At what point do you find it difficult to love someone?

When he doesn’t understand or even hates me, I feel that loving him is really tiring. I am tired, so must he. Maybe this relationship has also entered a fog, and no one can get around it. When he didn’t even bother to reply to my text messages and turned off my phone when he saw it. I want to love him, is it necessary, should I continue? When he would rather go play with others but ignore my idea of ??going to a movie;

When he listens to other people's words and makes random judgments about me, I feel very hard. I am in love with you, don’t you know what I am like?

He gave me no help when I was helpless, no information, no one. If I don't have him during these times, I would be really tired.

When he chooses to compromise in front of his parents and give up on me, I will break down and cry. Your lover is already working hard, and your lover has given up on you. This is really hard.

When we are relatively speechless during an argument, does it turn out that we all have nothing to say? When I see him side by side with others but me behind, is this a bloody eight o'clock plot?

When we met and didn’t even say hello, and didn’t mention breaking up,

When our relationship for several years was just like this, and he didn’t take it seriously in his eyes,?… Love A person is as sweet as others say at first, but after that the process should actually be hard. It feels hard because of grievances, because of quarrels, and because of many little things that cannot be explained clearly.

Suddenly I remembered Mr. Shen Congwen's words, "In my life, I have walked many roads, seen many bridges, and met many people, but I have only loved one person at his best age." As the teacher said, it is indeed beautiful, but truly loving someone is very hard.