Have you ever pretended to understand something you didn’t understand?

When I first graduated, I was always embarrassed to ask whether I was in the office or on a construction site, because my inner thought was: I want to show that I know everything, but I can’t let others think that I know everything. Won't. Even if you don't understand, you have to pretend to understand, otherwise you will feel embarrassed. Now that I have understood it, it is normal to not understand. Especially when I sit in an office and calculate drawings and go to the construction site, it is very normal to not understand. Just ask, even if it's the most mentally retarded question. No one will laugh at you, and no one will report to your superiors: "Hey, that guy in your cost department doesn't know anything!" I used to think too much. , in fact, the people on the construction site are almost the best group to communicate with. As long as you ask, whether it is an old construction worker or a young formworker, they will tell you everything they know, and you may not understand it for a moment. If so, he will tell you in detail, and he will even take the trouble to personally run down the muddy foundation pit and climb up the dangerous platform to point out and tell you what is going on. I have never seen an expression of contempt for me on their faces. This group of people is really a huge knowledge base. Of course, you have to be polite... Passing a cigarette to a smoking comrade is better than reading half a book.

Face and accept your own shortcomings, instead of trying to change yourself or pretend to be someone else in order to pursue a certain goal. There is a lot less exaggeration than before, and life becomes more and more real. Understand the difference between aiming high and aiming high. My understanding of people is deeper than before, and I no longer care too much about others, or ignore them completely. Understand the saying "career is not everything", and a happy life is the result of a balance in many aspects. Stop trusting authority and try to think for yourself. Realize that all conflicts are conflicts of interest or misunderstandings. So learn to seek common ground while reserving differences and be tolerant to others.