How to make yourself clever and quiet?

How to make yourself clever and quiet? 1, don't be aggressive, be lethal, don't brag about your abilities, don't preach others' evil, and naturally you can turn your enemy into your friend.

2. A person who often looks at other people's shortcomings is not good enough because he has no time to review himself.

3, right and wrong happen every day, don't listen to nature, right and wrong happen every day, don't listen to it, right and wrong happen every day, see what you do?

If you really love him, then you must tolerate some of his shortcomings.

To overcome the fear of death, you must accept the idea that all people in the world will die.

Although you hate a person, you can find his advantages and benefits. There are really few cultured people like this in the world.

7. Be honest with your inner contradictions and stains, and don't deceive yourself.

Cause and effect never owe us anything, so please don't complain.

9. We do have some advantages, but we should also hide some. It's called self-cultivation.

10, people suffer because they pursue the wrong things.

1 1. When you are happy, you should think that this happiness is not eternal. When you are in pain, you should think that this pain is not eternal.

12. Only by knowing yourself, surrendering yourself and changing yourself can we change others.

13, don't waste your life, you will regret it.

14, put it down and there will be no trouble.

15, every kind of trauma is a kind of maturity.

16, it's not pitiful when you know you're confused, and it's most pitiful when you don't know you're confused.

17, arrogant people can be saved, but people with inferiority can't be saved.

18, don't always be dissatisfied with others, but always review yourself. If you are dissatisfied with others, it is yourself who suffers.

19, you should tolerate people who have different opinions with you, so that life will be better. It will be painful for you if you keep trying to change him. Learn how to put up with him. You must learn how to tolerate him.

20. To admit your greatness is to admit your stupidity.

2 1. If a person can't forgive others from the heart, he will never feel at ease.

22. People who are full of their own opinions and ideas will never hear other people's voices.

23. It takes only one sentence to destroy a person, but a thousand words to cultivate a person. Please have mercy.

24, when you give advice to others, if you don't care about others' self-esteem, then no matter how good it is, it is useless.

Don't confuse arrogance with your wisdom. Don't let your modesty lack wisdom.

26. There is no need to look back. Who is cursing you? If a mad dog bites you, do you have to get down and bite back?

27. Being jealous of others won't add any benefits to yourself. Envy of others does not reduce their achievements.

28. Never waste a minute thinking about people you don't like.

29, how many people want to leave this world, will say the same sentence, this world is really helpless and desolate!

Love is not charity, you can't just give it to others. Feelings have no formula, no principle and no reason to follow. But people are still insisting and pursuing until they die.

3 1, please express your dissatisfaction and grievances with sympathy and gentleness, and others will accept it easily.

32. People who create opportunities are brave. He who waits for an opportunity is a fool.

33, can say can't do, is not true wisdom.

34. Listen carefully to what others say, and don't express your opinions in a hurry.

Why did you put the poison in the same bottle? The same psychology, why are you full of troubles?

36. If you can't get it, we will always think that he is beautiful, because you know too little about him and have no time to get along with him. One day, when you know it better, you will find that it is not as beautiful as you think.

37. The world is only stable, not perfect.

38. Being alive for one day is a blessing, so we should cherish it. When I cried that I had no shoes to wear, I found that someone had no feet.

39. Pay more attention to others, and you will pay less attention to yourself. You got it?

40. If you want to know the sword robbery in the world, you can only listen to the midnight sound of Tumen. Don't just blame yourself for being ill, but look at how many sentient beings have died by your sword.

4 1, hating others is your great loss.

42. Everyone has a life, but not everyone knows life and even cherishes it. Life is a punishment for people who don't understand life.

43. People who think they have wealth are actually owned by wealth.

44. Emotional attachment is the cause of distress. Only by letting go of your emotional attachment can you feel at ease.

45. Accompanying fate is not muddling along, but doing one's best and resigning to fate.

46. Don't be too sure of your opinion, so there will be less regret.

47. When you are honest with yourself, no one in the world can cheat you.

48. It is shameful to cover up your shortcomings by hurting others.

49. A person who is full of jealousy, dishonest and incorrect in speech cannot be regarded as a person with correct facial features.

50. Tell more jokes and handle things with a humorous attitude, and life will be easier.

5 1, living in the applause of others is a person who can't stand the test.

52. Don't try to guess what others think. If there is no correct judgment with wisdom and experience, mistakes will usually be made.

53. To know a person, we only need to see whether his starting point and destination are consistent, so we can know whether he is sincere.

54. The truth of life is hidden in the plain.

55, people who don't take a shower, hard to wear perfume will not be fragrant. Fame and honor come from real talent and knowledge. Germany is naturally fragrant.

You'd better accept the fact rather than reject it.

57. Adversity is a necessary process of growth. People who are brave enough to accept adversity will become stronger and stronger.

58. You should thank the person who told you your shortcomings.

59. People who can think of others will never be lonely.

If you can find your own shortcomings as accurately as others, then your life will be extraordinary.

6 1, forgiving others is to leave room for manoeuvre in your heart.

62. Time will pass. Let time wash away your troubles!

63. If you insist on taking simple things seriously, you will be miserable.

64. People who always distort the goodwill of others are hopeless.

65. People are not bad, they are just habits. Everyone has habits, but the depth is different. As long as he has a good heart, forgive him if he can, and don't treat him as a bad person.

66. Tell one lie and make up ten to make up for it. Why bother?

67. In fact, people who love beauty just fall in love with themselves.

68. There is no one in the world who will never be vilified or admired forever. People will criticize you if you talk too much. People will criticize you if you speak a little. When you are silent, others will criticize you. In this world, there is no one who is not criticized.

69. Those who praise and admire us are not famous teachers. Those who will tell us and guide us are good teachers, and we will make progress with them.

70. What you have now will become someone else with your death, so why not give it to someone who really needs it now?

7 1. Living a day in vain and doing nothing is like committing theft.

72. Silence is the best answer to slander.

73. To be respectful to others is to be solemn to yourself.

74. If you have a selfless love, you will have everything.

75, hatred can never dissolve hatred, only tolerance can dissolve hatred, this is the eternal truth.

76. It is better for you to accept than complain. There is no better way for you to accept the unchangeable fact.

77. Don't bring trouble to yourself because of the ignorance of all beings. Don't make yourself miserable because of the ignorance of all beings.

78. Don't be angry or sad when others say that we are not good. You don't have to be happy to say we are good. There are good and bad in it, depending on whether you can use it.

When your mistake is exposed, don't lose your temper. Don't think that being willful or noisy can cover up or overcome your shortcomings.

80. Don't always feel unhappy. There are more people suffering in the world than we are.

8 1, a stupid person, always wants others to know him. Smart people try to understand themselves.

82. Coming is accidental, and going is inevitable. So you must, with the fate unchanged, with the fate unchanged.

83. As long as we face the reality, we can surpass it.

84. Conscience is everyone's fairest judge. You can fool others, but you can never fool your own conscience.

85. People who don't know how to love themselves are incapable of loving others.

86. Doing things is just learning to be a man.

87. Sometimes we need to ask ourselves calmly, what are we pursuing? What are we living for?

88. Don't stay away from your closest friends because of small disputes, and don't forget the kindness of others because of small resentment.

89. Being brave enough to accept criticism from others can just adjust your own shortcomings.

90. Thank God for what I have and what I don't have.

9 1, the world is inherently painful, without exception.

92. It's not so much that others make you suffer, but that you are not cultivated enough.

93. If you don't give yourself trouble, others will never give you trouble. Because of my heart, I can't let go.

94. Discipline yourself and leave others alone.

95. If you don't forgive all beings, you will suffer yourself.

96. Don't say that others are pitiful, but you are even more pitiful. Practice by yourself? What do you know about life?

97. People who have insufficient blessings often hear right and wrong; Those who have enough blessings have never heard of right or wrong.

98. You should always thank all beings who have given you adversity.

99. You should always forgive all beings, no matter how bad they are, even if they have hurt you, you must let go to get real happiness.

100, most people only do three things in their lives; Self-deception, cheating, being cheated.

10 1. People who worship themselves too much will not appreciate the advantages of others.

102, the heart is the biggest liar. Others can cheat you for a while, but they will cheat you for a lifetime.

103. When you cling to something, you can only have it. If you are willing to let go, you will have a chance to choose something else. If a person insists on his own ideas in his heart and refuses to let go, then his wisdom can only reach a certain level.

104, it is not a blessing for people to be afraid of you, and it is not a shame for people to bully you.

105, it's not that someone bothers me, but that someone's words and deeds make me worry about myself.

106, don't deliberately misinterpret the goodwill of others, but think positively.

107, things in the world are certainly not as good as their own wishes.

108, my wealth is not because I have a lot, but because I take very little.

109, eat it and pull it. People must learn to let go, or they will be constipated.

1 10, people who often think that others are paying attention to you, or want others to pay attention to you, will have a more troublesome life.

1 1 1. I can cook for you, but I can't eat for you. Everyone is full, and life and death are personal matters.

1 12, it's easier to look down on others than to settle yourself.

1 13, as long as you live your own life, you don't have to mind the distortion and right and wrong of others.

1 14. If you're getting married, I'll tell you a very important philosophical quote. You must tolerate each other's shortcomings. There is no absolutely happy marriage in the world. Happiness only comes from infinite tolerance and mutual respect.

1 15, it will be a blessing if you can spend this day safely. How many people today can't see the sun tomorrow, how many people have become disabled today, how many people have lost their freedom today, and how many people have lost their homes today.

1 16, right and wrong, gains and losses, can not be evaluated until the final result.

1 17, I would rather forgive others myself than let others forgive you.

1 18, when you face things with troubles, you will feel that everything is karma and the world will become ugly and hateful.

1 19. If you want to become a Buddha and become a dragon, you must be a sentient being first.

Although we can't change the world around us, we must change ourselves.

12 1. When you start your life tomorrow, if someone argues with you, you let him win. This winning or losing is just a literal concept. When you let the other side win, you have nothing to lose. What did he win by winning? Understand what? The so-called loss, what did you lose? Lose what?

122, most of our lives are wasted on the unpredictable written language.

123, don't always feel frustrated. You should think that he is very kind to me. This is the cultivation of kung fu.

124, others can violate the cause and effect, others can hurt us, beat us and slander us. But we can't hate others for it. Why? We must keep a complete nature and a pure heart.

125. When you contact anyone, you should ask yourself, what good am I to him? Let him benefit. If I can't use my personal morality, knowledge and practice to benefit others, I will be in debt.

126, if a person has no feelings for suffering, it is not easy to feel sympathy for others. If you want to learn the spirit of saving the suffering, you have to suffer first.

127, what kind of patience do ordinary people have in the face of each other's power, wealth and strength and submit to humiliation when they have no choice? The real patience is that even if he bullies you and feels sorry for you, he can't touch you at all, and you have enough strength to deal with him, but you can tolerate him and think that his nature is just like mine, just temporarily confused or influenced by bad environment. You don't have to care about him. It is true patience to tolerate him in such a situation and mood.

128 if you look at it from birth to death, who has not been my parents, brothers, sisters, relatives and family members? Who is not my enemy? If there is kindness, everyone is good to me; If there are grievances, everyone has grievances with me. What's the difference between us? As far as wisdom and stupidity are concerned, everyone has his moments of wisdom and his moments of stupidity. Smart people may become stupid, and stupid people may become smart. The worst person has done a lot of good things and will never be bad; Good people have done a lot of bad things, and they may not be good people in the future. So we think over and over again that the so-called unjust relatives and virtuous fools, these many different concepts, will naturally fade away. This is definitely not chaos, nor is it that we don't know good or bad, but that we haven't started.

In fact, everyone will like you because of your inner beauty. Don't pretend to be yourself.

Write your sister's quiet and clever composition, business etiquette and social strategies

1, looking for people with similar habits. Relatively speaking, everyone has his own personality, hobbies and lifestyle.

It is said that people with similar habits can still be seen everywhere. The problem is how to find and find them. Pay attention to each other first.

If both sides can notice the similarities in personality, age, occupation, social background and outlook on life, it is easy to have similarities.

Language and singing skills.

2, grasp the discretion of their own strengths. Only when a person's specialty is outstanding can he win the appreciation of others.

People are naturally happy to be close to you, but when they are perfect, their level will be high.

That unattainable feeling, if you occasionally expose some personal shortcomings, will attract everyone to get close to you.

3. Pay attention to appearance and temperament. Warm and generous people are certainly more attractive than cold and introverted people. But the first one

It is not advisable to talk nonsense at the meeting, which will give people a sense of instability.

The "golden principle" in social interaction.

(1) Always be humble to your friends and always smile when talking to others.

(2) Always keep friendly relations with people around you and look for opportunities to do more for others.

For example, if your neighbor is ill, you can think of cooking a bowl of delicious soup for him, and others will never forget you.

(3) When others introduce you to friends, you should concentrate on remembering their names. In the future.

Calling out his name as soon as we meet in the middle will make people feel that this person is very enthusiastic and thoughtful.

(4) Learn to be tolerant, overcome willfulness, try to understand others, and put yourself in others' shoes.

Doing so can make friends feel kind, credible and safe.

Communicative language

Communication is an art, so we should pay attention to etiquette and polite language on different occasions.

When you meet for the first time, you should say: Nice to meet you.

Visit others should say: visit.

Waiting for others should say: wait.

Please don't apply: stay.

The other party's letter should be called: Shu Hui.

Trouble others should say: I'm sorry.

Asking for help should be: please.

Asking for convenience should say: I'm sorry.

The trustee should say: please.

Ask for advice. Ask for advice.

Other people's suggestions should be called: guidance.

Please answer the application: excuse me.

Application of praise: high evaluation

What is reduced should be said: regression.

Asking for forgiveness should say: tolerance.

Welcome customers should be called: patronize

The age of old people should be called: longevity.

Long time no see, it should be said: long time no see

Guests come to apply: here they come.

If you leave halfway, you should say: I'm sorry.

Say goodbye to others.

Gift application: Yazheng

The Art of Using Eyes in Communication

(1) When someone says something wrong or does something unnatural in communication, he will definitely feel embarrassed.

Embarrassed, lest others laugh at and despise him. Don't look at his face at this time, or turn around immediately after seeing it.

Move your eyes. Otherwise, he will think you are mocking him with your eyes.

Generally speaking, both sides should look at each other's eyes or face to show their respect for others.

However, when both sides are silent, don't always look at each other's faces. Because when there is no topic between the two sides, originally

There is a feeling of indifference and hesitation. If you look at each other at this time, it will make them look even more embarrassed.

(3) When seeing the guests off, wait until the guests turn around and walk out of a section of the road and stop looking back at you.

It can distract the guests.

If you see a stranger in the street or in a crowded market store, he is elegant and handsome.

This dress is very novel. When you want to appreciate his (her) beauty, please appreciate it from the side or back, not from the other side.

Stop and look at him (her), because it is impolite to do so, when you find that the other person's eyes are going to meet yours.

When your eyes meet, you should take the initiative to avoid it.

Social "Ten Taboos"

(1) Don't call people with busy careers. Even if you have something to do, tell them as soon as possible after it is finished.

Retreat; Don't stand up or be an unexpected guest.

(2) Don't give gifts to people just for business. Gifts should be in direct proportion to taking care of relatives and friends, but in any case, gifts

We should pay attention to material interests, and never give away things like "waiting outside" and "handling".

(3) Don't deliberately attract attention, pretend to be the master, and don't be timid and inferior.

(4) Don't be too curious about other people's affairs, ask ask, get to the bottom of it; Do not offend others.

Taboo.

(5) Don't make waves and spread gossip.

(6) You can't ask others to suit your temper. You know, your temper is not suitable for everyone.

Learn tolerance.

(7) Don't be disheveled, dirty and smelly. On the contrary, clothes are too gorgeous and light.

It will also upset others.

(8) Don't cough, burp or spit. Be public, don't embellish your appearance in public.

(9) Don't be chaotic and be polite.

(10) Don't leave without saying goodbye. When you leave, you should say goodbye to your host and express your gratitude.

Etiquette for visiting a physical house

When young men and women first come to visit things, most of them will be nervous, excited, at a loss, appear stiff and easy to get out.

Making a fool of yourself, while others seem too casual, gives people a sense of lightness, such as dignified and generous, natural and polite.

The appearance should be exquisite.

When you enter the door, you must gently lock the door and get permission before you can enter. When you are introduced to his (her) father

When you are a mother, you should bow to your parents politely. When the host serves tea, he should stand up and pick up the tea with both hands.

And say "thank you". Sit up straight and don't cross your legs. Don't smoke yet, don't talk about the east, if the elders haven't smoked.

Look around.

Listen to your elders, answer more questions and then say something on your own initiative. Don't be left unattended.

Talk a lot, or interrupt others' conversation in the middle. You shouldn't sit for too long when you visit for the first time. When you leave,

It's time to say goodbye to your parents.

The best distance and angle of conversation

Some countries in western Europe think that the best distance between two people is one meter, but Italians often keep it at 0.3.

To 0.4 meters.

How to make your mouth behave? Eating spicy food is really addictive, and few people can quit. However, if you insist on not eating for 1 month, people will feel different for the next 1 month. You tried to control 1 month.

How to get better? What does BL mean? Are you going to be a rotten man and a rotten woman, or are you going to come back and hide the essence of corruption? Sticking to your own interests is none of others' business, and there is no need to change yourself for others. If people ask you this, it only shows that your position in others' hearts is not important enough. Such a person doesn't need to treat him as a friend and lover. Long live world harmony!

How to make yourself handsome? Huh? Be good. No problem. Ah. Look in the mirror, keep your most handsome side in mind and show it at all times! Don't be natural or artificial.

How to make yourself quiet? Try to take a deep breath when you are upset and can't calm down. Not talking is a bad habit, which shows that you have no patience and talent, and it is easy to suffer in the future society. Learn to calm down first, and then try to calm down. When you are very excited or upset, listen to some quiet music, put yourself in the room to calm down and keep a clear head. After a long time, you will gradually neutralize your character. In addition, I suggest reading some books that can make people quiet. Liu Yong's book is good and easy to make people calm down and think.

How to make your poodle obedient, clever 1, sit down, shake hands and roll. The best time to train your dog to sit down is before every meal. Because dogs only listen when they are hungry. When teaching every movement, the master must be patient. Dogs usually learn it several times and remember it, and they will never forget it. Whenever he studies, he must not forget to reward him and give him some dog food.

2, do not eat food indiscriminately, you should train the dog to refuse other people's food, let it sit quietly and express obedience. Then put the food in front of the dog, block the food with your hand and order it to "eat later" If the dog doesn't listen, come and eat at once and tap its small nose with your hand as a warning. Wait until the dog sits down, then order it to "eat". After training back and forth several times, the dog will learn.

3. Prevent dogs from biting. Dogs grow teeth when they are young, and their teeth will itch to grind their teeth. It is best to buy a toy for dogs to grind their teeth. Avoid it biting furniture or other things at home. In order to prevent the dog from biting, it is best to put all valuable things out of its reach. Once the owner finds that the dog is going to bite, he should immediately go up to it, sit it down and tell it: no! When the dog is obedient, the owner can praise it by touching or feeding some dog biscuits.

Whenever the dog barks, the owner should see what causes it. Dogs generally don't bark, and different barks represent different psychological needs of dogs. If the dog really barks at nothing, it should be educated. The host can say in a stern tone, "Be quiet and don't shout." If it doesn't work even three or four times, lift the dog's chin and tell it with a hissing gesture. Once the dog stops barking, the owner can give it some rewards.

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If you want him to be good and obedient now, you should strictly discipline him at ordinary times. When you see a puppy make a mistake, go to it at once and scold it in a low voice. You can pat the dog's head with your hand (except Chihuahua) until it hurts. This is mainly to let the puppy associate "no" with "pain". After repeated several times, when the puppy is naughty or makes mistakes again, it will obey as long as it reprimands a "no".

Ah ... How to make yourself beautiful and smart? What you say about beauty and stupidity is generally related to actual social experience and has little to do with social experience. This kind of beauty is actually the beauty of the soul. When you do something, you should think more about how to do it well so as not to make people laugh. People's cleverness is the accumulation of some experience. . .

How to make yourself quiet? Restrain yourself. .

When others are talking. . Do not interrupt. . It's polite. .

When classmates are joking. . You should learn to adjust your mentality. .

When you know this is a joke, there is no need to take it seriously. .

I don't think you need to be quiet and silent. .

Because the student period should be the most carefree era. .

Speaking of society. .

You will become taciturn by yourself. .

Enjoy the present time. .

Haha's laughter ..

I said digression. .

Anyway. .

Your problem is not a big problem. .

Make some adjustments yourself. .

It won't be a problem. .

What should I do? Let me see. . I'll think about it and answer later! I've been thinking all night. . Can't think of any good ideas, depressed!

I don't understand why the landlord should be cold. . It is difficult to change a person's character. . There are two additional requirements. . ! Also, I think you should talk about your current personality and your usual performance!

This is also easier to correct! As for the first floor, decisively send him to Mars!

Mm-hmm. . I feel a lot of pressure. . I don't think there should be too many cold premises in your usual words. . Don't always tell jokes. . Think more about others or their feelings, but don't show your feelings easily. If you show your feelings easily, you won't be cruel. . Of course, the premise of your Excellence is that you have a kind heart! Like to hit people. . This should also change. It is true that cruelty also includes hitting people, but good people will not hit people indiscriminately! Facing bad people or bad people, those who hate people and annoy themselves will be absolutely decisive, but not good people! You might even be obedient. . then what Um ... I wonder why you changed your mind. . For what?

To tell the truth, you can't be a cold person without certain strength, and I think most of these people are naive and sometimes even coquetry. Of course, that's rare, because indifferent people rarely show their true feelings.

To sum up, I think it is really difficult for you to change like that. . You like talking, you like telling jokes, you can throw it away. . These? Finally, my name is Hongye, not Hongye. . ::& gt_ & lt::