Will you divorce your wife who doesn't respect your family?

I think people are mutual, and your wife can't hate your family for no reason. You can ask her, put yourself in her shoes and try to understand her. Like me, my wife is strong, and I seldom go back to his house. It is comfortable for two people to rent a house outside. Although I seldom go back, she scolded me on the night of Mid-Autumn Festival.

Anyway, I don't want to argue with her and I don't want to be her face. However, I really can't fit into his home. People quarrel every day, and the whole village comes to see jokes. I won't curse her for getting sick or dying early, but I will hate her from the bottom of my heart, stay away from her, and be as close to such a barbaric family as I am afraid of dog bites.

From the causal point of view, respect is mutual, and your parents should first set an example. The younger generation is young and energetic and can't deal with problems. Old people can do everything well, and so can children. This is the family style. What you see is not everything. Some mothers-in-law just pretend to be good in front of their sons and pretend to be good behind their sons. It's really silly to give away the daughter-in-law they paid for.

I don't think any daughter-in-law will make trouble to scold her mother-in-law. Since marriage is definitely for a better life, it is really useless except to destroy family relations.

But as a middleman, you must understand that your parents raised you, so it is your duty to be kind to your parents. But as for your wife, the people who raised her were her parents. If she is kind to your parents, you should be grateful. Even if she is estranged from your parents, as long as she maintains basic etiquette and does not interfere with your filial piety, her responsibility will be fulfilled.