Why do women finally regret it?

For women, marriage is like a gamble with an unknown outcome. After winning the bet, it is a beautiful world, and after losing the bet, it is a purgatory on earth. Therefore, women must carefully consider whether the marriage partner is suitable before marriage, and never get married on impulse, and it is too late to regret it later.

My friend Fluttershy is 25 years old. She accidentally fell in love with a middle-aged uncle, a customer of Fluttershy Company. In a project cooperation, two people developed feelings. This uncle is very kind to Fluttershy, and his economic conditions are very good, but because of their age difference, Fluttershy is afraid to tell his family. Recently, this uncle began to propose to Fluttershy and promised to treat her for life, but Fluttershy didn't know what to do. When Fluttershy told us this, we fully understood her complicated feelings. After all, middle-aged men also have their charm, but there are still many hidden dangers in the marriage mode of "being old and strong".

Of course, with the change of people's concept, "being old and widowed" is not uncommon. There are also many women who marry people older than themselves and live happily. However, marriage can't look at the best side of a man, because chicken feathers in marriage life will only expose the worst side of a man. I happen to know a story about "losing my wife when I was old". After telling this story to Fluttershy, she also made her own judgment.

At the age of 26, Zhao Xi married her husband who was 18 years older than her. Now they have been married for ten years. In fact, Zhao Xi's married life said that happiness is also happiness. After all, her husband has hugged her everywhere in his life. After they had their own children, her husband hired a nanny to take care of them, which made Zhao Qian feel at home. During those years of marriage, Zhao Xi felt more confident, all of which came from her husband's superior conditions. Zhao Qian's only regret is that her husband can't fit into his own circle.

Although people all accept the concept of "getting older and losing wives", when this scene appears, you must never point fingers. I dare not take him to meet my classmates for fear that they will laugh at me. After all, everyone around me is married to my peers. The novelty of marriage soon faded, and Zhao Xi's husband began to gain weight. Zhao Qian has a special beer belly for middle-aged people. She is very disgusted with her husband's growing belly. Although her husband also went to the gym to lose weight, she still felt dissatisfied. Looking at her friends' handsome young husbands, Zhao Xi couldn't express her jealousy. After ten years of marriage, my husband has gradually matured. Sometimes Zhao Qian can't help but abandon her. Even if her husband wants to do something intimate, Zhao Xi will feel sick.

Many people choose to be together when they are young, but after all, time and tide wait for no man. Two couples who are too different in age may meet each other's needs at first, but as time goes on, some things are slowly changing. For men, before marrying a young wife, it is best to find out whether she can always accompany you; For a woman, before marrying a man older than herself, she should also know that this man will be older than herself, and she can take risks.

To sum up, the marriage mode of "old man with few wives" can't escape the ending of one party getting old first. The sooner you know this ending, the better, which will also enable you to consider it more comprehensively when choosing a marriage.