After reading the goal rule, I feel the word 100.

The Law of Goals is a hardcover book by Mickey Holovitz, published by Guangdong Economic Publishing House. The price of this book is 59.00 and the number of pages is 265,438+00. I hope to help some readers.

Reflections on the law of goals (1): break down goals and realize dreams

A famous Japanese marathon runner, Yamada Benichi, won the world championship twice in the international marathons of 1984 and 1987. How did he achieve such amazing results? It turned out that before every race, he had to take a car to watch the race route carefully, and draw down the more eye-catching signs along the way, and set it as a small goal: for example, the first goal was a bank, the second goal was a strange tree, and the third goal was a tall building ... After the race started, he rushed to the first goal at a speed of 100 meters, and after reaching the first goal, he rushed to the second at the same speed. The race of more than 40 kilometers was broken down into several small targets by him. The ultimate goal is ambitious, leading the direction, and the performance goal is concrete and relatively easy to achieve. When the ultimate goal is clearly broken down, when we achieve a small goal, we will be motivated in time, thus enhancing our confidence in challenging the ultimate goal. With such wisdom, Ibn Yamada defeated his powerful opponent.

Reflection on the Law of Goals (2): How to deal with the changes in the status quo and find a new direction?

In recent years, the environment is not good, and many practitioners are forced to leave their original posts and start looking for new ways out. Even the internet giants who have always earned a lot of money have reported layoffs from time to time: iQiyi will lay off 20,000 people and Ali will lay off 20,000 people ... These news make this winter particularly cold. That's not all. According to the report of McKinsey Global Institute, with the progress of science and technology, about 375 million people in the world will face re-employment in the future, of which China will account for 654.38 billion. In the face of these great changes in making a living silently, how can ordinary people find their own way out? This has become a very critical issue.

As a member of a social group, I also feel a little anxious. Therefore, when the book The Law of Goals by Napoleon Hill, the father of success, appeared in front of me, I opened it without hesitation, hoping to get some help. Hill accepted a job offer from Carnegie when he was young and visited nearly 500 successful people in politics, business, science and finance. After that, he devoted himself to studying and thinking about the successful experiences of these successful people, and repeatedly compared and studied them, and finally found the true meaning of life that people dreamed of-how to succeed.

This goal law was not written by Hill himself, but the result of painstaking research by Mickey Holovitz, who studied Hill's thoughts. Hill believes that the starting point of all achievements is a clear and passionate goal. The biggest advantage of a clear goal is that it can shape a positive attitude, eliminate the shackles of fear, doubt, depression, indecision and procrastination, emancipate the mind, and pave the way for fully practicing beliefs. Therefore, this book can be regarded as a pioneering work to guide ordinary people to success.

Target rule

Haven't scored yet

Mickey Holovitz /2022/ Guangdong Economic Publishing House

So, "what is the magical effect of clear goals?" How can we determine what we really want? Is this goal good enough? Can this goal persist to the end? What should I do if my wish still fails after my efforts? "The book" The Law of Goals "has confirmed that the questions surrounding this series of ordinary people about goals are slowly unfolded and read quietly in the middle of the night. Every chapter is a torture of one's own soul.

First of all, how do we determine what we really want? When you ask this question for the first time, some people may scoff, "joke, can I not know what I want?" Success, of course! I hope to have a lot of money and my family can live a good life! " Unfortunately, in Hill's view, this is not a real goal. Success is a broad concept. How much is a lot of money? Where did the money come from? Without defining these relationships, our goals will not be perceived by the law of attraction, so we will not get effective monitoring and feedback. Some people's trouble is that they can't find their real goals. So, how can we find our real goal? Hill provided the three-step miracle method: 1. Make a list of what you really want from life, revise it and rewrite it every day until we are psychologically and intellectually certain that we have grasped our deepest desires. Read your list every morning, noon and evening, and always think about it. Once you have set your goal, you should take it with you and take it out from time to time to read it frequently. Don't tell others what you are doing. Lest they make some negative remarks that affect their determination at will. Second, how to persevere for the goal? Lei Jun, chairman of Xiaomi Company, said with his own entrepreneurial experience, "Perhaps the biggest difference between me and other students is that others remember being very excited at that time, and after I have such a goal, I will break it down into what I want to do in the past six months, what I want to do this year, what I want to do in the past three years, and how to achieve a great goal. From time to time, I have to think about being great in the end, but how great each step is. " Lei Jun explained how to stick to the goal until success with practical actions. Hill believes that persistence is a state of mind and can be cultivated. Generally speaking, persistence is based on the eight character strengths of tough people. These eight personalities are: clear purpose, full desire, self-reliance, clear plan, accurate knowledge, cooperation, willpower and habit. When we have difficulties in achieving our goals in Lu Yu, we should have confidence and courage and firmly believe that "it can't stop me". 3. What should I do if my wish fails? It is true that the realization of any wish will not be smooth sailing. Many times, even if we do everything right, failure may exist. But it is not necessarily lasting, frustrating or permanent. We should learn to recover from it: the recovery of the project, a higher perspective, stability, patience and persistence, and complete the work with the greatest efforts and integrity. In this way, it is possible to achieve the goal. You know, the realization of the goal must be the result of hard work. Without hard work, there will never be success. There are still some goals that can be right even if they don't bring us fame and fortune. At this time, you can make a clear goal. For example, if we love writing, but we can't support ourselves by writing, then we can classify it as our personal goal.

Target rule

Haven't scored yet

Mickey Holovitz /2022/ Guangdong Economic Publishing House

Reflections on the Law of Goal (III): The Law of Goal —— A Deep Interpretation of think and grow rich's Self-cognition Theory One Hundred Years ago.

The theoretical basis in this book is derived from Napoleon Hill's successful theory "think and grow rich" in the early 20th century, which is nearly 100 years ago. Mount Napoleon is also famous. He was a successful philosophy tutor and influenced two American presidents. It's a household name in the United States, and it's a fight with Carnegie. The key concept of "clear primary goal" put forward by him can exist for almost 100 years, which proves to be really effective. Look at the example he started with. The example of Bill Wilson. Bill is an alcoholic in the street. Through the theory of "determining the primary goal", he gradually became the founder of an internationally renowned anonymous alcoholics association, with influence all over the world. Prove that this theory is long-term effective. As we all know, smoking addiction and alcohol addiction are difficult to give up. I think any reader may want to explore it. How on earth did he do it? What happened in the end that completely overturned his life?

This is definitely not the change that chicken soup for the soul can bring. This spiritual strength, or a philosophy of life. The essence of "clear primary goal" is actually very simple, that is, describe exactly what you want and face it squarely. It's easier said than done. Because most people's ideas are subject to our habits and cultural background. We think what we want, but we never really test it. It is those demands that are hidden in the bottom of my heart and cannot be freely expressed. For example, an extrovert often likes to show his face. You may find that what you really want is a person. This kind of experience, in fact, I have it myself. My job is a salesman. What sales need to do is to keep active contact and deal with others every day. But I can actually feel it vaguely. Deep down, I am an introverted person. So do I really want to succeed in this field? Or do I have to admit my introversion to get essential happiness? The book says that if you can really get around these secular disguises that stand in front of you. Explore what you really want to do, then you can say that you have an epiphany.

You can also call this epiphany a higher-level goal, so that once you find it, all your energy will revolve around it, time will become more efficient, relationships will become richer, emotions will become higher, and your thinking will be broader and sharper. This book mainly tells ordinary people how to find this method of epiphany and find a way to "define the primary goal". The goal is to take it to sleep at night and to work in the morning. This goal is definitely no longer a simple desire, but a burning desire. Only this absolute goal can bring us the desired results.

When I saw this passage, I felt very similar to Wang Yangming's mind in China. "Unity of knowledge and action" is almost the same meaning. Avoid worldly thoughts that block the true desires in your heart, and respect the lowest desires. For this lowest desire for justice, do what is beneficial to it truthfully. Only in this way can we succeed. This feeling includes self-esteem and honesty. Only by truly facing your inner desire can people around you feel your sincerity.

This book also lists how to find your inner desire in a very practical way. He must meet three conditions. The first is that you love something and specialize in the corresponding field, and judge that this project or activity is not only beneficial to you, but also beneficial to others. The author calls it the effective focus triangle. Only in this way can we keep our actions on the right track. Sounds like that popular proverb. Get serious and the whole world will help you. There are many detailed methodologies in the book. How to determine what you really want to do? How to keep yourself from deviating from the right track? How to polish your goals? How to face setbacks? I won't go into too many details. Go and see for yourself. In fact, the theoretical core of making people active and happy is the same at all times and all over the world. No matter what Taoism, Buddhism, Christianity, modern psychology, management, success. . . The difficult thing is how to make yourself understand and find the way that suits you best. To change yourself. I think this book is very suitable for rational, objective and scientific readers.

Generally speaking, it feels more like an in-depth interpretation of Napoleon Hill's think and grow rich. It can also be understood as think and grow rich's refined generalization and modern explanation. Interspersed with the author's own personal feelings in the research process. Since it is an in-depth interpretation and analysis of think and grow rich and Napoleon Hill's theory, we can actually write the title of think and grow rich directly on the title, such as the subtitle "Modern Interpretation of think and grow rich". In this way, readers will be more clear, because if I don't read the text, I really don't know that the whole book is based on this think and grow rich. This is also a small suggestion. Well, if I buy the book "The Law of Goals", I think the best way is to buy another book "think and grow rich" and read it with me. Isn't this more convenient to understand?

Hardcover books have high paper quality. The workmanship is very exquisite. The cover design is also the simple and modern one I like. After opening the cover, I found that the cover of the book itself is also very beautiful. Early 200 pages thick. There are many cases in the content, which are easy to understand. This is an advantage. You can read it in an afternoon. Or you can extract classic sentences and learn them again and again. Strengthen your memory. This book is not a comfort book for chicken soup, but a book that tells people how to manage themselves and improve themselves. It also helps to solve the problem that people are generally anxious and trapped in bad habits from a pragmatic perspective. Maybe other friends will talk to me about the stress and anxiety in my life in the future, and when I encounter many troubles, I will also recommend this book to him for him to read.

Reflection on the Law of Goals (IV): The Law of Goals: How to Determine Your Clear Primary Goal (DCA)?

I'm sorry, I can't show you a literary work about the feelings of this book with ups and downs and gorgeous rhetoric. What I can give is my personal experience after the action. What I can guarantee is that there is no nonsense. )

"This book is written for practical dreamers and doers. It doesn't help those who are eager for success, but sleeps in front of the flashing TV with a big bag of potato chips; It can only help those who are eager to pursue success in business, art, professional inventions or other special fields. " -Mickey Holovitz "The Law of Goals"

If you are not prepared for action, this book may be another chicken soup book on the rotten street for you. If you really decide to reshape your life with actions, please open this book. This book has only120,000 words. If you swallow it, it will be finished soon. However, this is definitely not the right way to open it. The correct way is to do a thorough reflection and action every time you read a chapter, because every chapter is small and precise.

Napoleon Hill believes that those outstanding people often master this 16 rule: clear primary goals, mental masters, self-confidence, frugal habits, initiative and leadership, imagination, enthusiasm, self-control, not just doing things with money, cheerful personality, accurate thinking, concentration, cooperation, learning from failure, tolerance and the golden rule.

In the author's opinion, the first rule, that is, "clear primary goal", is the most important. In this book, the main target will be called DCA (not DNA), and the English word is "clear main target". This DCA is actually a person's life mission.

What DCA is good enough?

The requirement of DCA in the target method is: both sensibility and rationality are equally important. Passion can ensure that what you do is meaningful, and your existence is integrated with the existence of this world. Being sensible can ensure that what you do is planned and can be achieved through some professional knowledge.

How to ensure that DCA is passionate enough?

The book gives the "three-step miracle method":

First, carefully list what you really want from life.

Second, read your list every morning, noon and evening and think about it all the time.

Third, don't tell anyone what you are doing.

Whenever something hurts you, write it down quickly. Enough recording, you will find what you really like. This process may last for many days, even half a month.

After I found DCA according to the three-step miracle method, my first feeling was surprise. In fact, my DCA has always been my concern, and it is something I am familiar with, but it seems a bit strange that I have not raised it to a high enough position.

The second feeling is moving. I often feel confused and don't know what I want. I didn't realize it was always there until I saw the DCA I combed out. As for what my DCA is, I'm sorry, it's confidential at this time. )

If you really haven't found it yet, you can refer to the author's suggestion and arrange a "miracle week" for yourself to enjoy the most beautiful things every day, such as literature, art, music, philosophy and so on.

"miracle week"

Read a biography of a dreamer. I recommend Steve Jobs by Walter Isaacson.

Attend a class or seminar where you can devote yourself wholeheartedly, such as martial arts, yoga or sculpture.

Go to as many places as possible. Choose different routes to work, go home, and go to a friend's house.

Interpret politics from different angles. Read a book by an author who runs counter to your point of view, such as the liberal capitalist Ann? Democratic socialists Ayn Rand and michael harrington.

Listen to prokofiev's Piano Concerto No.1 and Beethoven's Symphony No.9.

Listen to modern classical music, such as J Adams's opera Nixon in China.

Watch some movies that describe the spirit of the first step in different forms, such as Good Life, The Most Violent Year and Miracle on Ice.

Read Ralph Waldo Emerson's article "Reliance, Compensation and Spirit".

Spend a day alone visiting a new city, visiting museums, libraries and local historical or cultural attractions. If you can't spare a day, use your lunch time to visit nearby historical sites or museums.

Do: Plant something or do something, such as restoring an antique.

If you watch TV, watch some high-quality TV dramas, such as Revisiting the Old Places, Parade Sen or Hero Show.

Start reading a great novel, such as George Orwell's 1984. Austin's Pride and Prejudice, and even braam stock's Dracula.

If you haven't found it yet, you can also look for Holland's career interest test online. After doing it, you must have a general direction (this is my suggestion, not the author's).

How to ensure that DCA is wise enough?

The author quoted the formula of Napoleon Hill's think and grow rich, as shown in the following figure.

This formula means: "imagination that combines your ideas and professional knowledge with organized planning", or "imagination connects ideas and professional knowledge in the form of organized planning (not daydreaming)"

The ability molded by this formula will build a bridge between people's thoughts and actions, and finally bring sufficient concentration and realization possibility to DCA.

How to operate specifically? You need to continue to polish your goals and expand them into a personal mission statement (including the following four points).

First, you need to write your DCA in a new document.

Second, you need to list how much money you intend to earn from DCA and the corresponding deadline.

Third, you need to write down the services or products you want to provide to earn money.

Fourth, you need to attach the following paragraph to the bottom of the document and sign your name.

Then you will have a complete personal mission statement. You need to make a "transaction" before you officially start the action. In this "transaction", you need to hand over all your sadness, resentment and hatred, and your return is complete liberation.

This is actually forgiveness. It seems that forgiveness has nothing to do with the goal. In fact, to forgive others is to forgive yourself. Only by sincerely forgiving everyone who has hurt ourselves can we exert our greatest potential, become more efficient and charming, have unique energy and leadership, and become greater people.

How to do it specifically?

The author recommends nine steps in Richard Morris's Trading: starting, concentrating, letting go of the present, letting go of the past, letting go of others, ending, taking action, integrating and strengthening (see the original for details).

I follow these nine steps one by one.

Because I knew a little about NLP before, this "transaction" is the application of inner vision to human inner senses. I did try this and it worked very well. So this time, I simply made this "transaction" completely. As a result, I completely let go of all the pain I suffered in my family, workplace and intimate relationship, as well as the resentment that resulted from it. What I want to say is: I am free.

If you complete this "transaction", you can start action immediately as planned. You can first give yourself a 30-day spiritual challenge and adjust your past behavioral inertia. You need to write a paragraph like this:

There is no doubt that there will be difficulties and bumps. At this time, please remember these six words:

It can't stop me! ! !