Mother-in-law has always hated her daughter-in-law spending money indiscriminately. How to reconcile contradictions?

Understand each other. People in my mother-in-law's time had a particularly hard life, so they must be frugal. Because she leads a miserable life, even if life is getting better now, she naturally sticks to her frugal lifestyle. Her own frugality will also require people around her to be frugal. When she sees people around her, especially her family, spending money lavishly, she will definitely stop. Especially daughter-in-law, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has been tense since ancient times. Many mother-in-law think that the daughter-in-law spends more money, which will also cause many problems. If there is a problem, solve it. There is no need to fight, it will hurt feelings. In fact, it is enough for both sides to think from each other's point of view. Taking a step back from each other, things will not be so bad. Just be considerate and understanding.

Communicate in time if you have any questions. The consumption concept of young people now is very different from that of the older generation. Young people spend money casually, while the older generation are counting money and absolutely refuse to spend a penny more. Therefore, when a thrifty mother-in-law meets a daughter-in-law who loves to spend money, there will definitely be many contradictions. Although young people nowadays love to spend money, most of them are temperate. It's just that the elders think they are extravagant. They always think that there is no need to buy a lot of things, so they often think that young people spend too much money. At this time, the daughter-in-law can completely explain to her mother-in-law what she bought and what is the use, rather than squandering it.

The mother-in-law tries not to take care of her daughter-in-law. Since ancient times, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has been difficult to handle. Daughter-in-law doesn't spend her money, and she doesn't need to find fault with her. If you really can't stand it, you can tell her son and tell him to tell his wife that there is no need to fight over this, which will only embarrass his son. If a mother-in-law fights with her daughter-in-law, she will be laughed at. Just say a few words and leave the rest alone.

Old people try not to interfere too much in the lives of young people.