Why shouldn’t handsome men be husbands?

Almost all men hope to find a beautiful wife, even if it is just a vase to be eye-catching, but many women do not want to find a handsome man as their husband, because it is easy to be snatched away by others. After all, handsome men There are many suitors and great temptations, so why are handsome men not suitable as husbands? What is the reason why handsome men are not suitable as husbands? Let’s take a look below.

1. Reasons why handsome men should not be husbands

Worrying about him being cheated on every day

When you go out with him, you often dare not leave your boyfriend even half a step away. Here, you don't even dare to go to the toilet, worried that other women will take advantage of it. Today's girls are very powerful. They are not pursuing men, but launching romantic terrorist attacks on men, and using "weapons of mass destruction". In the past, women exchanged beauty for money and social status, but now, women are independent , they use their social status and humor to conquer men.

If you have "conquered" him but are still worried about him being "conquered" by others every day, this kind of insecurity makes most women only dare to look at handsome men from a distance and not dare to get up close.

Will he only love himself?

Some handsome men have obvious "narcissism". He is intoxicated with self-appreciation. In the elevator or restaurant, as long as there is a mirror to look at, he will never forget to look at himself and pity himself. At this time, he put his girlfriend on the back burner and out of sight.

In life, people always like beautiful children. From kindergarten to school, teachers unconsciously pay more attention to beautiful children. In families, parents may also be partial to beautiful children. So women always worry: Will the beautiful man next to me only love him?

Beauty doesn’t stay fresh

In middle school, there is a “boys girl” that everyone loves, who is somewhat similar to Jimmy Lin. I met him on the street a few days ago, and I couldn't bear to recognize him: He was only in his thirties, and he had already begun to gain weight. His facial skin was sagging, and wrinkles were ruthlessly creeping into the corners of his eyes. Where could he still find the shadow of the jade tree in the wind? ? On the contrary, men who were very inconspicuous at that time tended to have a shelf life of 30 years. Beautiful men and beautiful women are as beautiful and fragile as petals. Falling in love with beauty is as risky as falling in love with a shooting star.

If he has a bad temper

When I was in college, a girl in the same dormitory fell in love with a "boy school beauty" who had a cool appearance and a weird personality. The eldest lady is busy cleaning her boyfriend's lunch box and washing his coat every day. Even though she was so fawning, the "boy school beauty" still had a bad temper. She would change her face and slam the door at the slightest displeasure, making the girl often cry in anger. But when he came back and said "I'm sorry" with a bright smile, the girl burst into tears and smiled again. A man with outstanding looks has been liked by his parents and teachers since he was a child. Even if he has a bad temper and has done wrong things, he can be easily forgiven by others. I originally liked this boy's school belle, but seeing how "personalized" he is, if I were in that girl's position, I'd better save the trouble.

Victim of "love at first sight"

Seeing the man's handsome face, I immediately thought that he should be a talented student at Harvard, or the only son of a billionaire, or at least the brains He is a profound thinker, so he fell in love with him wholeheartedly, but in the end he found out that he was just a cat with a tiger head and a tiger brain.

Except in TV series and Hollywood blockbusters, how come it is so rare for most women to see a truly handsome man who is both inside and outside in real life? Even if there is one that can barely fill the bill, the famous flower has already been taken care of, so how can it be my turn?

I don’t dare to be his girlfriend

There are two reasons:

First, I don’t know what I have to look like and how many assets I have to be worthy of being around me. With his "beautiful appearance", I have enough psychological advantages to stand beside him and accept people's comments;

2. I am afraid that I will become a street rat when I walk on the street, and all the female compatriots will want to belittle me.

After Fei Fei divorced Zheng Shaoqiu, he said to his daughter: "Don't look for a handsome boy. It's hard to keep a handsome boy!"

2. What kind of man is suitable as a husband?

A career-minded person is not Workaholic

Career is an important element of a truly perfect family. Men should be enterprising so that their family's life can be effectively protected. A man who is ambitious does not look around, does not look towards Qin Muchu, and is tied to his career wholeheartedly. He feels distressed when he looks at him, and loves him when he thinks about him. However, there may be unforeseen consequences when getting married, and the problems are not small. He was stingy and refused to walk a few steps along the street with you. He kept asking you to go shopping with you, but at most he only waited under the shade of a tree outside the mall. What's more important is that he is the hands-off shopkeeper, forcing you to take care of everything in the house and annoying you.

But if he is too career-minded, he will spend very little time on his family and you. If you ask him to go shopping with you, he will say it is boring; if you ask him to watch a movie with you, he will say No time. He has achieved success in his career, and you have followed suit, but that is what others see. What others cannot see is your loneliness in the long years. And those men who are not overly ambitious will know how to be considerate and pampering to you.

Be good-tempered but not too good

Perhaps you have never seen him lose his temper at you, nor have you ever seen him scold you for being deeply dissatisfied with something. I take good care of you in every possible way, even to the point of being meticulous. He is also a hard-working person in the work unit. When colleagues need to do errands, he is asked to do them. He is assigned to do the hard work that no one wants to do. In every year-end evaluation, there are always praises such as being good at teamwork, hard-working, and willing to endure hardships. However, his colleagues are better than others. He has a promising career, but he is still being dispatched at will, and there is no sign of "progress", but he is not annoyed or anxious.

"I thought he was a talent, but he turned out to be a waste. He doesn't know how to smoke, drink or do anything, and he has no future in officialdom. The thin guy next door, Xiao Li, has no diploma or demeanor. He learned to do business the year before last and already has a car. Villa, I think he is a working-class person, and it is difficult to get rich in the short term. "It is rare to have a non-impetuous mentality, but he is too temperamental, lacks enterprising spirit, and has no fighting spirit. Although he can live a peaceful and stable life with his wife and children in the future, he will. There are fewer twists and turns, but we women are afraid that this "Ninja Turtle" temper will be transmitted to us during the long-term living together, making us like the women of our mother's generation, becoming "robots" to support our families.

Be rich but not too rich

If a man is a pauper, without a house or a car, he has to fiddle with his money bag for a long time and think for a long time when going out to buy groceries. Struggling in poverty, the stinginess index is hundreds of times higher than that of ordinary people. If you marry such a person, you will be exhausted or angry to death! It will definitely be a difficult life. In this day and age, a man should have money, be cool on his own, and have a good wife with him. Love is like clothing, it must be supported by money.

However, the most unfortunate thing is this. You can change your clothes at will. If you were carefree all the way and forgot your way home, wouldn't it make you look at the cold window with a lonely moon and a puddle of tears? Hard work? In the real world, being rich is almost equal to having ability and luck. If a man has excellent ability and luck, he will definitely pamper himself in many aspects, including of course choosing a wife and a mate. Marrying such a man requires you to do it all the time in your life. You are on tenterhooks, there is a crisis of being laid off every minute!

“Men become bad when they are rich.” People who have been poor for a long time and suddenly become rich cannot marry. It’s not easy either. Therefore, a good man should be like this: he should have enough food and clothing, but he should not be extremely rich.

Be responsible but not too responsible

I once saw a joke: A male and female friend sleep in the same room, and the woman draws a line: Those who cross the line are beasts! The woman When I woke up, I found that the man really had not passed the line. The woman slapped the man hard: You are worse than a beast! Haha, it seems that even men who are too responsible will be dismissed.

Responsible men live for a belief. They only do what they should do, not what they want to do. Most conscientious men will have too many rules and regulations. If you love If your love is too deep, he will make you sad; if your love is too shallow, the two of you can be together, but this kind of love is either raw or lifeless.

In addition, as soon as the dutiful man walked into the office and started working, he was like a game machine with coins inserted into it, exerting super energy in a short period of time. If the console suddenly stopped, then a coin called cowardice must have been thrown in by mistake.

Men who are timid, fearful, and hide in corners will only attract contempt from their leaders and colleagues. Even if some sympathy is given, no one will ever put in a coin for him again. Although women are wary of men who are overly responsible, it shows their petty nature, and most women like the way men add more happiness to their lives. Although women do want everything to go according to procedure and life to be stable and comfortable, women are also willing to be "happy" once in a while.