My mother-in-law and I were pregnant at the same time, and the whole family advised me to abort. Should I get a divorce?

My husband and I are free to fall in love, and we got married after dating for more than a year. My husband and I have good family conditions. My husband is an only child, and I have a sister who is still studying. Both of them belong to well-off families. My husband is two years older than me and has always taken care of me. After marriage, we temporarily lived with our in-laws.

The wedding room was bought by two * * * companies, and it was paid in full for half a year. My in-laws are very young, and my mother-in-law is only 47 years old. They are all avant-garde, so it is not contradictory to live with them. We usually go to work, my father-in-law goes to work, my mother-in-law does housework at home, and the family is happy.

I was pregnant in less than half a year, and my family was very happy. The first pregnancy experience is insufficient, and life becomes cautious. A few days later, her mother-in-law even announced that she was pregnant. I don't believe my ears. I have never heard them talk about it before. Why am I suddenly pregnant? And my husband and they are also very happy, feeling happier than I am pregnant.

I'm a little depressed. My mother-in-law's due date is only half a month away from me. Hehe, her child is as big as her grandson. Isn't this a joke? Mother-in-law is almost fifty, can she still have children? After her mother-in-law became pregnant, her father-in-law was very happy and cried that she must have a daughter this time.

I was pregnant for more than three months, and my mother-in-law and I went for a checkup. My baby is well developed and healthy. But the mother-in-law's children are not so good. After all, she is old, and the doctor said that the fetus is not developing well and may miscarry at any time. It is recommended to abort, otherwise the child cannot be guaranteed to be healthy at birth.

This frightened her mother-in-law. When she comes home, she does nothing but lie down every day to have a baby. I even brought dinner to her bed and said that I would give birth to the baby.

After the check-up, my father-in-law muttered something to her husband. In the evening, my husband and I discussed and said, "Otherwise, I don't want this child first. It's not easy for a mother to have a baby for the first time. Anyway, you are still young, and you will have another one next year. " I was shocked to hear that. This is our flesh and blood.

I quarreled with him without hesitation. "Why don't I have a good child?" What do I care if your mother gives birth to a baby? "My husband earnestly advised me that his mother is old and needs someone to take care of the baby, and there is not so much energy to take care of me at home. Why don't I beat the children and take care of my mother-in-law in the future? ...

Wociao, did a husband say that? It hurts me. This is a small life. How can you fight? I am firmly opposed to this matter! My husband saw that I was indifferent and simply gave me a cold war. This man is so disappointing to me that I have a divorce heart. I don't need your concern. I can go back to my mother's house anytime, right?

I packed my things and went back to my parents' house. My parents were very angry when they learned about it. Father wanted to settle accounts with her husband, but my mother and I stopped him. Dad told me that your daughter can have a baby at home with peace of mind, and the child can afford it without our family.

I lived in my mother's house for several months, during which my husband called several times to persuade me to abort the child. My family is very angry. In order to save the child, I threw the divorce papers to him directly. I won't abort my own child for no reason. Even if I divorce him, this cold-blooded fickle man let me down.

/kloc-pregnant in October and gave birth to a son. I'm going to stay with my mother after leaving the hospital. My husband and in-laws came and begged me to go back. I was surprised to see my mother-in-law. Her big belly is missing. It turned out that her child was gone. When she was more than seven months old, she lost her fetal heart and had to induce labor.

Now their whole family keeps apologizing to me and begging me and my son to go back, but I am very annoyed. Let me abort the child first, then ignore me for a few months. Now that I have a son, I won't go back. Who is this family? I blinked and my parents kicked them all out.