What to do if a married man likes you

1. Reject a married man with a clear attitude. When he expresses his feelings for you, or when he expresses that he wants to have a relationship with you, what you have to do is to reject him immediately. , don’t give him any ideas, don’t beat around the bush, let alone tell him directly that you don’t want to be friends or siblings, but you will never have any ambiguity with a married man. Or about love relationships. 2. Don’t be hesitant. Many girls suffer because they don’t know how to refuse the love of a married man. They know clearly that they absolutely do not want the pursuit of a married man, but they are too embarrassed to say no. When faced with the pursuit of a married man, you either say I will consider it, or we are not suitable for each other, etc. In the eyes of a married man, it is just that you are embarrassed, or you are hinting that he still has something. Opportunity, girls must remember this. 3. Don’t have too much contact with a married man. If you feel that he is pursuing you or you clearly feel that a married man likes you, then you must remember to avoid having too much contact with him as much as possible, because married men pursue you. You are not afraid. What I am afraid of is that if you are moved by a married man and fall in love with him during a long period of contact, then your remaining sanity will collapse in an instant. If he doesn’t pursue you, you will probably fall in love with him and be unable to extricate yourself. , so you must remember that when a married man likes you and pursues you, you must not have too much contact with him. 4. Don’t be alone with a married man on an appointment. Since a married man likes you and may pursue you, it means that you must know each other or even be familiar with him. Maybe you will have a meal together on weekdays, but after he expresses his pursuit of you, don't continue to be alone with him, including eating, going out, taking a walk, etc. Don't give him Any opportunity to be close to you will allow him to completely stop that idea, avoid other people's gossip, and it will be beneficial to both of you. 5. Do not have online contact with married men. It is best to set up a married man’s phone number specifically. Do not answer his calls casually, let alone reply to any of his text messages, or even QQ and WeChat on social media. Because if a married man likes you, he will definitely contact you in various ways. In reality, it is inevitable that you will meet or come into contact with this married man. Contact with colleagues is completely unavoidable, but on social networks you can completely ignore him. Don't worry about what he is thinking, and don't try to find out his feelings for you from social media. Even if a married man likes you, he will not give you a future. As long as you are sure that you do not want to accept the pursuit of a married man, remember not to have any contact with him on social media. 6. Look directly at the constant entanglement of married men. It is completely irresponsible for a married man to pursue other women outside. He is sorry for his wife and the girl he is pursuing. Because a married man cannot give a girl any guarantee or commitment, but he still selfishly wants to take that girl as his own. Don't feel embarrassed when facing his pursuit. If you continue to pester you after you have rejected him righteously, then please look directly at the situation where the married man likes you and solemnly express your willingness to refuse again. 7. Leave all the evidence that a married man is pestering you. In the eyes of others, a slap in the face can't make a difference. If you didn't seduce him or anything else, how could he harass you, etc. Many married men may put all the blame on the girl when their wives find out that they are in love with someone else. So in order to avoid this situation from happening, you must leave all the evidence that a married man is entangled with you, just to avoid being bitten back and having no regrets. 8. Let relatives help solve the problem but don’t make it too public. Many women choose to bear it alone when faced with the endless entanglement of married men. It may be because they are the leaders of the work unit and will not tell their family members. But the reason for enduring it alone is because an unmarried girl does not have that rich experience and does not know how to deal with some things correctly. Keep the evidence and tell your closest family members about the matter, and let them help you find a way to deal with it, but don't make it public until the critical moment and make the whole city full of trouble, otherwise you will also be hurt. 9. Don’t indulge in it. Married men are the objects of admiration of many girls, because they have a sense of maturity and stability that unmarried young people do not have, and they are well-dressed and tasteful under the careful care of their wives. All of this can easily attract many girls.

Therefore, in many places, girls interfere with other people's families, and these girls have to bear a lot of stigma in society. Married men are people who have been through relationships. They understand girls' thoughts and know what to do to please girls. So under their pursuit, girls go from being rejected at the beginning to being addicted to it in the end. This goes on. Soon you even hate yourself. What to do if a married man likes you 2: A married man will always call you if he has a crush on you. If a married man likes you, he will call you often and want to contact you even if he has nothing to do, because you have already occupied his heart. If you touch a certain part of your body, he feels happy just by saying a few words to you. When he is unwilling to hang up the phone easily when something is urgent, you mean that he is really interested in you. Women should pay attention to this. Can’t help but tell you everything. Men always like to tell the woman they love everything about themselves. If this man often tells you about his family situation, including his personal information or secrets, it means that the man wants to close the distance between you. . Another way is that he will praise you in front of his friends, mainly to attract your attention, so women should be wary of married men around them. There is a word for being friendly to your friends: Aiwujiwu. If a man likes a woman, he will also respect her friends. He must not lose face in front of her friends. This is also to increase his score. He feels that as long as a woman’s friends treat him If you don't hate him, then he will have the opportunity to develop with the other person. This is also a strategy of married men. He will pay attention to your every move. If a man really likes you, he will pay attention to your every move. No matter what you do, he will notice it and observe what you like and don’t like, what you like and don’t like. This is also to prepare for approaching a woman. . Women should pay attention to whether a married man often puts his eyes on you. If that is the case, it means that he is interested in you and wants to date you. You should stay away from such men and don't cause trouble. The first wife is not a good person. Provoked. What to do if a married man likes you 3 01. What would you do if you fell in love with someone you shouldn't love, or if a man with a family said he fell in love with you. Some time ago, I saw a topic on Zhihu: How to deal with a married man liking you? Some people talked about their personal experiences, and some people expressed their opinions. Several people’s answers were still fresh in my memory. One person replied: "In most cases, they are just 'playing'. Even if they subjectively don't want to 'just play', in the end it is 'just playing'." The reason is probably that marriage involves too many things, such as family, children, parents, responsibilities, social status, etc. Therefore, when you are married, many things are no longer under your control, so you can only have fun if you don't want to play. Someone else replied: "What he likes is not you, he likes your freedom and youth. When I told her that I was married, everything was a done deal. That was a hint that I would maintain the status quo and not get divorced, but I can let you feel that I like you, and you can also let me feel freedom. This is a deal, but I package it as love. "So when a married man swears that he likes you, you can really do it. Listen to it as a joke, because their liking cannot be true, and they dare not be true. It may be just for fun. 02. The married man who says he likes you actually cares more about his wife. My friend Xiaomeng is 26 years old. When she was working in a company, she was valued by a leader who was ten years older than her. Originally, Xiaomeng only regarded the man as her senior, but when the man was too kind to her, she slowly fell in love with him. After she fell in love with her, she found out that the man was already married. When she wanted to end the relationship, the man made her a promise. He said a lot that he was going to get divorced in a few years, and he also spent a lot of money on Xiaomeng. From that moment on, Xiaomeng chose to forget the fact that he was married, and chose to slowly wait for the man to marry her with the divorce certificate. In love, one of the most common mistakes women make is to rely on their imagination to love. How good that person is in your imagination is actually just an elaborate scam. The two of them had been together for two years, and Xiaomeng changed jobs. The man gave her at least more than 10,000 yuan in pocket money every month, and even went shopping with her to buy bags when he had time. Looking at the bags in her cabinet, Xiaomeng felt that even if he was really married, he might not be so good to his wife, so she was the man's true love. Later, Xiaomeng, who was dazzled by love, felt that she had the ability to "force the uterus".

So I took a few intimate photos with the man, found out the man’s home address, and prepared to go and give my first wife a showdown in person. But the development of things was completely different from what I imagined. After the man's wife saw the photo, she only said one sentence: "You two should handle the matter yourself. I don't have time to get involved." That night, when the man came to Xiaomeng's residence again, he slapped her in the face when he opened the door and asked her if she had gone home. Xiaomeng cried and said it was because of love and that she wanted to get married. But the man only has one sentence: "Break up, I'm tired of you already." Xiaomeng didn't understand why the man who obviously liked her was treating her like this at this time and why he was unwilling to divorce. It was obvious that the man had been with her longer in the past few years. In fact, for men, real domestic flowers may not be as fragrant as wild flowers, but the woman in his family is his most important woman. After all, no one can tell the difference between family members and outsiders. In contrast, Xiaomeng wasted several years of her youth because of a non-existent love. 03. Most of the love of married men is fake. Even if it is true, it is difficult to come true. When a man gets married, will he still find true love? The answer is yes, but the chance of meeting true love is very rare, and the chance of being able to go to the end with true love is almost non-existent. From three perspectives, it is easy to understand why. One: Men don’t dare, they care about face. Everyone knows that betrayal of marriage should not exist. Therefore, men do not want others to talk about them in this way, especially if they betray their marriage and lead to divorce, it will greatly affect other people's evaluation of them. An ordinary person would mind, let alone those with a little more status, and would care more about the evaluation of their partners and others. So no matter from any angle, men dare not easily fall in love with women outside marriage, especially because they are divorced. Second: In a man’s heart, home is the most important thing. Everyone has a sense of responsibility and belonging to the family. Women's feeling is very superficial, but men's feeling is hidden in their hearts. Maybe in normal times, you can have a little fight with your partner, or even talk about divorce. But when it comes to important moments, a man's heart still points to his family. After all, his wife is his family member. Third: If a man is irresponsible for one marriage, he will definitely be irresponsible for the next person. Many people have a luck mentality and are prone to suffer losses because of this mentality. Just like a married man who likes you, you will think that the other person really loves you, otherwise how could he take risks to love you. There is just a kind of psychology called curiosity. Some people like novelty. They can do the same to you and others. A dedicated person must be a responsible person. It is impossible for a responsible person to betray his marriage. 04. I have heard a saying before that the marriage a man wants is like: "The red flag at home does not fall, and the colorful flags flutter outside." Judging from this sentence alone, the most important thing must be the red flag at home, and Not the colorful flags outside. Zhu Yaoxie once said: "The true love between men and women cannot be realized by the body or the spirit. It can only be realized in the state of mutual integration of each other's spirit and body." The most basic condition for this situation is that you understand what single-mindedness is, and what it means to be willing to win the heart of one person and not be separated forever. If you fall in love with me today and fall in love with someone else tomorrow, this feeling is not love at all. Whether in love or marriage, one of the most important qualities of a man is loyalty. Contained under loyalty are single-mindedness and a sense of responsibility, both of which are indispensable. So when a married man tells you that he likes you, what he definitely doesn't have is loyalty. A person doesn't even have the most basic qualities in love. No matter how many love words he says, just treat them as jokes, because if you don't dare to take them seriously, you can't take them seriously either.