What should I do if I meet such a boy (I am a girl, grade three)?

If 1L says that the possibility that they have a good impression on you is zero, then there is only the opposite. It may be because some of your previous behaviors upset them, and some languages upset them, so they are not pleasing to the eye or even disgusted with you.

Their words and deeds are almost offensive, which is a typical performance of ignoring the feelings of others. Children in Grade Three are at the peak of rebellious youth. In the words of our previous generation, rebellious children are the craziest, especially boys, who mature later than girls.

So, before you know what minefield your words and deeds have violated (even if the scope of this minefield is unreasonable), there are probably two songs you can do:

A, report to the teacher, ask the teacher to help coordinate and solve.

B, calm down and pretend nothing happened.

Looking down, you can't see that this has lost interest.

Asking teachers to report this practice will be considered a very cowardly performance in junior high school. So I think you probably won't take it, because I also think this method is very timid, but it is really short-lived and effective. Even if the teacher doesn't like you, once you mention this situation, the teacher will pay more or less attention. If you can't catch it for a while, you may catch it one day, and the fox's tail will always be exposed, so complaining is just to "bury the roots." Although I have always known that teachers in grade three can't control students at all, especially naughty boys. But don't be too pessimistic. Human feelings are so sophisticated. How can there be so many teachers who really think about their students? In the end, they abandoned their conscience and morality for profit. Although there are sincere and good teachers, there are still few. )

Calm down, don't submit to humiliation.

Junior high school students are so stingy, so their future is really hard to predict.

They don't understand, so you can't follow them The purpose of doing this is to make you angry and humiliate you. If you are angry, won't you let them get what they want? So if you don't want them to get what they want, just smile silently and say nothing. In this case, they didn't achieve their goal, so they will be annoyed!

Maybe you will think that they didn't achieve their goal the first time, and they will definitely come back for you next time, but they are not ~

Let's discuss it in categories.

The reason why they come to bully you is to take pleasure in your angry appearance. If you are angry, then they will be happy. If they are happy, they will be happy. For fun, they will come back to you next time, and it will be more and more frequent (just brush it if you have nothing to do, as you said, everyone obviously laughed, why do you say that you influenced them alone? Because your bullying and anger make them happy.

Then if you don't get angry and let them see that their actions have no influence on you at all, then they will definitely come to tease you at first. But people are patient. You never give them pleasure. On the contrary, they keep coming to you. They pick on you, pick on you, pester you, and you don't respond at all. This is obviously their fault. People have a conscience. When they can't find pleasure in you, they will find an excuse to say that they pity you and sympathize with you. Anyway, they won't cut off their own money.

In fact, I think the second method is more effective, at least to calm myself down and not pin my hopes on others.

If you are really calm, it means that after this, you have matured and grown up.

People always need to learn something when they encounter some difficulties. If I survive this time, I am impressed, and I will know how to deal with this kind of thing in the future. Treat people and things rationally.

PS: Also, it seems that among students, girls who are mature and sensible and don't talk much are also very popular, which is a kind of personality charm. A calm and easy-going person will make people feel safe, and the breath emitted by the whole person will make people involuntarily want to get close and irresistible. Such people are very attractive, haha, maybe you can train them from now on!

Impulse is the devil ~ ~ ~