains and water, they feel bored and annoying. All these are mostly caused by psychology, and there is still a lack of sufficient understanding of the natural law of human aging and inevitable aging.

Liu Yuxi, a poet in the Tang Dynasty, put it well: It is too late to learn from Sang Yu, and the sky is still full of clouds. Being old is not necessarily useless, and it is not necessarily dead. On the contrary, it has been sunny since ancient times. As long as you cherish every day of your life and find your own taste or interest, you can live a chic and beautiful life.

Don't take age as capital.

There is a story in the bible: a vineyard owner hired workers to work on the condition that each person gave a silver coin every day. On this day, he hired five groups of workers, some in the morning, some at noon and some at night.

But when the salary is settled, the salary paid by the employer to everyone is a silver coin.

As a result, the workers who came early quit, thinking that they had suffered, and protested to their employers. The employer's answer is: we agreed that the daily salary of each person is a silver coin, and I will pay it in full. I have not wronged you. As for me, I gave so much to the latecomers. This is my generosity to them. I have the right to control my money. Your protest is jealousy, which has nothing to do with me. The protesters were speechless and had to walk away angrily.

The moral of this story is clear: in the kingdom of heaven, God treats everyone equally, morning and evening. God despises those who are jealous of the latecomers because they come early, holds a negative attitude and asserts that the laggards are the first; The person who comes first will be the last.

In the spiritual field, including religious belief and ideological exploration, seniority has no effect. If someone feels that he is old and has capital, everything should be given priority, which only shows that his spiritual realm is low and he should reflect on it. Nowadays, the society pays attention to politeness to the elderly. Hospital registered elderly people are preferred, and there is a special car and boat channel. On the bus, young people give their seats to old people. The old man should be sober: there is no legal requirement, this is respect for others; And I can't take others' comity as due, let alone take age as capital.

Respect between people is mutual and two-way. People's respect for you shows that people are civilized, polite and educated; We should not ignore the civilization and nobility of others, but should respond in a civilized way. In this way, the relationship between people can be harmonious. Everyone is like this, and society can be harmonious.