Will you be influenced by negative comments?

More or less affected. Although to outsiders, I don't seem to have any expression fluctuation on the surface, but actually my heart is surging, but on the surface, I can't let others see it. I want to pretend to be calm. One is for outsiders to see. I don't care about these negative comments, which have no influence on my life at all. Second, you can't let your performance become a negative evaluation again. You should know that when you hear these negative comments, your words and actions will make others catch hold of them, and then spread them widely and become your negative comments again. So no matter who you are, you will always be a little unhappy when you hear negative comments from others, but in order not to let others feel that they are affected, you will pretend not to care, and your heart will still be bitter.

People who really chew the roots of others' tongues behind their backs are the most annoying. Often such people are gossiping, they will collect all kinds of information, and then get together in twos and threes. When you say something, I will say something, and they will often bring their feelings in, and then pass it around. You may not even know which version when you hear others say bad things about you. So sometimes you really don't care about these things. Say what others want to say, and you can't stop it. All you can do is make sure that you don't become the kind of person you hate.

If someone speaks ill of you behind your back, just listen. If you think it's really your problem, correct it. If you think what they say is not true, then you don't have to care too much. Some people may be like this, they can't see the good of others, and they always like to speak ill of others behind their backs. Or one kind of people simply can't tolerate another kind of people. When these two people are together, there will always be a collision. You have nothing to say, but they are just making trouble. Since they have so much time, let them talk. It won't hurt a hair of yours anyway. On the contrary, you can see what kind of people can make friends and what kind of people don't need attention at all.

People who speak ill of you behind your back often don't like your good life. You just let them see that your life is good and make them angry. If they don't speak ill of you, you will develop well. Maybe they will want something from you, and then you will have the initiative. And if someone speaks ill of you behind your back, it means that you are still a conspicuous figure, that you have a great influence on others, and that you still have some influence. You should be happy with your influence. It's better for someone to pay attention than no one to pay attention.