Look at people on the wine table.

Everyone is the moon, and there is always a dark side that no one can see. -Mark Twain

0 1 Most people only think of themselves and won't consider you. Don't be silly.

2020. 1.3, last Friday, our company held a year-end party. There were many people and it was very festive.

The opening ceremony of the party is the same as that of the school. The headmaster made an opening speech, our general manager and two leaders of other companies made speeches, followed by small game interaction, eating, lottery and red envelopes. ...

After three rounds of rice, two colleagues in our department suddenly stood up, as if toasting at another wine table. I asked: Are you going to propose a toast to General X? I'll go, too. Give me one. No, this is our business relationship, not yours.

I just stood up and sat down, put down my glass, and felt a bitter feeling in my heart. I asked myself, why did they leave me?

The more I think about it, the more entangled I am.

Forget it. If you don't take me, I'll toast myself. A table near the stage in the middle of the front row. I glanced and saw the light reflected by the chairman's gold-rimmed glasses. I am under a lot of pressure.

Many people gathered there to propose a toast to the leaders, whether it was workplace flattery or wine etiquette, it was no problem. Working all the year round, the leader rarely shows up, and basically the dragon has disappeared. I should also show myself at this rare opportunity, at least let the leaders know.

At this time, my master (supervisor) called me over and said to me, "Xiao Wang, you should learn from others and see how they do it!" "

Me: Brother Sun, I know what you mean. Just now they said they didn't want me to go, so I didn't go.

Sun: They told you not to go, so you didn't go? Leave when it's time to go! Go ahead, no one can stop you, no matter who can stop you! Even if you make a fool of yourself on this occasion, it doesn't matter what you say wrong. Most leaders will say that young people are courageous and not afraid of things. It's none of your business to make a fool of yourself and say the wrong thing. You have to go. Is there anyone you don't know on that table?

Me: I don't know two people. I don't know how to say hello.

Sun: It doesn't matter if you don't know. Just call the leader directly. Briefly introduce yourself and what companies and departments do ... (a lot)

Then, I followed the crowd into the toast team. To tell the truth, I don't want to do this kind of thing, but I have to do it if I want to get along well in the workplace. In order to survive, I can only grit my teeth.

I poured a glass of white wine and walked over. After running around, several leaders were very happy. Basically, I wish me to continue to work hard in the new year and hope that I can make great progress.

Once born, twice cooked. This time, I really pushed myself. I also saw the dark places of human nature.

No matter how much you drink, I'm advising you to drink. Don't be silly.

It is often said that a person's personality can often be clearly seen on the wine table.

Why do you say that? Alcohol has an anesthetic effect, which can make people forget their troubles temporarily, but it is difficult for many people to control their behavior after drinking. Therefore, it is the easiest to see a person's true face on the wine table.

People who like to persuade people to drink on the wine table are extremely dark inside. Their position is not high, although it is not the lowest level, it is indeed an embarrassing level. When they see people who are better than him and who mix well with him, they are full of envy and hatred. They are usually depressed for a long time, afraid of being seen by others. So this kind of person has the opportunity to show off, get back at others on the wine table, say you can't do it in front of the leader or fan the flames to let you drink, that's all.

Such people are disgusting. No matter how much you drink, he won't care about your health. Desperately let you drink alone and watch your jokes.

Only respect leaders and treat others as air.

You can tell at a glance who is a real villain and who is a hypocrite.

Some people are dark inside because they make their influence and behavior too ostentatious. So his lower classes look down on him, look down on him, speak ill of him and scold him. These people only give a toast to the leaders on the wine table, and other people at the same level scoff, with impatient and sloppy faces. These people put their own interests first, and only curry favor with those who are useful to them. Others are no different from the air in their eyes. They also show their snobbery when they do things, which makes the lower classes breathless and suffocating.

Talking about other people's embarrassing things on the wine table, but you are complacent.

These people are also very insidious and annoying.

They can't see you. If you do well, he says you should do it. You're not doing well. I'm sorry, you're finished. He will kill you.

They can't hide the goodness of others, so they never say anything about their goodness. They like to talk about other people's anecdotes, and they talk about them everywhere, and sometimes they even let go of other people's anecdotes. This kind of person is often complacent when he speaks, and he can't wait to let everyone know that he is well-informed and well-informed than anyone else.

Of course, when this kind of person first gets along with you, you will find it interesting and willing to walk around him, but after a long time, it will be boring. Therefore, once such people say a few words on the wine table, it is easy to make the atmosphere awkward.

Finally, let's end with a sentence from Mr. Hu Shi. I hope we can all discover the villains and their dark sides in life after the experience.

"Yesterday, I became what I am today.

Don't think about it, let alone mourn.

from now on

How to harvest and how to plant. "

Text/candied haws without skin

2020. 1.7