After reading my boyfriend's WeChat, I know that he has been spoiling me, but he actually has a crush on me. What should I do?

The most terrible relationship is that you look forward to the future and he plans to leave.

Everything happened unconsciously. Maybe you dream of two people growing old together here, but you don't know that this person in front of you is not the one you knew at the beginning.

Or you don't know him at all.

Last week, a friend of mine told me that there was something wrong with their love and they might break up. At that time, I thought it was just a contradiction between lovers, so it would be good to coax.

Who knows, a week later, my friend said that it was not easy this time. She chose to break up, and she has blacked out all the contact information of that boy, and he can't get it back.

Her resolute attitude surprised me, because they have been in love for a year and their friends like him very much. He also said he wanted to marry him before.

In my opinion, in this love, my friend actually loves her more than my boyfriend.

In her heart, she adores her boyfriend, not only because he is four years older and came out to work a few years earlier, but also because he always looks calm and feels reliable.

In contrast, my friend is actually a soft and lovely girl. She has no strong views and lofty ideals. I think life can be dull and healthy.

Her biggest hobby is cooking, and she can cook good dishes. She has been in love for a year and has fattened her boyfriend up a lot.

Therefore, such two people should look like a good match. In love, a friend also listens to her boyfriend, and she usually does what he says.

So, when she said that she broke up first, I naturally felt a little incredible. She loves him so much, how could she break up on her own initiative?

But my friend said she was wrong about him.

For a long time, she was willing to accommodate him and listen to him, because she felt that he really loved herself, and all her suggestions were for herself.

In fact, his love is not so pure.

02

People's hearts are separated by their stomachs, and you can never see clearly. Rao is in front of people. You are together every day, talking about love, and you don't necessarily really know him.

Some people may not find out until the critical moment.

My friend's boyfriend, when chasing her at that time, also took pains. After all, there were four boys chasing after each other. The reason why he was chosen must have his own advantages.

He said a lot of vows, said them out loud, and all his friends believed them.

During their stay with him, they seemed to have a good time. But the only thing that disappoints my friend is that he doesn't want to take her to see his family.

A friend once mentioned this question, saying that his home is not far away, why not take himself to meet his parents?

The reason he gave is that they haven't known each other long enough, and it's only a matter of time before they meet their parents. Later, he said that his mother asked him to be sure before bringing his girlfriend back.

The friend asked at that time, does this implication mean that she is not the other half determined in his heart?

He gave her a negative, told her not to pick words, coaxed her, and skipped the topic. Friends in front of him, really follow his kind, there are contradictions, basically as long as he coaxed a little, the two made up.

She even comforted herself. In that case, she will continue to be a good girlfriend, let him be sure of himself, and then take it back to her parents.

Later, she learned that the key points he really cared about and the reasons why he refused to take her to see her parents were places that a friend had never thought about.

And this just proves that his love is different from that of his friends.

03

There are many kinds of love. His friend's love for him is that kind of pure love, without considering many unnecessary things, such as the garage. She said she would get married even if he didn't.

But it seems that his love for his friends is actually a trade-off under the comprehensive advantages and disadvantages. Even, he doesn't like his friends so much. If a more suitable one appears, it can be replaced.

This matter, he will definitely not admit, was discovered by a friend from his WeChat.

That's the chat record between him and his cousin. He forgot to delete it, so he put his mobile phone on the table to take a bath. His friend looked at the phone ringing all the time, so he picked it up and looked at it.

The chat record is roughly that his cousin asked him when to bring his girlfriend back and wait for his wedding reception. He replied at that time: Don't worry, let's have a look.

Here are the reasons why we should look again.

His boyfriend said, I think she is still good, good-looking, good-natured, quiet, sensible and delicious, but there is one big shortcoming that he can't stand.

This shortcoming is a friend's occupation.

He told his cousin that his friend was stupid and could only do some simple things. His salary is not high and there is no room for growth in the future. He may have a life span of 34,000.

There is a lot to say that the conditions at home are average. I have to buy a car and a house in the future. It is really difficult for me to support this family by myself. I don't know what to do.

Looking down, her friend found something that made her angry.

His cousin asked him what his family introduced him to last time. He said that the eldest miss had a bad temper and couldn't get along, so there was no contact.

My friend remembered going home not long ago and left for two days, saying that there was something at home, but I didn't expect to go back for a blind date.

04

After watching the news, she put her mobile phone back and pretended that nothing had happened, but her heart stirred up a thousand waves and began to think about what he usually said.

Although he occasionally spits out his friends on weekdays, saying that her salary is too low, but seeing that her friends are unhappy, she can quickly take back her words and add: "Nothing, I am here, and I can support you in the future."

He said forever with a straight face, but on the other hand, he was quietly looking for someone better for him.

It was love at first sight when he chased his friend, and his friend was really beautiful. But after being together, he seems less satisfied, even though his friends are considerate and considerate of him everywhere.

What a disappointing thing it is. "After reading my boyfriend's WeChat, I realized that he has always spoiled me, but he actually secretly loves me."

It turns out that in love, boys are realistic, even more realistic than girls.

She said that if his blind date was successful, she would be the one who immediately broke up inexplicably, so this time she left him without hesitation.

Because such a person can't give her the happiness she wants, he has no responsibility but his own interests.

In fact, it is also a blessing to leave early.

This kind of person is really wrong. Errors are almost endless. Just wave goodbye and don't miss it. As time goes on, you will eventually meet the right person.