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"After the mother-in-law is sick, the husband starts the blood-sucking mode", which stems from the poverty alleviation marriage of love. what do you think?

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One reader said that she felt that her marriage had come to an end.

In their relationship, there is actually no big conflict between them. Just before she got married, she didn't think money was really important.

Their marriage, to put it bluntly, is facing the problem of money, and the difficulty has far exceeded her expectations.

Let's talk about what happened between them.

Many people say that if you get married, two families should be suitable. In fact, they were together at that time, and a young aunt of her family said that she felt that the two families were not so suitable.

What her aunt means is that the gap between the economic conditions of the two families is a little big, and she is worried that there will be contradictions in her life in the future.

Her parents are more open-minded and have only one requirement for her life: you are willing to feel happy, and the person chosen by her daughter is not bad.

Since childhood, her personality has been relatively independent and thorough, and her parents don't have to worry about many things, so she is also very reassured about the person she chooses.

She and her husband are college classmates, and their feelings must be there.

Therefore, when her sister-in-law expressed her worries, she also said that they had talked for so many years and understood each other's personalities, believing that life would not be bad in the future.

They got married in the third year after graduation, because both of them didn't work long, so they didn't have any savings, and the wedding was very simple.

These are all her own requirements. She understands her husband's family and doesn't want to burden him.

Her parents-in-law are rural people and have been living in their hometown. My husband also has a sister who has been married for several years and has never come back.

Her husband doesn't like to talk about family affairs, but she feels as if her sister doesn't have a good relationship with her family.

Because when they got married, his sister didn't come, just gave her husband a red envelope of 500, or turned to WeChat.

Husband didn't say anything, and she didn't ask much, thinking that he certainly didn't want to tell himself.

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She said that her husband is a man with great face. Although he is very kind to her at ordinary times, he is particularly single-minded in the face of some stubborn things.

Like this kind of thing, she knew she was asking, and she couldn't say why, so she didn't mention it.

In fact, after hearing this, I think she should pay more attention before marriage.

Although she repeatedly emphasized her husband's kindness before marriage, one aspect of really understanding a person is his relationship with his family.

For example, why is her husband indifferent to her sister? My sister has been married for so many years, why has she never been back to her mother's house?

Whether this is right or wrong, we really should ask, and also take this opportunity to see what the other party's attitude is towards such a thing, which reflects a person's three views.

This basic three views can't be reflected in daily life.

She thinks she can't ask why, because she cares too much about her husband's point of view and doesn't want to embarrass him at all.

Sometimes, if you don't know clearly before marriage, it's easy to leave hidden dangers after marriage.

Tell me more about her family. Her family is a well-off family. Both parents have formal jobs and pensions when they are old, which is enough for the old couple to live comfortably.

Her parents have their own cars and houses, and before she graduated from college, her parents bought a suite in her name in full in the city, which was renovated in the year of graduation. Because the location is good, it is now worth almost 2 million.

When she got married, this suite was naturally given to her as a dowry.

Husband symbolically received a bride price of 66,000 yuan, mother gave her a card of 65,438+million yuan, and the child was born with a red envelope of 20,000 yuan.

Her husband didn't buy a house, so he has been living in her house since marriage.

There was no rent and mortgage, and some money was saved after marriage. When the child grows up, he thinks that the two rooms are a little small, and he wants to sell this one and add some money to change to a slightly worse and bigger house.

Her husband also agreed to this proposal. But in the end, this plan was not implemented.

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Because less than two months after she proposed this method, her mother-in-law became ill.

My mother-in-law has always been in poor health, and she couldn't do heavy work when she was young.

It is precisely because of this that her husband's family has always been a father-in-law to make money, to bear the expenses of the family, and to pay for the medicine of her mother-in-law, and the conditions have always been relatively tight.

When her mother-in-law was ill, the old couple couldn't get the money, and all the burdens were on her husband. To be exact, it's the two of them.

In less than half a year, the family spent more than 300 thousand, which was saved after they got married.

She took out the card that her mother gave her when she got married. Originally, her mother told her not to move easily, because the family had to spend money, and the money could not be completely turned around without moving.

The mother-in-law's illness, like a bottomless pit, drags on day by day and spends money.

Later, she ran out of money and even their credit cards were overdrawn. She is worried that the money will not come out because they call their parents-in-law as soon as their salary is paid.

She had no choice but to borrow 10 million yuan from her parents. My parents borrowed money and said she didn't have to pay it back. They just want her to figure out when it will end like this.

Her husband is a filial man and never shows any embarrassment in front of his parents. He only said it could be cured, but they don't have to worry about money.

At this time, she said that she had tried her best to understand him, but she really felt wronged.

Her husband obviously transferred this pressure to her. Once, she was still angry when she complained, saying that she had no conscience, not that her parents were not distressed, and so on. Even if he loses all his money, he must be cured, otherwise his conscience will be very bad.

That time, she also said angry words, because her husband suddenly asked her if she wanted to sell the house?

During that time, because my mother-in-law was ill, the matter was put on hold.

She asked how much the house cost. Her husband said that if she sold it, she would lend him 400 thousand first. She said she wouldn't sell it. This is what her parents left for themselves, and she has no right to decide.

Her husband said that since it was given to her, it was hers, and whether to sell it or not was just her word.

Then, she sold it and wouldn't lend it to him. Her mother-in-law's illness is incurable. She won't say anything about the money then, and the house is gone.

Two people had a quarrel, and it was a terrible quarrel.

She took the children back to her parents' home, left tens of thousands of dollars for her husband, only a few thousand dollars with her, and said that she would never take money again.

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The girlfriends around her said that she was stupid and paid so much, but she was finally blamed. She also said that her husband was completely sucking her and her family's "blood".

After listening to these words, she also admitted: "Since her mother-in-law became ill, her husband has started the blood-sucking mode."

Although many people have advised them to separate, most outsiders can't feel the feelings of two people walking together, so they can give the most rational judgment, but she is emotional.

But in the end, she still felt tired.

Because her husband's "save everything" scared her, she didn't want to ruin her and her children's lives. Moreover, the mother-in-law can't cure the disease, but the husband insists on working hard until the last moment of his mother's life.

The poverty-alleviation marriage, which originated from love, finally collapsed.

Although love is beautiful, we should pay attention to reality after all.

From her point of view, I don't think she did anything wrong.

On the contrary, she is not as cold as her husband said. She did her best and left almost all her money to her husband when she finally left.

But she said that her husband would definitely divorce her in the future and blame her for flying solo at the most critical time.

In this world, only fate can't be forced. Some things are not absolutely right or wrong, but stand in different positions.

Her husband has never thought about her and her children, which is not selfish. If he deposits his own money, she won't say a word.

She finally said with emotion that it is right to be appropriate in marriage.