Middle-aged man met his first love at a class reunion and accidentally learned that his wife was cheating. Should I get a divorce?

Different people get married with different attitudes, and every marriage can actually lead us to find some truth. For example, you must choose divorce after cheating, but many people may not be so determined to make this choice when they encounter such a situation. Because there are too many things involved. A few days ago, a middle-aged man said that he was very happy when he met his first love at a class reunion, but when he got home, he was surprised to learn that his wife had cheated. He doesn't know whether he should get a divorce. Netizens also began to offer suggestions, and in my personal opinion, I think this man should choose divorce.

0 1. I was in a good mood when I met my first love.

When people were young, most people once had a crush on someone, and this person who likes to have a crush may be his classmate at that time, but when they are young and middle-aged, it is another feeling to recall. When organizing a class reunion, I may meet my lover at that time, and this man has encountered such a situation. He didn't expect that when people meet again in middle age, they can even meet their first love occasionally while eating. Of course, the news was known a few days before the party, but in fact he was very happy. When his wife saw this happiness, she probably guessed seven or eight points and didn't say much.

In fact, so far, I have felt that this relationship is not as beautiful as I imagined. Everyone may have had an ex or first love, and there may be a knot when we meet again, but that is the past after all. The man standing next to us is the one we will go with in the future. But this man has shown unprecedented happiness, which is obviously irresponsible to his wife. How sad it would be if his wife knew. However, the wife did not ask after seeing her husband happy. This proves that the wife has actually wiped her eyes and paid no attention to her husband's behavior.

02. It's hard to get back together when my wife is cheating.

Later, the man was surprised to learn that his wife was cheating. So far, in fact, he feels that his mentality has collapsed, because he may not have felt how much problem their marriage is before, and after so many years together, he is a complete family. He doesn't know whether he should choose to forgive his cheating wife.

Actually, personally, I think we should get a divorce. For a woman, when she chooses to cheat, it means that she has lost confidence in this marriage. Her infidelity is not only physical infidelity, but also psychological infidelity. As we said at the beginning, the wife's indifference to men also shows that she doesn't love you. I don't know why, only when a woman doesn't love you, she will have no restrictions on your behavior. Now that her heart for you is gone, even if you have a second chance, you will never go back.