How to make her husband's family look at jokes

In marriage, what does a woman do, and her husband's family will respect you? Marriage is like a triangle. Only by stabilizing this triangular relationship can marriage be happier and more harmonious. One of the fulcrums is mother-in-law. Many women will be bitter when they are not married, and they don't know how to get along with their mother-in-law. They are afraid that if they don't get along well, they will ruin their marriage. After all, the happiness of a marriage depends on how well the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law get along, but many mother-in-law and daughter-in-law never get along like enemies.

I don't take the initiative to provoke the mother-child relationship to mention this, as if a woman is fine. A woman will say innocently, "I have never provoked a father-son relationship, so don't wronged me." In fact, when you ask your husband, "Your mother and I fell into the water, we can only save one. Who will you save first? " The father-son relationship officially began. Men are embarrassed about this kind of question. You think mom is the key. Save mom. My daughter-in-law will tell you angrily: "I am the one who will spend my life with you." Save the woman first, so to speak The woman's heart is beautiful, but it goes against the man's thinking.

Mom and wife are equally important to men. One will give you blood and meat, and the other will accompany you to your old age. Men can't take men to do such a "difficult" choice, and the ancients didn't have an idea. You use this "difficulty" to test a man, which is clearly provoking the relationship between father and son. Woman, how can the husband's family respect you by provoking the relationship between man and mother?

I don't take the initiative to meddle in my husband's family. A friend around me has a good family condition, and is sincere and enthusiastic. After marrying her husband, she wants to show herself well. He took the initiative to say to his mother-in-law, "Mom, let me know if you have any difficulties." As soon as this sentence came out, my mother-in-law realized that it was nothing to find a daughter-in-law, but her husband's family and friends were so "rude." Looking for a job today, staying at your house for a while tomorrow, and borrowing money tomorrow, there are a lot of things, and my anger is just blocked. Control it, and no amount of temper will break out. Anyway, you really can't control it. Anyway, you used to keep your mouth shut and make things difficult for people.

A woman with high emotional intelligence will not take care of her husband's "business" easily. If you control it, others will get used to it. Everyone thinks you are good at talking, you are very good, and you are very capable. "Mind your own business" is like a steady profit, which will get bigger and bigger. One day, if you are beyond your ability, you will become a "sinner forever". Don't let others depend on you. When this happens, it is unreasonable for others to be kind to you and pay for you. They will take it for granted that you will take care of it. If you don't take good care of it, you are the "enemy" of the students.

I feel that my husband's family must stay out of it. You know, which effect is obvious, "the finishing touch" or "the icing on the cake". A woman with high emotional intelligence never cares about her in-laws. In fact, they understand that if you put yourself very low, it will be very low. If you set yourself high, others will look up to you.

Don't quarrel with your mother-in-law. There are several families living in your yard, all living under one roof with their mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. In the middle of the night, the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law began to scold each other, and there were no accusations against each other. Everyone couldn't sleep well. Daughter-in-law deliberately amplified her voice, hoping that people in the yard could hear her, giving people a mistake of mother-in-law, and the contradiction also happened because her mother-in-law found trouble first. But this is really a tasteless move. There will inevitably be differences between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, but we must calm down first. In fact, we should not quarrel. Proper handling is superb.

The quarrel between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law really blames mother-in-law and the man who doesn't care. The mother-in-law is someone else. After they got married, they lived together in their daily lives. The more quarrelling, the less your mother-in-law likes you. A woman with high emotional intelligence will not quarrel with her mother-in-law, but will let her husband stand on her side.

There is another way for mother-in-law and daughter-in-law to get along, and that is "not taking the initiative." Do not take the initiative to provoke the father-son relationship, do not take the initiative to meddle in the husband's family, and do not take the initiative to quarrel with his mother-in-law. In my opinion, a woman can live separately from her mother-in-law, and more importantly, when she has conflicts with her mother-in-law, she regards her husband as her friendly army and gives him everything. These two aspects have been achieved, and your husband's family will respect you!