Now some men take care of their children at home. Can you accept it?

As we all know, it is very hard to take care of children. Usually this hard work will fall on the woman. There is nothing we can do about it. Let's pay attention to the men outside and the women inside. Someone asked, since women don't want to take care of children, they want to go out to work. Women can earn money to support their families, but can men take care of their children? In fact, Bian Xiao asked himself the same question. Is this really okay? After careful consideration, Bian Xiao thinks this is ok, but the premise is to meet the following three conditions.

First of all, yes, but only temporarily.

If women really go out to work to earn money to support their families, men should never be dead set on taking care of their children at home. Whether you are willing or forced by any reason, taking care of the children at home can only be temporary. Because, as a man, you are the pillar of the family. It is your responsibility to earn money to support your family. You can't let a woman take it for you. This is the minimum dignity of a man.

Besides, if you really take care of your children at home for a long time and eat and drink women's food, how can you have a family status in the long run? Therefore, it is natural for women to take care of their children at home. It is incompetent for a man to take care of his children at home. If you really need to take care of the children, you can, but only temporarily.

Second, yes, but men can't be raised by women.

To say the least, if you have to take care of the children at home. But you must remember that as an honest man, you can't rely on women to support yourself. You must be able to support yourself while taking care of your children. Otherwise, reaching out for money from a woman is a soft meal. As a man, even if his mouth is not good, this kind of soft rice is unacceptable. Don't say that raising children can't make money. What era is it now? Information age! As long as you have the ability, you can make money even if you don't leave home.

If you can't get rich, you can at least solve the problem of food and clothing. Of course, the premise is that you have this ability. In short, it is natural for women to take care of their children at home and reach out to men for money. There are also men with babies at home who reach out to women for money, which is * * * anger. Therefore, men can take care of their babies at home, but men can't rely on women to raise them, let alone eat soft rice.

Third, yes, but only if you can withstand the pressure of public opinion.

Although no one stipulates that women must take care of children, men must earn money to support their families. However, everyone's cognition is like this, which is more terrible than the regulations. If it really happens that women earn money to support their families and men take care of their children at home, it will definitely become a joke in the eyes of others. Faced with this kind of public opinion pressure every day, this is not something that ordinary people can bear.

Therefore, women take care of their children at home, and no one can say anything, which is due to the social environment. But men take care of their children at home, and few men choose to do so, which is very beautiful in the eyes of others. It is not impossible for a man to take care of children, but only if he can withstand the pressure of public opinion.

I don't know when men and women have a clear social division of labor. Men earn money to support their families, and women take care of their children at home. It is simple to obey this rule, but it is difficult to challenge it. Nothing is absolute, and it is not impossible for a man to take care of his children at home, but only if the above three conditions are met.

If you can't meet these three conditions, don't be a super daddy at home. Because, this is not only a question of taking care of children, but also a question of your reputation. Only those who know can understand you. I don't know, but I thought you were a soft rice. Can you bear this "sin"?