Parents divorced, and children were left to cry in the Civil Affairs Bureau. How much influence does divorce have on children?

Growing up, what we are most afraid of is the quarrel between parents, because parents can't ignore it for their children, and the palms of their hands are all meat, which is the same as letting children choose their father or mother. This is a very difficult choice, not to mention their parents are divorced. It's really cruel to children. There may be problems in the relationship between parents, but in the end, it's their children who suffer the most, because.

One: the child is the most injured. When parents divorce, children are definitely the most injured, so many parents will make do together for their children. When we were young, we might often be asked who you want to be with if mom and dad get divorced. Of course, we know this is a joke, but I didn't expect that one day we really need to face this problem. What would you choose? I believe this is undoubtedly the most painful choice. Mom and dad have no feelings and can leave happily, but mom and dad and themselves are.

Two: the personality has changed at once. Some children may be cheerful by nature, because they grew up in a warm family, but once they learned that their parents were divorced, their personality suddenly changed a lot. Because they didn't have the love of their parents, they hid in the corner and cried for a long time. A child who was originally very cheerful suddenly lost a smile on his face. When he sees others and his parents so happy, his heart will be even more helpless. He is like an unwanted child. The place where he has parents is his home, but now he seems to have no home.

Three: Have no confidence in yourself. Children's self-confidence is largely given by their parents, and children with parents will be more confident at home. If parents divorce, their hearts will be confused, their hearts will become sensitive and suspicious, and they will even feel that all this is their own fault. Parents will not divorce if they are not biological. How distressing such children are.

Therefore, parents must be serious when dealing with feelings, and don't make hasty decisions. Even if two people really can't make it to the end, they should minimize the harm to their children, because children are the most innocent, and don't let them become victims of their own emotional failure.