"Juana the Mad Girl" gave birth in the toilet and was imprisoned for 47 years. What proportion should love play in life?

She is the Queen of Spain, but she is willing to be her husband’s tool. She is selfless in terms of power and body. Love may blind a person, but even if she recognizes the current situation, she still pretends to be herself. Still the happiest person, such a person is humble to the extreme in front of love.

Perhaps whether it is from fairy tales or princesses in reality, their marriage is nothing more than a political transaction. Only a handful of people can obtain pure love, and in "Juana the Mad Girl" The heroine Juana is not that exception. Giving up the whole world, just to get love

A week before the wedding, she met her fiancé. He was Philip, the prince of the Roman Empire. He had a handsome and unruly appearance, and stared at Juana with blazing eyes. They were all full of desire, and before Juana could finish her speech, he used a passionate kiss to deprive her of her thoughts.

Having never experienced the throbbing of love, I thought this was a life-long stay together, and everything was swallowed up by the surging desire. Love came suddenly like this, and I was caught off guard. I thought I had encountered love, but I didn’t know it. It is the glimmer before hell.

Away from home, away from relatives, away from playmates, away from everything she owns, start over. From then on, Philip became Juana’s only support, loving her husband wholeheartedly, and soon her daughter was born. In the next ten years, Juana gave birth to six children at once and became what the maid called a "cow."

In between dancing, she would even take time to go to the toilet to "give birth", and even bite off the umbilical cord by herself. Have you ever felt that giving birth is just like playing? You can give birth wherever you want, wherever you want. Where he was born.

What Juana didn’t know was that her husband Philip had lost all interest in her after she gave birth to her first child. She thought that the child would bring them closer, but she didn’t know that when she was alone, there was no interest in her anymore. When you feel the need, someone will take your place.

Because of the death of her mother, Juana became the queen. From then on, she no longer had anyone to rely on. She didn’t care whether she was a queen or a princess. All she cared about was Philip. When she accidentally bumped into Philip who was cheating on her, Juana was left with only her husband. Roaring like a madman.

After the death of her relatives and her husband's betrayal, Juana's spirit began to collapse. She rushed into the rain and shouted, what would she be thinking at this moment? No one could love her anymore. She gave up the whole world and was eventually hurt by the only one.

Do not admit that everything that happens in reality is your own fantasy. If there is no love, there is no reason to live. Failure to love is hurt.

A love that loses its reason and neurotically vents all its desires. Even though she is already a queen, she still wants to be that wife.

When Philip went out for more than 3 hours, Juana began to become restless and would suspect her husband's betrayal. As long as her husband returned, she would always go to greet her as soon as possible, like a schizophrenic, while kissing, At the same time, she asked her husband to say that he did not have sex.

As long as she doesn't get the answer she wants, Juana will take action regardless of the occasion or identity. But she will definitely be beaten by Philip. Even after being beaten to the ground, Juana will still hug her husband tightly and say I love you. He was everything in her life, from beginning to end

Philippe, who wanted to usurp the throne, failed and ended up falling ill. Even though her husband's body had long been fester, Juana would still kiss his skin, in order to be able to In order to cure her husband, Juana was even willing to abandon her dignity and her throne. Maybe a person who is about to die can speak kindly. This is right, and Philip told him his mistake.

No prayers could retain her lover Philip. He no longer cared about his country or his people. Some were just immersed in sorrow. Even though Philip had already died, Juana Still staying by her husband's side. From black hair to white hair, he would give his passionate kiss to the corpse every day.

Love occupies the entire life, not loving the country but loving the scumbag, a typical love brain, I will give you my money, my brain, and everything I have. This kind of love is great, but it is None of them are advisable. Work, family, and friendship are all components of life, and the proportions of each are different for different people.

But what you must understand is that you can never make one of them the whole life, otherwise you will either be a mom's baby or a career maniac, or you will lose yourself like Juana and fall into endless pain.

What proportion of love do you think is reasonable in life?

Why do men like women to be clingy when they are in a relationship, but after a while they become too clingy and that becomes the reason for breaking up? What should love look like?

Love in the eyes of men only accounts for 30% of life, and the remaining 70% is made up of career, family, interests, and hobbies. During the period when two people are in love, due to the production of dopamine and hormones, the balance of love is The proportion will rise to 60%, but as the passion fades, although you are still in love, the position of love has long returned to 30%.

I remember that in the program "Love Defense", Lu Qi said that love will only be a small part, and its position can only occupy 30% of the total.

Zhang Xiaoxian said: What is the best mentality when it comes to falling in love? Everything you give is because you are willing. If you reciprocate love, you will be very grateful. If you pretend to be endless, you will not be discouraged. If you are no longer in love, , then one is separated and the other is wide, and each is happy.

It was only after experiencing many stories that I discovered that the essence of love is not to lead to marriage, but to explore the truest self. Only when you meet your true self can you enter the palace of marriage.

I remember Liu Mintao said in a reader that she put all her life in her family. For the love between her husband and herself, she gave up her prosperous career and the hard-earned achievements along the way. , gave up her halo and became a full-time housewife, but because of a matcha-flavored ice cream, she saw her current situation and saw her humbleness.

Just because I regard love as the whole of life, I don’t want to wake up even if I have been lost for a long time. Only when I suddenly travel can I see that my so-called pride has become a joke and an accessory, so I am decisive Leaving, starting again, looking for the lost self.

After giving birth to three children, Lin Zhiying’s mother still gave up her current life and pursued her own life again. For the growth of her children, she waited for them to grow up, but she still did not wait. The husband's understanding is that he has no life of his own. He is surrounded by only children, family, and husband. There is no communication and no understanding.

She had no choice but to give up her children, but she had her own life to finish. Love was not everything in life, and the so-called protection was just a scornful sigh.

Some people may say that Liu Mintao’s life of caring for her husband and raising children at home is envied by many women. She can wear clothes, put food on the table, and open her mouth. She doesn’t have to worry about life or money, as long as she can maintain her love. Just live there; some people would say that Mother Lin already has three children, and it would be immoral to abandon her children.

All of this is just because you are not them, and you may not have the so-called empathy, but love is not everything in life. It is not a necessity of life, but a condiment. What do you think?