Why do weddings and funerals have to be staged in rural areas?

This is determined by traditional customs, and it is not lively because there is no one to support people. It is also a comparison with each other. Your family does it, but ours doesn't. It always seems to be inferior to our family, which is very humiliating. Therefore, weddings and funerals should be handled in a big way.

It is a great honor for the enthusiasm of the rural people to welcome weddings, funerals and weddings. Rural people are simple, kind and enthusiastic. The villagers in Shiliba Village all know what this family is like. So in rural areas, seeing off, weddings and funerals are very big things, and everyone has to pay tribute to their face. If my family doesn't do it, his family will do it, and it's done decently. We have to do it to save face. In reality, there are many situations like this. If you have no money to borrow money, you have to have a banquet, and the banquet can't be too bad. If it is too bad, it will be looked down upon. People who accompany the ceremony are also a burden. A rising tide lifts all boats. If you can't get enough money, you will continue to accumulate, which will bring a burden to every family. Therefore, rural areas should change their customs and vigorously publicize them.

Weddings are determined by traditional customs. Our country is a traditional big country, and what has been formed for thousands of years is not easy to change. Marrying a daughter-in-law is a big deal, so is losing an old man at home. There must be lively plays and lively singing, so that there will be ostentation and extravagance, firecrackers and firecrackers, and rich families will even find bands, yangko teams and singers to join in. This is determined by traditional customs, otherwise others will laugh at it. It has been such a custom for many years. Especially in rural areas, it is difficult to change, and some old ideas have not changed in places where there are old people. Children don't want to do it, but old people will. It is very laborious and expensive to arrange weddings. In some places, some tragedies have happened because of such a big operation. Therefore, it is imperative to change the customs advocated by the state. The civilization of a society and a country needs everyone to promote it.

Rural people are enthusiastic about charity, which is a virtue, but the waste of weddings and funerals is not worth the loss. In a civilized society, weddings and funerals will be respected by everyone. Do you agree with me?