What if someone dies before the funeral in the village?

I have experienced your problem personally, because it happened in my home.

The two people who died here were my uncle and my father.

My uncle passed away on May 20th, 2005. In our rural customs, it is said that this day is a day of heavy mourning, and the deceased must die on the day of heavy mourning (of course, I know this has no scientific basis, but it is just a statement of rural customs).

We left Binbin on the third day after death, that is, Binbin arrived on May 22nd. That morning, Binbin just carried his uncle's birthday tree to the buried well and put it away. My dad died at this time. My brother and I are still burying my uncle's well. When we heard the news, we rushed home.

This incident should also reflect the rural customs. The deceased will really die twice in a row on the day of heavy mourning, and they are still relatives.

What we did at that time was to call all the people who helped my uncle at home and continue the same funeral as my uncle.

However, under the pressure of custom, my family followed the advice of the teacher who is a mage. Out of the park, my brother and I took a mirror and shone it on my father's birthday tree to solve my uncle's heavy loss and contact with relatives.

In fact, the question you asked is based on local customs for a period of time. Because the customs of each place are different, of course, there will be different methods.

I wonder if your local customs are the same as ours.

I wonder if I can borrow the customs here from you?

I also hope that our customers here can give you a debit function.

There is a saying in my hometown that, generally speaking, a village has two funerals. What the folks say is probably that you are not alone on the road!

Father was seriously ill and left suddenly. When he left, an uncle who grew up with him in the village was hospitalized for drinking.

The day before my father was buried, my uncle came home from the hospital.

My father froze to death at home in the middle of the night the day he was buried. All the people who help in my home will be directly transferred to his home to continue the funeral. ...

Sometimes these things are really hard to say. ...

In a big village, it is normal to die three or five times a day, and it is normal to die three or two times in a big village with 10 thousand people. This is also an accidental meeting. It won't happen every day. One hundred people in a big family, two people died unexpectedly. His family panicked and lost control. They knelt down and cried and asked me, why? I observed various causes and thought it was a normal death. There is nothing to be afraid of. Another old man died at the age of 85 and his son was 56. In order to show that he can do it, he personally looked at the grave and buried the old man. As a result, the old man died after being buried for twenty days. Later, my descendants asked me to look again. Later I said, 15 no one will die in your family. Sure enough, my grandmother died in 16 at the age of 90, and her mother died 20 years later at the age of 80. Under normal circumstances, there is no reason for death, and birth, old age, illness and death are normal. Don't panic, face it calmly.

Old enmity and hatred gradually disappeared. After the reform and opening up, with the emergence of the tide of migrant workers, most of the older generation who stayed in the village stayed at home because of their age, and they were self-sufficient while exercising, unwilling to cause trouble to their children. Although people who go out to work have the heart to keep up with the competition, there will be all kinds of secret competitions for those who are promising and those who are worthless, which will stimulate each other to get rich and mix people ...! No matter how well they mix, time waits for no one. Without the envy of familiar people, there will be no jealousy and hatred!

People died and the lights went out. The left-behind old people in the village, because their children were not at home, once shook hands because of the dispute over that acre of land. Weddings and funerals in the village, people who died of old age in the past, at worst, will turn into an enemy and go to mourn. After all-they are contemporaries with endless nostalgia and growth, and they have witnessed the beauty, happiness, glory and "hatred" that we can't understand.

An old man died in the village, and everyone was very sad. However, as the subject is worried, the funeral after death needs a lot of labor help. If another person dies one after another, how to arrange the labor force? Actually, there is no need to worry. People born on the same day will die on the same day. The funeral order can be arranged flexibly, and the day before and the day after, the problem is not too big. Like the people who died in my hometown and village, please ask a few relatives and friends to arrange related matters. There is a "one-stop" funeral service in town. As for the work of burying people and places with inconvenient roads, there are special "coffin bearers" to help solve them, which can help the owner's family make proper arrangements. The people in the village came to express their grief, give the old man a ride and hold a personal show. Between people, no matter how much love and hate there were, they all vanished.

There are still parents who died in our hometown village!

The morning before the old lady and the afternoon after the old man.

Originally, the funeral time set by Mr. Fenshui was two days apart. Later, the children said that they wanted to be buried, so they put the coffin of the old man in the grave and covered it with a blanket. On the third day, put the old lady's coffin in, and then water the civil grave.

In my hometown, all the dead were carried into the waiting hall. I remember once when I was a child, three coffins were placed in the waiting hall (horizontally), with the old man who died first in the middle (that is, doing things first), then on the right, then on the left, and then the old man on the left was carried to the middle after the funeral.

Although the main questions are few, we can't say that there are none in rural areas. The world is full of miracles. This kind of accidental thing often happens to us, and it often happens that two people die in one village. Two people died in such a big village, so all funerals should be handled according to the situation. There is nothing to make a fuss about. However, a production team is afraid that two people will die, and the old people in tandem will die on the same day. This is the busiest person and the most feared thing for everyone, especially for families with old people. Rural people are superstitious and there is a saying that there must be three things for every thing. If there is such a thing as two people dying one day, it would be a great evil. Every family must set up a stone scorpion to ward off evil spirits and strengthen the body. According to superstition, stone scorpions have the same effect of suppressing evil spirits as Shi Gandang on Mount Tai.

If someone dies that day in the countryside, they usually die first. The family invited all the helpers, and everything was done in the traditional way. However, please ask a teacher of Yin and Yang who can see geography to send out mourning another day. Mr. Yin will mark an auspicious day according to the date of birth and death of the deceased, and issue an obituary on a certain day and time. In this way, some families lost their souls in three days, and some lost their souls on the third day. Those who can't go out for the funeral must be in four or five days, and there will be another week. This kind of thing can stagger time and do things independently.

However, what if both families are working at the same time and both have to hold a three-day funeral? Then, only those who are invited by the headmaster first will help. At this time, the helper invited by the client cannot be related to the other deceased, and can only invite two families without relatives at will. These two unrelated families are also able to handle affairs at this time, and often the couple help each other. The only thing worse than the shortage of manpower is to ask the neighboring production team for help, or relatives at home can also participate in some simple affairs.

In rural areas, the two funerals are most afraid of the lack of coffin bearers, and there are not enough people to ask the villagers in the neighboring group to spend more cigarettes. This is the best way. Many villagers do this, and these people are good acquaintances, and some even have good friendship. Therefore, in rural areas, these are not the same thing, and the villagers are still very enthusiastic about helping the elderly and taking care of the young.

Now, people are more convenient. As long as the owner is willing to spend money to buy a kitchen, performing arts and funeral, even a crying person is more filial than a dutiful son. As the old saying goes, when you have money, everything is beautiful, but you just lose the strong and heavy breath before. In some places, their filial sons have lost their wake and watched the drama with a big grin.

There are two important things in rural areas, both of which require the participation of people of all ethnic groups. One is white matter, and the other is red matter, among which white matter is particularly important, because white matter has a lot to pay attention to. Not doing well is not only disrespectful to ancestors, but also leads to disaster.

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First: Matters needing attention for the articles of the rural dead

Generally, people over the age of 60 in rural areas will make their own shroud and let themselves "beautifully" on the road on the day of their death. But be sure to pay attention to the quantity and texture of shroud. Generally speaking, the number of shroud will be odd, five, seven and nine, but not even. Even numbers mean that a second person will die. The best material is silk, because "thickness" symbolizes the prosperity of future generations. Never use satin, because it represents "broken". The coffin of the old man must not be willow, because willow will not bear seeds, which will lead to the extinction of future generations.

Second: Matters needing attention in choosing rural funeral date.

Rural people pay attention to a "good day" no matter what they do, and different days are suitable for different things. The same is true of the date of the funeral, but never choose "mourning day". The so-called mourning day refers to the death of a family member, and those who died recently must never choose the same date as the former. If we do this, relatives will die in the near future.

Third: Matters needing attention in undertaker's funeral in rural areas.

When the rural elderly die, they should be regarded as immediate family members to show respect and prevent the spread of pollution. We often need to pay attention to some matters, such as: we can't wear bright red and green clothes during mourning, we can't visit relatives and friends for 100 days, and we can't attend happy events. In ancient times, his parents died and his son was filial for three years. Although the time is reduced now, the word "filial piety" must be worn on the arm.

Fourth, during the Spring Festival, it is forbidden to paste red couplets in rural funerals.

There is a saying in the countryside that dead ancestors will "often go home to see" within a year, especially on the day of Spring Festival reunion. Red curtains have the function of blocking entry, so many rural areas often don't stick couplets in the first year of the death of their immediate family members. It is not only the memory of ancestors, but also the "expectation" that ancestors can come back to see themselves.

The fundamental reason why there are so many exquisite funerals in rural areas is the nostalgia for their loved ones. There are also many elaborate funerals. Generally, women who are weak and have children can't participate, because they are weak and may be "entangled".

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Face the reality, slowly but surely. I met one in 1992. Before the cremation car arrived at the crematorium, another one died at home. What should I do? Young people can't understand what you are doing. The funeral of the deceased is impossible to negotiate. This is the purpose. They are distracted and can't do anything.

This is normal. People live and die, and no one knows when they will die. It is normal for two people to die in the same village at the same time.

You're worried about the funeral. The first is the funeral procession, Baokuo monk, Shigong, western band and so on. These people can't have several teams in a village, they are all invited from the east and the west. A town has at least a team like 10, not to mention two dead, even if there are several, it will not affect the funeral.

Another problem is the problem of white banquet, in fact, this is very simple. Let's not say that they died on the same day. Even if the funerals that died on the same day are divided into 3 and 6, even if they all choose the same day, they will be divided into morning and afternoon. The key lies in environmental problems. A village is so big. Holding a white wedding in two places is a bit disturbing, but everyone will understand.