Is it really important to be a good match?

It is very important to be of the right family when getting married. Because the levels are different, the lifestyles are very different, and the cultural accomplishments are also different, so there will be many difficulties in being together, especially those who get married in the city and in the countryside. The young people have a good relationship, but the old people on both sides just can't talk to each other. The urban people think that the rural people don't understand the rules and hygiene, and the rural people think that the urban people are arrogant and arrogant. Eventually, because of the discord between the two old people, many people get divorced. For girls, this should be understandable. Who doesn’t rely on him if he has a boyfriend and a husband? But girls, if you are just starting to socialize, this dependence is a must for boys. But do you really know the other boys? Especially men who are not single or married.

Many men want to have their own independent space and don’t want to spend too much time with women, so if you are particularly dependent on your partner, it is easy to be disharmonious. This is not inconsistent with their respective family finances. If you both have a more spiritual world, many topics or interests should be in the same world, with little conflict or dissonance. They do not find their thoughts difficult to understand and endure. You still have to have the courage to wear the shoes to know whether they fit or not. Everyone has his own circle. If two people in this circle have the same personality, hobbies, qualities, accomplishments, and education, then their lives will be relatively comfortable. On the contrary, there will be a lot of contradictions and jokes. Marriage pays attention to "matching", that is, when a man marries a woman and the two families have the same wealth and status, they will be happy.

In fact, this view will foreshadow both parties to the marriage in the future. Why do I say this? Because if one day, the difference in wealth and status between the two families changes, the other party may show disdain and contempt for the other party. Once this kind of "not looking" attitude is formed, the stability of the marriage will be affected. When you want to decide When you enter a marriage, it not only means what kind of person you will choose to be your husband, but also what kind of lifestyle you will choose to spend the rest of your life if you plan to stay with him for a long time.

People often say that falling in love may be a matter of two people. Two people can fall in love as long as they are electrocuted in an instant; but marriage is definitely not a matter of two people, because marriage involves two huge people. Family, including the love you will have together in the future. Some people say that marriage is free now, and matching is an old feudal superstitious tradition and old idea, which is now outdated; some people say, I want it. This person in front of me talks about material things, money, and status with me. It's too vulgar. If you have love, you will be happy.