How do boys introduce themselves to be attractive?

Many people can't speak, which sounds like a fable. In fact, there are many such examples in real life. Let me share with you how to say that boys introduce themselves to be attractive. Welcome to read.

The self-introduction of male guests is to sell themselves, to make women accept themselves, not to make women reject themselves. Therefore, in order to successfully hold hands with women, several principles should be grasped in self-introduction.

Important principles

First, self-introduction should satisfy women's vanity. Women are the most practical, because life can't be separated from rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea, and life can't be separated from food, clothing, housing and transportation. If you don't talk about reality, you have to talk about it, but if you talk about reality, you will have vanity. Self-introduction should firmly grasp this point. It is an objective phenomenon that women have vanity, so there is no need to avoid it, nor can they avoid it, nor can they blame it. Therefore, this vanity of women must be satisfied in self-introduction, and the self-introduction of male guests will only satisfy their vanity if they reassure women.

second, introduce yourself objectively and to the point. No one is perfect, so everyone has a lot of shortcomings, but if he can grow up to now, he will certainly have many advantages. The advantages should be fully described, and the disadvantages should be artistically described. Let women feel that they should have this shortcoming, or it doesn't matter if they have this shortcoming. Introducing your own shortcomings can also give women confidence. Overexaggerating your own shortcomings will make women feel insecure, so I really don't want to hold hands if you are the one.

both the government work report and the party work report are well written and can inspire people. It is because the achievements are in place and the shortcomings are impressive. To put it bluntly, when introducing achievements, we should say that achievements are achieved through subjective efforts; When introducing shortcomings, we should say that they are caused by objective reasons, and only talk about minor shortcomings. Don't say much and don't analyze them in depth. When have we seen a long report about shortcomings? This is not to avoid medical treatment, but to show more sunshine.

It's more pertinent to express the ideal girl in your heart. Don't make any demands on women just because you feel good about yourself. That's what narrow-minded men do and it's an immature performance. A man who does great things must be broad-minded and will not be too picky about a woman's own conditions.

Third, introduce yourself modestly. It's better to be tactful. Modesty is also a virtue. There are still differences between China and western countries. Don't say "yes" or "yes". This statement sounds confident. If the female guests are rebellious, it will be sad to give you a collective light-off. It is more appropriate to use the words "follow the fate, strive for it, and try to satisfy it". This is modesty and respect for objectivity, because the earth is spinning, not just for you. There are too many uncertain factors in life, so don't easily affirm or deny anything. Modesty comes not only from language, but also from expression. Humble words in the mouth, arrogant and supercilious in the body, will turn off the lights.

Under the attention of the first blind date

In fact, what makes blind date so happy is that you don't have to be so nervous and depressed. Let it go. Don't treat a woman as your object, treat her as a good friend, and talk openly like a good friend, which will be better. (The same is true for women)

Now blind date is not like blind marriage and dumb marriage in ancient times. Marry a chicken with a chicken and marry a dog with a dog. Today's matchmakers are not as wicked as they used to be. (As you know, the previous matchmakers scolded them: Don't be a middleman, don't be a guarantor, don't be a matchmaker for three generations.) Today's matchmakers are just matchmakers, and they still have to rely on themselves for their later work. (Don't the matchmaker guarantee you to have a son?)

Let's talk about the strategy next:

Generally, the matchmaker takes you to the woman's place to meet, and if you meet her eyes, you have to ask her for her number. If you don't like it, you should leave yourself a way back. If you don't think you are suitable, you can call it: be friends. After that, you can also tell her to introduce her friends. She will also introduce you if she has a good girlfriend, and the most important thing is to keep a spare tire network.

It's nothing more than eating a meal and drinking tea. (Generally, restaurants, hot pots and tea bars are the first choices. If you go to eat, you should pay attention to your eating, chew slowly and don't make a sound, giving people a feeling of being a scholar without losing elegance. (The left hand pays attention to chopsticks, and I am left and right. I should use my right hand for blind date, because the first sentence she said to her mother when she went home was, ten left-handed. Don't eat in a hurry after serving. You should use unused chopsticks to carry food for the other party. (She will feel that this man is very careful.) If you want to carry food for the other party, please ask the waiter to get another pair of chopsticks.

We can talk over dinner. What are we talking about? Some people will be a little nervous for the first time. You can start with your career, and then talk about your family, all aspects of their personalities. Be confident in your current career, even if it is not very good, show that your current career is far from your goal, that you are not satisfied with the status quo, that you are enterprising and self-motivated, and that you have a bright future.

don't talk too much during the dinner (the main thing is that you can talk about the same topics, like I am very easy-going and I can cut into any topic you want (more or less)). If you talk too little, you will be accused of being too honest and not making any breakthroughs in your career. If you talk too much, you will be accused of talking too much and talking too much. Such a person is not safe. (So it's hard for other men to do it.) There may be some humorous words during the dinner, talking and laughing, which can also ease the embarrassment for the first time.

You may still have time after dinner. You can go shopping and watch movies.

if you go shopping (if a blind date looks at a dress, will you pay for her? There are many men talking about this topic. Personally, I think there should be fewer girls who want you to pay for the first blind date. If you buy it, she will think that you are the same to others, and if you don't pay, she will think to herself (why am I so stupid when I meet you? I haven't forgotten what others gave you! )

It may happen that I don't have enough money to buy (omit 1 words here)

If you watch a movie, you should first ask the other person's opinion. If you have to choose a romantic movie or a comedy (a woman is a fantasy animal, she will fantasize about the sweet love of the hero and heroine in the movie and imagine the man and herself around her), watching a comedy will make you both laugh heartily, that is, relieve.

The first time two people are together, there is only laughter and happiness, and they completely forget their past, making her/him feel happy with this person around them, which is a feeling that has not happened for a long time. Note: If you enter this step, congratulations on your love.

It should be late after the movie, so I have to send someone home. (I insist on sending her home on the grounds that I have to take responsibility for bringing you out.) After you get home, pay attention: you can try to say jokingly: I sent you home to repay me, let my brother hug you, and talk and act. (generally speaking, I will say no, but it is actually half-hearted. Apologize if I push you away. If it's anti-hug, then it's kiss. When you get home, you have to be besieged by text messages and phone calls. You must not neglect the recent text messages and phone calls. This is the most critical moment. Don't drop the chain.