What is the law of pleasure in suffering?

In the unhappy life, humor can help you relieve your worries, lighten the burden of life, and treat life with humor, so that you won't always be cynical and full of complaints.

When a person wants to tell a joke, a short story, or a witticism or an anecdote, the safest goal is himself. If you are making fun of yourself, who will be unhappy? Mark Twain once said such a quip to make fun of a political colleague: "He is a humble man, and he has many things that make him humble." If the "he" in Mark Twain's quip is changed to "I", it will be even worse. Because, our correct attitude should be: whenever you want to criticize, complain, or make suggestions for correction, the "I" view must be the most ideal.

If we all set ourselves as the goal of humor, then we can only convey information and express our views, but not attack others. "A conceited person has a low appetite and is more interested in himself than I am."

"I'm not old, just to the prime of life. It's just that it took me more time than others to reach the prime of life. " There are many celebrities, especially actors, who are good at making fun of themselves to communicate with others. They silence themselves with features that are generally considered unattractive. A chubby actress said, "I dare not put on a white bathing suit and go swimming at the seaside." As soon as I go, the air force flying in the sky will be very nervous, thinking that they have discovered some country. "

British writer Guista once said humorously, "I am three times kinder than others, because if I give up my seat on the bus, three people can sit down at the same time." Celebrities not only joke about their faces to achieve perfect communication, but also often make fun of themselves by making up stories. In the radio program, Jack Benny and Freren made up their enemies for the audience. Frey insisted that Jack's humor was read from the manuscript, and a short play writer wrote the manuscript for him. Frey joked, "Jack Banny couldn't make himself burp after eating a big Hungarian meal." President Lincoln often communicates with the audience by joking with himself. Once, he told such a story. Sometimes I feel like an ugly person. One day, I met an old woman while walking in the forest. The old woman said, "You are the ugliest person I have ever seen." "No way." He replied. "No, I don't think so!" The old woman said, "at least you can stay at home!" " Being ugly is a bitter thing, but Lincoln used it to make fun of it, which fully showed his open mind and extraordinary personality charm. It rained heavily for several days. I met a colleague from a company. A man said, "Why does it always rain this day?"

An honest colleague replied as usual, "Yes, it has been six days."

A colleague who likes to work overtime said, "Hey, Jinlong also wants to get more bonuses and even work overtime for several days."

Another colleague who cares about the municipal government said: "The housing management office forgot to repair the house, so it always leaks."

Another colleague who loves literature is even more humorous: "Shh! Keep your voice down, and don't disturb the Jade Emperor to read a long tragedy. " Continuous rain causes a lot of inconvenience and annoyance, but humorous people can enjoy it. This is the charm of taking pains.