Daughter, dad didn't have a son until he was 50. Find a rich son-in-law to adopt a younger brother. The daughter's answer is sad. Why?

This is because the burden of raising a person in a young family is too heavy for young people to choose to give up marriage. Some young people are afraid of taking the responsibility of raising children and choose the Dink family, while others are even afraid of getting married. I guess my daughter will say: getting married is not a deal, and raising children is not a deal.

Children and grandchildren have their own blessings, so don't be cattle and horses for children and grandchildren;

I believe many people have heard this sentence, but the traditional concept of China people is very interesting. They always want to inherit more property from their parents instead of winning wealth through their own efforts. So now many young people like to eat old ones, and some old people think so. They carry their children's future on their shoulders, like this father, not only by themselves, but also by their daughters. This is a very unwise choice.

Parents have the obligation to raise their children to adulthood, but they have no responsibility to take care of their children for life, and so do brothers and sisters. Everyone should learn to struggle on their own. Only what they win through their own efforts is the most valuable, otherwise they will not know how to cherish it.

A father has the ability to raise his son to 18 years old;

It is a happy thing to have a son at the age of 50, but the old man should bear the life and education of his son before the age of 18, not let his daughter bear it, let alone let her bear this responsibility by choosing marriage, because marriage is not a transaction.

A 50-year-old man should have mature psychological preparation in choosing to have children, instead of getting pregnant unexpectedly like those children who have just grown up. Therefore, the father should have thought about it before giving birth to the child, and he has the ability to take care of the child. Even if he raises his children to 18 years old, he is only 69 years old, which is still very long compared with the average life expectancy in China.

Daughters have the obligation to support the elderly;

Sheep have the grace of kneeling, and crows have the meaning of feeding back. When we grow up, it is not easy for our parents to support us. They are old, and we have an obligation to support them, which is our social responsibility. Otherwise, even livestock are inferior. Therefore, children have the obligation to support the elderly, but they have no obligation to take care of their brothers and sisters all their lives, let alone through the form of buying and selling marriage.

Marriage is not a sale;

We know that the foundation of a happy marriage is love, and the result of any marriage that is not based on love is unpredictable. Everyone has the love to pursue their own happy life, and the freedom of marriage is guaranteed by law. Therefore, the father has no right to ask his daughter to give up love and choose money. This kind of behavior, like selling children and girls in the old society, is not only immoral, but also illegal.

Nowadays, more and more young people choose not to have children after marriage. Some of them don't want to enjoy family happiness, mainly because they are worried about the cost of raising children. When they can't guarantee superior living conditions and educational guarantee for their children, they are not even ready to have children. From this perspective, the 50-year-old father's idea is somewhat naive.

If this daughter really chooses to listen to her father, then find a burden for her future husband first. There is still a high probability that she will not get married. Unless she has enough capital, this is bound to be a joke. In the case that her own children are afraid to have children, she is also prepared to raise others, which is enough to scare away love.