How to treat the problem of "I want apples, but you give me a box of pears" in my relationship?

This sentence shows that girls can't express their needs when they are in love. On the other hand, girls can only see apples in this relationship.

The boys carefully prepared for a long time, carefully selected and carefully presented their passionate feelings-pears, and gave them all to the girls. However, the girls were not so happy and even a little angry-I wanted apples.

In one case, the girl may not love the boy enough, so she can't see the process and intention of the boy preparing pears for him. If she really loves this boy, she is like this.

Thank you for the pear. I am very happy. You can send me apples next time. I like apples very much.

when I was with my boyfriend for almost a month, it was 5.2. She sent me a box of lipstick (see the picture), which cost more than 1 yuan. When I got the first look, I felt that it was a fake, and none of the color numbers I liked. I asked him about the detailed purchase process, and expressed my doubts, telling him to ask my sister to recommend purchasing in the future. If I don't say this, he may always buy fakes in the future, so I said it. I am very happy to receive this gift. Even though I don't like these colors very much, it may be fake, but I have been using this lipstick all the time. It's just that next time he picks out lipstick for me, I'll send him the color number I want directly.

My boyfriend gave me many gifts, but I didn't think it was very nice to give my lover T. The shoes he gave me felt ordinary in my eyes. I got a pair of earrings on Valentine's Day during the winter vacation, and I didn't particularly appreciate the style. But I'm really happy! Couple T wears it every day. My boyfriend often asks me if I don't have any other short sleeves. I often wear the shoes he gave me, and when I go out to play, I wear the earrings he gave me.

this is a surprise for you. I don't know how much time, energy and money he has put into it. As long as he gives it to me, I will be happy. Sometimes if you tell him what you want, there will be no surprise. You can give him a general direction and express your preferences in daily life.

On the other hand, the way two people express their love is not what the other person can feel. For example, there was a time when I made a special work, but my boyfriend was so tired that he almost gave up on me. I wanted to seek his attitude towards me, but he thought I didn't want this relationship very much, so it was so noisy. I want love, but he gives me a tired face.

communicate more and say what you want. For example, if I want him to spend more time with me, I will tell him, not because I think he didn't accompany me to quarrel with him. If you want something, just tell him that you want an apple. I hope he can give you an apple. Instead of waiting for the other party to give you a pear, you come to a word, which is not conducive to feelings at all.