Why do children always hand in their homework because they find that they don't blog?

The tragedy happened in the morning of September 19. Three pupils aged around 10 committed suicide by jumping off a building in Saiyang Central Primary School, Jiujiang City, Jiangxi Province. Now three students are receiving first aid in the hospital. (September 20, Nanhai Net)-This news made many parents feel scared. Today, the little G company in my unit said it was terrible several times. What was terrible was not the news, but his son, who was in the second grade of primary school, read it and asked her, Mom, can you really stop doing your homework after committing suicide?

Xiao G's son gets good grades, but he doesn't like doing homework. Urged by Xiao G, he finishes his homework almost every day. Every night, his son is sticky and complains before homework. If he can't hand in his homework tomorrow, Xiao G must scare his son with the teacher's criticism or punishment. Under such intimidation, my son can still finish his homework, but he seems reluctant. He always said I would. Why do I have to write so many times? Since his son saw the news, is this kind of "bullying" useless in the future? You can stop doing your homework after committing suicide!

Children's endless homework has China characteristics, collective suicide for fear of teacher's punishment has China characteristics, and comments after children's collective suicide have China characteristics. Some critics think that children should be educated in life. What should parents do after they know that he committed suicide? Obviously, the commentator didn't see that one of the girls had arranged for her brother to commit suicide. Doesn't she love life and her parents? Some people think that children are too fragile to bear hardships. Japanese children study harder than our children! To make children learn to suffer hardships, they must have the spirit of "hanging their heads and stabbing their stocks". I don't know why this commentator still wants our children to suffer. Some people think that teachers assign too much homework for utilitarian purposes and should assign less homework to children in the future; Others described these three children as a special case of resisting exam-oriented education, which also attracted Mr. Xiong Bingqi's attention: "Three sad girls were inexplicably painted with heroic colors against exam-oriented education and homework, just like everyone treated the zero-mark papers in the college entrance examination. This is obviously the opposite, not to save children, but to harm children. "

Actually, I think Mr. Xiong Bingqi's worry is unnecessary. If the college entrance examination system and talent selection system are not completely changed, the career of children's endless homework will never end. Every teacher and every parent knows very well that reading is the only way for children to get rid of poverty and predicament and change their living environment, and it is also the only way for relatively fair competition at present!

According to several mothers, the number of primary school students in Shanghai has really decreased, and the amount of homework this year is less than before. However, does the reduction of homework really make these children have a relaxed and happy childhood? No, I was still taken to various training classes by my parents on Saturday and Sunday, even at night when there was no homework. what is the purpose? Is it really a child's hobby? Obviously not, the purpose is to get a good junior high school ticket after winning the prize through training! If you enter a good junior high school, you can enter a good high school. If you enter a good high school, you can have the qualifications of "self-enrollment", "direct promotion by the principal" and "walking" in colleges and universities. It can be said that the above-mentioned "privileges" enjoyed by the four famous schools in Shanghai are obviously much more than ordinary high schools, and they are not ordinary!

In coastal provinces, there are only one or two good high schools in a city. Children go to these middle schools when they are in junior high school, because they learn to enjoy high-quality educational resources when they enter such middle schools. But what about a large number of ordinary high schools? A friend of my headmaster said that as long as I see the children in those good schools playing, I will be happy because they are playing and my students are studying hard. They are too tired to go to college, and our children can only go to college if they are free! My friend's school is almost like a prison. Children fly in Dai Yue every day. They start to study by themselves before dawn, and they can't go to bed until eleven o'clock in the middle of the night (in fact, it is more difficult than prisoners). Teachers also live on campus, which is consistent with students' schedules. I once told him that I really admire the professionalism of the teachers in your school (their school is in Suzhong). In fact, in a city like Suzhou, there are also schools similar to "prisons". My cousin was admitted to the elite class of such a school in the mid-term exam this year. I am worried that the child is young and playful, and whether accommodation is good for him. My father said, don't worry, the school is like a prison. This is a big college entrance examination province with 600,000 students every year. National colleges and universities only give Jiangsu a few places every year. How can a child be admitted to a prestigious school if he doesn't study so hard? Teachers don't assign homework like this, and they don't ask children to repeat exercises. How can a child be admitted to a prestigious school? The school doesn't install probes on the wall, so how can children be admitted to famous schools? This is the case in Jiangsu province. What about Anhui province? What about Shandong Province? What about Heilongjiang Province? It is said that all the children in Daqing Iron Man Middle School in Heilongjiang Province study like "Iron Man"!

In this case, whether children like doing homework or not is no longer an important topic, and whether the amount of homework assigned by the teacher is much or not is no longer an important topic. Is the headmaster wrong? Strict management is for the enrollment rate. The high enrollment rate means that more children will go to college, and the probability of changing their fate will increase accordingly. Is the teacher wrong? Increase students' homework, increase the repetition rate of exercises, and let children fully master the so-called rote learning knowledge. If the child doesn't want to, he can only take compulsory measures, which is also for the sake of the child, okay? What's wrong with the baby? Under the heavy homework burden, they reached the age of fun. How can they have reason to tell themselves that they must "bow their heads" before the college entrance examination, so that they can have fun when they go to college and make up for all the "plays" they missed before 18 years old? Since I can't see that far, I don't want to do my homework emotionally, but I know the teacher will punish me intellectually. What should I do? Then kill yourself.

But has this become an "unsolvable" problem? Don't!

It is said that there is such a cold joke circulating on the Internet: A group of China people grope for stones in the river and try to cross it. A group of Americans stood on the bridge and felt very strange. They asked, what are you doing? People in China said we were going to cross the river. Americans say it is not easy to cross the bridge. People in China say that we like to cross the river by feeling the stones.

In fact, it is easy to change, as long as quality education resources are popularized. For a country with the second largest GDP in the world, it is very easy to concentrate on doing great things. I just want to get up from the river and cross the bridge. If we continue to touch rocks in the river, then more children will pay the price of their lives.