The kindergarten boy wanted his mother to cry, but the teacher insisted that it was "water". Why is he so strong at an early age?

A boy in kindergarten thought his mother was crying. When the teacher saw it, he went forward and asked the boy why he was crying. The child firmly said that he didn't cry. The teacher jokingly asked what was in that eye, was it water? The boy said it was water, but he refused to admit that it was tears. After returning home, the mother asked about it, and the child said that he didn't cry at that time, but there was water in his eyes. This video was posted on the Internet, and everyone was amused by the child's answer. It was commented that men in Northeast China were too beautiful to admit that they were crying.

Being so strong at an early age is actually because he is a child in the northeast and has a lot of face. Anyway, he won't admit that he is crying, otherwise it will be too embarrassing. This is actually caused by their education, and may be learning from his parents and grandparents. On the other hand, because children also have self-esteem, especially the little boy knows from an early age that men can't cry if they have tears, otherwise they will be laughed at by female classmates. But my heart is very fragile, and crying is also the expression of true feelings, so I can only cry, and then I can hide myself through language.

Through this incident, we can know that male chauvinism in Northeast China is actually related to genes. People in that place have a lot of face, so when they grow up, they are very hospitable and will take the initiative to invite friends to dinner. We must understand. In addition, we should take care of children's emotions and protect their fragile self-esteem. You can't criticize and scold them just because they are children, and you can't call them cowards just because they cry. We should allow children to cry, don't keep pushing them, and give them face. Only in this way can he dare to show his true feelings in front of parents and teachers, and he will communicate with parents in the future, so that the child's mood will be more stable. There is not much problem with such children, because it is only a personal choice. After all, no one wants others to see their inner vulnerability. Face is very important, especially for men, so we will find this boy very interesting.