Why is your bag the biggest obstacle in your social relationship?

I think of a joke in my early years. A newly-hired little white collar saved money to buy a Chanel for several months, and then she met her BOSS in the elevator. The beautiful and capable female BOSS was only carrying a canvas bag. Theoretically, the bag can reflect a woman's worth, but in a narrow elevator room, the little white collar was instantly killed by the female boss's aura, and the same is true for the summit above.

On this occasion, it's not the bag, but the hard work and ability. If an expensive bag can't support your ability, don't use it at all. For the more advanced women's summit, please use a simple bag. Your speech and ability are superior to everything. Wow, you bought a new bag. Please show me when it came out! "This is probably the most common chat for girlfriends to meet. No matter who you meet, the old classmates you haven't seen for ten years, or the ABC you just met, or the female girlfriends who have been together for a long time but have no time to meet, you can't find a topic. You can start with the bag and start chatting with it. It is definitely the best topic to break the freezing point. Beauty is a pleasure and topic for women. For girlfriends parties, please choose the latest bag, which will definitely make your chat barrier-free.

Anyway, you have to work hard to get this thing, or your sweetheart will give it to you. Therefore, taking the new bag as the topic, you can not only talk about brand and entertainment gossip, but also talk about personal growth and the relationship between men and women. A party is an important period to connect feelings, and it is always embarrassing to say nothing. I, on the other hand, have figured out a solution for you, and the rest, you just need to buy another bag. When my best friend asked me what to wear on a blind date, I generally replied: Please carry your most expensive bag. Carrying the most expensive bag is not to show how expensive my mother is, but to test each other's values and life bottom line.

Let's take another joke I heard that year. A group of colleagues made an appointment to have a party at Susan's house. A girl pointed to a pile of bottles and jars on the dresser and asked a male colleague who had a good impression on Susan's heart. "Do you guess how much these skin care products on Susan's dresser add up to?" The gay man faltered and couldn't guess, but the girl smiled. "These brands add up to 1 thousand yuan!" Since then, male colleagues have been scared to the knees and never dared to chase Susan again.

The significance of carrying the most expensive bag is to let the other person know what the price of the most expensive item you can afford at present, because we don't expect the other person to be rich, but at least the other person should have the same enterprising spirit as you. You should show the winner of your hard work and tell the other person your ability, which includes the ability to struggle for a career and the consumption ability. If you carry a Hermè s, you will be rejected by the other party as a vain man and advised to stay away from it. I have seen a funny story about a girl who worked hard to make money and bought a Hermè s. As a result, when she was on a blind date, she was scolded by the other party for not knowing how to save, not living and leaving on the spot. Come on, I can buy anything I earn without stealing or robbing. What's more, even a man who can scare off Hermes has no ambition at all, that's all. Anyway, when I look for a man, I want to find someone who knows how to respect women, and I want to find someone who is progressing with me. It is not a question of wealth, but a question of whether to advance hand in hand with me.

That's all for today's sharing. Bags are not the key point. The key point is that you can make a life worthy of your pride with your hands. One day, you can bring your own aura and beauty with cloth.

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