What should I do if my classmate hits me on the head as a joke?

Joking, as a form of communication between friends, livening up the atmosphere, and expressing emotions, is very vital among all kinds of people. But if the joke is made inappropriately, it can also cause immeasurable adverse consequences. Therefore, jokes between classmates must be moderate. In particular, you should pay attention to the following aspects:

(1) Do not use the shortcomings or shortcomings of your classmates as the target of jokes. There is a well-known proverb: laughing at others is equivalent to laughing at yourself. No gold is pure, and no man is perfect. You think you know the other person very well, so you can make fun of the other person's shortcomings at will, but these jokes may easily be considered sarcastic by the other person. If the other person is a more sensitive person, you will offend him with an unintentional remark, and even destroy him. It may damage the friendship between two people or make the relationship between classmates become tense. And you have to remember that once such a joke is told, it cannot be taken back, nor can it be explained solemnly. By that time, it will be too late to regret.

(2) Don’t make excessive jokes with your classmates. Although jokes can bring people laughter, they can also easily cause harm to others due to improper use. For example, in a certain school, three boys once started to tickle another boy at the same time. As a result, the boy choked to death because he couldn't stop laughing, which brought a huge disaster to the family. There are also students who joke that two classmates are in love, which the girls cannot accept, and thus suffer from mental illness.

(3) Don’t always joke with others. When joking, you must have a sense of scale and don't be careless and always joking. If this goes on for a long time, your classmates will feel that you are not rigorous in your conduct, and may even think that your lack of rigor affects everyone's learning. Gradually, everyone will be tired of your "humor".

(4) Don’t think that teasing people is also a joke. Teasing others is disrespectful to others and will make people think you are malicious. And it’s hard to explain afterwards.

If you understand the "degree" of joking, you will have a better grasp when dealing with classmates' jokes.