Why isn’t my teenage child talking to me?

The reasons why adolescent children don’t want to communicate with their parents

01

They don’t care about my inner thoughts

I really don’t understand my parents Why don't they understand what I'm really thinking? Why do they interfere with my thinking and always ask me to follow the path they pointed out? I am not a body, I have a soul and I have my thoughts, I have a brain and I can think for myself.

02

It seems that only adults’ things are the most important

My parents always don’t take my things seriously, as if only their things are the most important. Yes, the things of us "children" are not worth mentioning. So, now that I have troubles, I don’t tell them at all. It’s useless anyway. They won’t pay attention to me or comfort me. Sometimes they will even laugh and say, “What does this little thing mean?” It doesn't matter".

03

You put all kinds of demands on me, but you can’t do them yourself

Why can’t you do what your parents ask you to do? Let’s point it out The mistake of parents is to talk back, and the way they yell to teach us is to follow the instructions. In their eyes, there is only one phenomenon that can prove the difference between good children and bad children, which is whether they listen to their parents enough.

04

I have no patience to listen to my true thoughts

I have no way to talk to my parents. They always think some of my opinions are ridiculous. They were just quibbling and making excuses. They didn't even ask for my opinion on many things, and they never wanted to listen to my explanation.