"60,000 bride price, when do you say to pay in installments?" "What if I get married?" Tell us what?

When it comes to marriage, it is inseparable from the bride price. The bride price is the birthright given by the man to the woman and also a kind of respect. Even if the woman doesn't have this will, out of custom, the man should make a gesture in order that the woman won't be looked down upon by people around him. This is the scenery.

Of course, there are also women who think they are married to this man. Why bother with the bride price? As long as he can be sincere to himself, the bride price can be an iou and can be returned to himself slowly.

However, before and after marriage, men will become, and the promises they made before may turn against each other in the future. Women should not be too naive.

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When Xiao Kui and Zhao Yong fall in love, they both have more money. Because she has more free time, she can do some part-time jobs, so when she is away from home, she volunteered and made great contributions.

Zhao Yong said at first that women should not be allowed to spend money. Later, she thought, why not spend less money? I acquiesced in the little sunflower asking for more money.

Even sometimes, when I spend too much, I have no money at the end of the month, so I just want to take care of Xiao Kui. When I go out to eat together, I am no longer in a hurry to pay, but always let Xiao Kui go.

After a long time, Xiao Kui doesn't have much money in her hand, so when she spends money, she will protest and say, I don't have any money either.

Zhao Yong at this time, "don't you have a part-time job and savings? How can there be no money? Now you spend more. I'll give you the salary card when you get married in the future. I won't lie to you. "

Small kwai Zhao Yong words, think it may be a little stingy, so there would be no more.

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When they got married, Zhao Yong said that she had no money at home, so she couldn't give the bride price. If Xiao Kui had to, she had to write an IOU first, and then pay it back slowly.

Small kwai wanted to think, fall in love, Zhao Yong really to say, oneself also is not a vain person, now is not a flower bai?

The bride price is like a flower bud. Let Zhao Yong give himself thousands of dollars in stages every month, and he will also give it without causing too much burden to his family.

Xiao Kui's mother didn't want to marry Xiao Kui to Zhao Yong because she heard her daughter say those words when she was in love. Didn't this man bully Xiao Kui to tell the truth? Where a man has been spending money on a woman, he finally takes it for granted and has no sense of shame. Now he wants a bride price, like an iron rooster, without paying a penny, and paying it back by installments. What kind of bride price is that? It's not borrowing money. It makes people laugh.

But in the end, she still believes that Zhao Yong is still the boy who is willing to spend money for himself and be good to himself as soon as he falls in love with himself. The reason why it will change is only because of the constraints of realistic conditions. When conditions are good, there is no need to calculate like this.

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After marriage, it was easy for Xiao Kui to work in a state-owned enterprise, while Zhao Yong worked in a private enterprise, leaving early and returning late every day, but the salary card was not given to Xiao Kui.

When Xiao Kui mentioned it, she said that she spent too much. If he gave the card to Xiao Kui, life would be too inconvenient. At this time, Xiao Kui also remembered the bride price mentioned before.

So after a year of marriage, I asked him: "Before, I asked for a bride price of 60,000 yuan. You said it wasn't that much, so give it to me in installments. When will you return the first issue? "

Zhao Xiaoyong, "what are you talking about? Aren't we already a family? What do you say about bride price? If you are married, what else? "

Small kwai suddenly froze. Before, her mother told herself that Zhao Yong was a person with profound thoughts, and she might be cheated in the future. Xiao kui still doesn't believe it. Now the truth is in front of her, and the man she trusted wholeheartedly actually denied what she said.

Men and women in the world are busy, in order to find a partner and avoid being displaced. Even when encountering difficulties, one can avoid one's own fatigue. However, people's hearts are unpredictable, not only women's hearts are unpredictable, but men's hearts are also like finding a needle in a haystack.

Xiao Kui thought that Zhao Yong was their best home, and she also firmly believed that two people would be happy in the future, so before paying, she didn't have any complaints. The greater the hope, the greater the disappointment. He thought it was considerate of him, and proposed the installment bride price, but it became an opportunity for him to take advantage of it.

If it weren't for loving him, which woman would lower her status so low, but if it weren't for loving him, which man would be so free to his lover.

Getting married is not a trivial matter, but more prudent. At the beginning, those details could be the standard to consider a person's character. Don't choose to deceive yourself because you are blinded by love. This result will only be regretted in the end.