How can a monk continue without getting married?

From the root, it is the embodiment of the basic teachings of Buddhism, and monks do not get married.

Generally speaking, there are four aspects of Buddhist teachings, namely, bitter truths (about worldly sufferings), gathering truths (about the causes of sufferings), eliminating truths (about the elimination of sufferings) and Tao truths (about the methods of elimination). These four points are collectively called "four truths". The so-called bitterness is that people cling to the six divisions in the wheel of karma before they realize the Tao (Buddhism believes that all living beings rise and fall endlessly among heaven, man, Asura, hell, ghosts and animals).

Therefore, the liberation pursued by Buddhists is to get rid of the fate of the six great divisions in the wheel of karma and achieve nirvana without love and anger. If marriage is a human nature clinging to the six doctrines, it is equal to being willing to sink into the suffering of the six doctrines, which is contrary to the basic teachings of Buddhism.

2. Why can't monks get married

Why can't monks get married? First, the precept requires monks to have a precept, that is, not to get married. Many people don't understand this very well.

What do you think is the connection between marriage and becoming a monk? In addition, sex is human nature, abstinence should be a cruel thing.

In fact, it is reasonable not to allow monks to get married. First, the dispute over world affairs itself runs counter to Buddhism.

Here's a brief explanation. Buddhism talks about the six divisions in the karmic wheel, and the world's major disputes are the reasons why the six divisions in the karmic wheel cannot leave. Second, pornography is more emotional.

The feeling of * * * is the biggest obstacle from the six major companies in the wheel of karma. So stay away.

Third, the persistence of family property and family members is also the reason for the six major divisions in causal reincarnation. That is to say, I can't put it down in my heart. There are always these obstacles.

It is also inseparable from the six divisions in the wheel of karma. Fourth, and most importantly, it is impossible to make selfless dedication.

We know that the truth explained by Sakyamuni Buddha is the truth of cosmic life, and everyone should follow it. This is the concrete action of life.

That is selfless dedication. There is a saying that "be a teacher and a model for the world", which means that since you are reasonable to everyone, you must do it first.

Therefore, the Bodhisattva has a famous saying, "May all beings get rid of suffering and not seek happiness for themselves." However, if they make selfless contributions, they will certainly infringe on the interests of their families, wives and children. Although what I do is good, my behavior will certainly not be understood because my family is not a practitioner.

Therefore, the monk is merciful. In order not to infringe on everyone's interests, only by not getting married can we do this well. From the root, it is the embodiment of the basic teachings of Buddhism, and monks do not get married.

Generally speaking, Buddhist teachings have four aspects, namely, bitter truths (about worldly sufferings), gathering truths (about the causes of sufferings), eliminating truths (about the elimination of sufferings) and Tao truths (about the methods of elimination). These four points are collectively called "four truths". The so-called bitterness is that people cling to the six divisions in the wheel of karma before they realize the Tao (Buddhism believes that all living beings rise and fall endlessly among heaven, man, Asura, hell, ghosts and animals).

Therefore, the liberation pursued by Buddhists is to get rid of the fate of the six great divisions in the wheel of karma and achieve nirvana without love and anger. If marriage is a human nature clinging to the six doctrines, it is equal to being willing to indulge in the suffering of the six doctrines, which is contrary to the basic teachings of Buddhism.

Second, rebeccalu (1) They think that anyone who studies Buddhism can't get married. In fact, I didn't know that Buddhists have four kinds of disciples: one is becoming a monk, and the other is staying at home. Monks and nuns are monks and nuns. They must absolutely abide by Buddhist precepts and cannot get married. However, the normal combination of a good man or a good woman and a couple at home is allowed by Buddhism, not forbidden. If it is forbidden, it is only forbidden, and they are not allowed to do indecent things except normal husband and wife relations.

Since Buddhist disciples at home can get married openly, can't they have children like ordinary people who don't study Buddhism? In this way, the so-called problem that learning Buddhism can be extinct without marriage should not be a problem. (2) They also said: "Buddhism often says that being a monk is not tiring, being a monk is clean, and being a monk is not as good as being at home.

If so, who doesn't want to learn well? Everyone wants to learn well, everyone doesn't want to get married, and everyone wants to become a monk. If so, wouldn't it be extinct again? "This kind of anxiety is caused by the word" if ",not by the Buddhist doctrine itself; Because of what you said, everyone will become a monk. This is just a "if". You should know that "if" is just a "if", not a fact, because in fact, not everyone has become a monk; It can be seen that "if" and "fact" are inconsistent.

For example, if you are a bandit, of course you will be arrested and sent to prison. Actually, you're not a bandit. How did you get arrested and sent to prison? Therefore, it is really unfair to use the word "if" to add a charge to Buddhism. (3) When people see that monks and nuns don't get married, they focus on monks and nuns and think it's strange that monks and nuns don't get married! So I forgot that besides monks and nuns, there are thousands of men and women in Qian Qian who don't get married.

This is not my nonsense, but a social fact. If you don't believe me, please investigate.

Unmarried men and women in Qian Qian will not become extinct, but a few monks and nuns with less than one in ten thousand say they will become extinct. Is this fair? If you remember it in the middle of the night, I'm afraid it's unfair, right? Smile. Of course, a country wants its people to prosper. If it thinks it is unacceptable not to get married and will become extinct, why doesn't the state prohibit people from becoming monks? Even if you are allowed to become a monk, you still don't force them to get married? Since the state does not prohibit people from becoming monks, it can be seen that a small number of monks and nuns do not get married, which will not affect the survival of the race.

Moreover, not only Buddhist monks and nuns do not get married, but also Catholic bishops, priests and monks and nuns do not get married. Why haven't you heard that they are extinct? Besides, Buddhism has spread to China for more than two thousand years. During this long period, some monks and nuns lived in Buddhism, but they didn't see the genocide in China. Now Ceylon, Myanmar, Siam, Annan, etc. All are Buddhist countries, all have monks and nuns, and none of them are extinct. Therefore, it goes without saying that monks and nuns will become extinct if they don't get married.

Please think it over. Now, which country's law stipulates that men and women in the country should be paired one by one, leaving no one missing? In fact, we can't do this step, so we have to let the people get married freely. Otherwise, we are forced to combine, and when we have children, won't * * bear the children's living expenses and education expenses? This is too much trouble, don't you think? (6) I will tell another joke: it is inevitable not to get married and not have children; But getting married doesn't necessarily mean having children.

Look at those people who have been married for many years, still have three wives and four concubines, but still have no children. What can you do? Can we punish them by law? Why not have children for the country? You know, he (she) really has no choice! Marriage can't guarantee children, then only.

3. Why don't monks get married and have children?

Many people don't quite understand whether a monk is forbidden to get married.

What do you think is the connection between marriage and becoming a monk? In addition, sex is human nature, abstinence should be a cruel thing.

In fact, it is reasonable not to allow monks to get married. First, the dispute over world affairs itself runs counter to Buddhism.

Here's a brief explanation. Buddhism talks about the six divisions in the karmic wheel, and the world's major disputes are the reasons why the six divisions in the karmic wheel cannot leave. Second, pornography is more emotional.

The feeling of * * * is the biggest obstacle from the six major companies in the wheel of karma. So stay away.

Third, the persistence of family property and family members is also the reason for the six major divisions in causal reincarnation. That is to say, I can't put it down in my heart. There are always these obstacles.

It is also inseparable from the six divisions in the wheel of karma. Fourth, and most importantly, it is impossible to make selfless dedication.

We know that the truth explained by Sakyamuni Buddha is the truth of cosmic life, and everyone should follow it. This is the concrete action of life.

That is selfless dedication. There is a saying that "be a teacher and a model for the world", which means that since you are reasonable to everyone, you must do it first.

Therefore, the Bodhisattva has a famous saying, "May all beings get rid of suffering and not seek happiness for themselves." However, if they make selfless contributions, they will certainly infringe on the interests of their families, wives and children. Although what I do is good, my behavior will certainly not be understood because my family is not a practitioner.

Therefore, the monk is merciful. In order not to infringe on everyone's interests, only by not getting married can we do this well. The above is a simple explanation for why monks don't get married.

4. Can monks get married?

I believe this problem is really China's problem.

Because with the loss of our faith, some things that were originally established are changing. The law stipulates the right of citizens to get married. Why can't monks get married?

Aren't you depriving monks of their rights as citizens? I believe many people have this rhetorical question.

However, in the impression of ordinary people, monks should not get married.

The ending of the film Shaolin Temple influenced a generation. Jet Li (Jue Yuan) knelt in the hall of Shaolin Temple and was formally ordained. The old monk asked, "Try not to kill anything. Can you hold on now?" "Can be loaded!" "Do your best not to steal, can you persist today?" "Can be loaded!" When asked about the third commandment, "live as long as you can without desire, can you keep it today?" At this time, the camera turned to the shepherdess behind the pillar in front of the temple. Tears were about to drip in her sad and affectionate eyes, and she shook her head desperately at Jet Li who looked back at her. In an instant, that look broke time and space. The audience's heart is pulling, hoping for a miracle. However, Jet Li finally turned around and nodded and said he was ordained. Ding Lan, who plays the shepherdess, ran out with her face hidden, and the audience sighed in unison.

You gave up such a good girl! So let the kind audience hate that iron does not turn into steel, and that they can't replace it and win back the beauty.

But there are national laws and family rules, so it seems that monks who become monks can't get married and have children like us secular people.